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34 M Austin, TX

My Details

Last Online
Jul 23
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I just got out of a relationship and am looking to meet new people. I'm not looking to date right now.

I'll write more later
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working, playing lots of tennis and trying to get out more.
I’m really good at
Thinking and feeling and talking. I can write well and argue my points. I am good with kids and animals.

I'm a good friend and can talk people through things and help them think and feel their way through issues. I can pull apart the world to make sense of it but the hard part is putting it back together again. Or finding a reason to in the bleakness that can overwhelm at times.

I am fairly funny and can make people laugh and feel at ease and let down their guard. I can also get people to open up to me even if they are people who usually do not open up.
The first things people usually notice about me
This seems like a stupid section that's set up for us to project what we want others to see. I don't know. I wear glasses sometimes...less these days. I have brown skin I guess...a beard.....most girls usually say my eyes are pretty...girls also seem to like my long eyelashes. But the first thing people notice about me? I have no idea. If we meet, let me know and I'll adjust this field appropriately.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Where the Red Fern Grows, For Whom the Bell Tolls, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy...and Dirk Gently, God of Small Things, The Shock Doctrine, Franny and Zooey and of course lots and lots more.
Movies: So many. Kira's Reason, The Celebration, Amelie, Eternal Sunshine, Punchdrunk Love, Pi, Requiem for a Dream.
Music: Bjork, Sigur Ros, Buke & Gase, Radiohead, Blood Brothers, Shannon Wright, Olaf Arnalds, At The Drive-In, Nick Cave/Birthday Party, Murder By Death, Refused and lots more.
TV: The Wire, Six Feet Under, Arrested Development, In Treatment, American Horror Story, Archer, Venture Bros. and more.
Food: Asian!!! Chinese, Thai, Vietnamese, Korean, Japanese. I love Indian. Greek/Middle Eastern. I love Dim Sum and Tappas.
The six things I could never do without
My Cat - Persephone
Family - This one is very complicated these days and I fell like I need distance from the crazy people that make up my family
Friends - I have too few in Austin and need new good ones.
Music - The best thing ever!
Words & Thoughts - That's right! I'm putting these together as one thing.
Tennis - I cannot even begin to explain or understand my love of this game. I should have gone the route of trying to be a professional player.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, the Universe and Everything
That phrase always pops into my head. In reality, it encompasses my answer quite nicely. But to elaborate, I spend a lot of time thinking about the world and the events and problems in it. Also the fantasy of a life completely other that I can get lost in and never return to a single thing that I "Know."
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually tired after the week and wanting to rest so I can play tennis early on Saturday morning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I struggle with believing in love sometimes but I'm a romantic at heart.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I sound interesting. You think we'd get along. You want to be friends. You're looking for something real and deep and interconnected. You're another wanderer looking for a home or a place to stay temporarily while you find yourself. You aren't fake. You can emote and know what you're thinking and feeling. You don't play games. You're smart, funny, compassionate. Yeah, so, that's a lot. Oh yeah, and get in touch with me if you have an awesome dog that needs to be played with. I haven't had a dog in 2 years now and even though I volunteer with APA to get my fix, it isn't enough!