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35 Austin, TX Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:22am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hmmmmm, well I'm going through a transition now where I'm re-evaluating a lot of things. For some reason I want to throw dating back on top of all the other things.

I don't know what I'm looking for right now but want to meet people and have fun and see what's possible.

I don't really like my job and am trying to figure out what else I can do. This is so much harder than it feels like it should be.

I play a lot of tennis (at least at this time, it's my greatest love).

I'm looking for a lot in a partner, but it really comes down to someone who is open and honest and aware of themselves. I love meeting smart, engaged and passionate people. And as much as I would love to meet someone, I'm also excited to meet new friends and find new things to do around Austin.

There's too much to say in this section. Just ask if you have any questions. I'm generally a very open person.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Still trying to figure this one out. I'm generally out playing a lot of tennis and trying to find a place of peace and calm in my all too often cluttered and kinetic mind.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking and feeling and talking. I can write well and argue my points. I am good with kids and animals.

I'm a good friend and can talk people through things and help them think and feel their way through issues. I can pull apart the world to make sense of it but the hard part is putting it back together again. Or finding a reason to in the bleakness that can overwhelm at times.

I am fairly funny and can make people laugh and feel at ease and let down their guard. I can also get people to open up to me even if they are people who usually do not open up.
The first things people usually notice about me
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This seems like a stupid section that's set up for us to project what we want others to see. I don't know. I wear glasses sometimes. I have brown skin I guess...a beard.....girls usually say my eyes are pretty...also they seem to like my long eyelashes. But the first thing people notice about me? I have no idea. If we meet, let me know and I'll adjust this field appropriately.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Where the Red Fern Grows, For Whom the Bell Tolls, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy...and Dirk Gently, God of Small Things, The Shock Doctrine, Franny and Zooey and of course lots more.
Movies: So many. Kira's Reason, The Celebration, Amelie, Eternal Sunshine, Punchdrunk Love, Pi, Requiem for a Dream.
Music: Bjork, Sigur Ros, Buke & Gase, Radiohead, Blood Brothers, Shannon Wright, Olaf Arnalds, At The Drive-In, Nick Cave/Birthday Party, Murder By Death, Refused and more.
TV: The Wire, Six Feet Under, Arrested Development, In Treatment, American Horror Story, Archer, Venture Bros.
Food: Asian!!! Chinese, Thai, Vietnamese, Korean, Japanese. I love Indian. Greek/Middle Eastern. I love Dim Sum and Tappas.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Cat - Persephone
Family - This one is always very complicated and messy but important nonetheless.
Friends - I have too few in Austin and need new good ones.
Music - The best thing ever!
Words & Thoughts - That's right! I'm putting these together as one thing.
Tennis - I cannot even begin to explain or understand my love of this game. I should have gone the route of trying to be a professional player.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the Universe and Everything
That phrase always pops into my head. In reality, it encompasses my answer quite nicely. But to elaborate, I spend a lot of time thinking about the world and the events and problems in it. Also the fantasy of a life completely other that I can get lost in and never return to a single thing that I "Know."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually tired after the week and wanting to rest so I can play tennis early on Saturday morning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I struggle with believing in love sometimes but I'm a romantic at heart.
You should message me if
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I sound interesting. You think we'd get along. You want to be friends. You're looking for something real and deep and interconnected. You aren't fake. You can emote and know what you're thinking and feeling. You don't play games. You're smart, funny, compassionate. Yeah, so, that's a lot.