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naughtandcross

28 / M / straight / Single

Cambridge, Massachusetts

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am a musician, a writer, and a designer.

My Self-Summary

I'm from Massachusetts originally, but went to art school in Georgia.

My best friend and I wrote a screenplay that Ben Affleck actually read. I'm guessing he decided it was too much like some other hugely successful low budget indie comedy based in a retail establishment featuring wise cracking employees, thus ending my career as a screenwriter. If you want, you can read it some time or maybe you can just go rent Clerks.

After school I spent awhile playing in various bands up and down the east coast, and actually got pretty close to "making it" a few times, but ultimately decided I'd rather be an adult, which has actually worked out quite swimmingly.

I paid my dues working for various tech start-ups in and around Boston, until about 2 years ago when I landed my dream job. It's been all rainbows and unicorns ever since.

Right now, I spend most of my free time with my family and trying to put together another band. Otherwise, I have pretty typical hobbies, watching movies, listening to music, playing video games, etc, but I enjoy doing pretty much anything.

What I’m doing with my life

I design and develop websites for a video game company in Cambridge. Its pretty much the opposite of work. Seriously, I can't say enough nice things about it or the people I work with.

Do I need much of a plan beyond that? I'm not sure. I'm considering going back to school and have started looking at programs in the area, but I'm struggling with the idea of going part-time and it taking me six years to finish my degree.

I'd like to spend more time working on music, writing, and my artwork, but I get enough of all three at work to keep me happy for the time being.

The first things people usually notice about me

I am introverted and definitely reserved at first, but I warm up quickly. So maybe the better question is what do people usually notice about me second...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

The six things I could never do without

- My friends
- My family
- A reason to laugh
- The game of baseball
- An in-tune guitar
- ...and a sixth item for this list

I spend a lot of time thinking about

- Buying a bmx bike followed immediately by doing sweet tricks on said bike
- Hopping on a plane to Vegas just to get an in-n-out burger (w/fries)
- How to improve my fantasy football team

On a typical Friday night I am

a) Working on a song for my solo record that is due out in the fall of 2017.

b) Watching the Sox game

c) Both a and b.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

This isn't really "private" per se, but I believe in ghosts. I know that it more or less defies logical explanation, but that shit is real!

You should message me if

...you can string words together to form complete sentences. No seriously.