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nature_dad

26 / M / Bisexual / Seeing someone

Lincoln, Nebraska

His Details

Last Online
Jun 14
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Nature, outdoors, exploring, wildlife, extremes........these are a few things I live for! I'm a high energy person but not ALL the time, I like to mellow out at home with my son or with friends too. I like spending time alone working on projects,making art, making ridiculous faces in the mirror but I love socializing as well; meeting new people sharing ideas and having stimulating conversations about everything under the sun. Fun topics: sexuality(polyamory, gender bending and breaking, kink, etc..) spirituality(theosophy, shamanism, the occult, paganism, Pam-theism,psychedelics), self sustaining agriculture, the paradigm shift( if we don't participate we're fucked), para-psychology, psychedelic science, cosmic consciousness, feminism, ecological issues, zoology, child psychology(the absorbent mind), childhood education (unschooling) and a shit ton more.
I should probably say this right off the bat, I am Queer and a Feminist, I hang around with LGBTQA folk, I'm Polyamorous but don't have a problem being exclusive in the right relationship, and some dear friends of mine are dirty smelly train hopping hippies/crustys. When I say Feminist its rather radical, I'm not alive to "beat around the bush"; I want to help other men own up to their privilege in a patriarchal society.
I'm really into body modification on a sacred level; mostly tattooing but I'd like to get into scarification as well.
I'm a compassionate, altruistic person intent on helping others. I'm a naturalist through and through. My church is the woods, my Goddesses and Gods are the trees, plants, animals, rocks; pretty much a pagan. Ya, totally cheesy.
Also I still have a great friendship with my son's mother so no worries about drama.
What I’m doing with my life
I teach three to six year old's at an alternative school on a farm. I love working with children(and being a rad dad) and am outside most of the day on nature walks or working in the garden. I'm working to start a permaculture garden that will eventually sustain the school with fruits and vegetables.
I'm Working on my Montessori certification and raising a new autonomous human, my son.
I’m really good at
peacefully calling people out when they say something fucked up (racist, sexist, homophobic etc...)
getting people together for intimate, meaningful conversation
playing old time fiddle
not taking myself to seriously(being a dork)
gardening, animal husbandry
BAD spelling
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Just for starters(a fraction):

Books: the alchemist, black elk speaks, a wrinkle in time/ a wind in the door, the archaic revival, the universe is a green dragon, the hobbit,
Authors: Terrence Mckenna, Paulo Coelho, Matthew Fox, Ram Dass, Brian Swimme, Carlos Castaneda, Kalil Gibran, Maria Montessori, Tolkien, Madeline L' Angle.

Music: tom waits, buddy holly, floyd westermen (custer died for your sins), defiance ohio, wolves in the thrown room, yes,Peaches(fuck ya sista), the magnetic fields, poison girls . I have a pretty big collection of records and my record player is almost always on. I listen to music constantly and to every genre out there. there's no such thing as to much music. Its all about the dance of life. Bands and albums that I strongly relate to or just fucking love: CRASS, Jeffery Lewis(12 crass songs), Rage Against the Machine(started me on a radical path pre-puberty), Kimya Dawson( makes me dance and cry), Ghost Mice(PLAN-IT X Fest), Tom Waits( what can I say; Lucid), David Grisman( LSD-25 +free form jazz+ Bluegrass)

Movies: Milk, Shortbus, Dark City, Herald and Maude, You Can't Take it With you, City of Lost Children, Balad of Jack and Rose
The six things I could never do without
SIX?.......... my Son, Women(mamas, sisters, lovers), pheromones, Family(not just blood), Dirt, Music(playing it and listening)
On a typical Friday night I am
hanging out with my son and with close friends, exploring an abandoned building, in the woods around a huge fire,painting and playing music by myself, really whatever feels right...... I love not knowing exactly whats going to happen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It's three in the morning( I was drunk if it makes a difference) and I totally just cried( well choked up) watching Katy Perry sing Firework.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 19–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, activity partners
You should message me if
you actually want to meet in person.... i don't have time for online relationships......I'm not online that much.