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57 • Lyndhurst, NJ • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 45–58
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 7:08pm
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Graduated from university
- Banking / Finance
- Doesn’t have kids
I've always been artistically inclined and as such, enjoy going to museums, people watching and even doing a little creative writing in my spare time. I keep myself fit, but I'm not a fanatic about it. I've been wanting to take up golf and who knows, maybe I will someday soon.
I love good Italian restaurants (I'm Italian myself, so I think I know what "good" means). I enjoy NYC... so much to do, so much to see... so much to experience. From something as simple as a walk across the Brooklyn Bridge... to dinner and a show.
To quote one of my favorite movie lines ~ "Who knows what the tide could bring?"
Oh, and being a good friend
The color of my eyes (they're kind of a "pea soup" green)
That I'm a "southpaw"
The Godfather - The Godfather Part II (but not Part III) - The Shawshank Redemption - Cast Away - To Kill a Mockingbird - Forrest Gump - Horsefeathers - Seven Pounds - The Time Machine - Groundhog Day - Planes Trains and Automobiles - The Graduate - On the Waterfront - Double Indemnity - Twelve Angry Men - A Hard Day's Night - The Pink Panther - Moonstruck - The Music Box - Birdman of Alcatraz - Invasion of the Body Snatchers - The Deer Hunter - His Girl Friday - Raging Bull - The Day the Earth Caught Fire - Modern Times - Midnight Cowboy - Inherit the Wind - The Grapes of Wrath - What Ever Happened to Baby Jane - The Pursuit of Happyness - Lillies of the Field - Goodfellas - American Graffiti - The Incredible Shrinking Man - Schindler's List - Goldfinger - Lust for Life - The Out of Towners (1970) - One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest - Angels with Dirty Faces - It's a Gift - Plan 9 From Outer Space - Rocky - Saving Private Ryan - Midnight Express - Lifeboat - Dr. Strangelove - Blade Runner - The Great Dictator - Planet of the Apes (original) - Lonely are the Brave - Starman - Abbott & Costello Meet Frankenstein - Saturday Night Fever - It's a Wonderful Life - Ocean's Eleven (1960) - A Night at the Opera - Dog Day Afternoon - Marty - The Defiant Ones - Being There - Manhattan - Stalag 17 - North by Northwest - Airplane (I am serious, and don't call me "Shirley")
I also enjoy those tacky Grade "Z" horror and sci-fi flicks from the 50's with those "cheesey", cheap special effects. They're priceless!
Seinfeld, King of Queens, The Big Bang Theory, Everybody Loves Raymond, Jeopardy, Two and a Half Men, Soprano's, Boardwalk Empire, Mad Men, Family Guy, Law and Order: SVU (Love Mariska Hargitay), original Star Trek reruns, Lidia's Italy, Antenna TV, the Food Channel (I like "Diners, Drive-ins & Dives"), and of course... The Honeymooner's
I'm all over the map, musically....
Sinatra, The Beatles, James Taylor, Billy Joel, Motown, almost anything 60's or 70's, British Invasion, Doo Wop, Rob Thomas, Diana Krall, Five for Fighting, Earth Wind & Fire, Nat "King" Cole, Martina McBride, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Steely Dan, Allison Krauss & Union Station, The Doors, Van Morrison, Maroon 5, Billie Holiday, Hendrix, Stevie Ray Vaughan, Spinners, Stylistics, Harold Melvin & the Blue Notes, Foreigner, Gershwin's 'Rhapsody in Blue'... and I love Jazz. Just think Charlie Parker, Thelonious Monk, Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Herbie Hancock, Dave Brubeck, etc., (you know, the really good stuff)
Believe it or not, I'm actually reading the original novel of "The Godfather". I've seen the films so many times, I can recite a lot of the dialogue, word for word. But I finally decided to get the book and actually READ it, and I'm glad I did
grilled salmon, quesadillas, a warm bagel with butter, pretzels, pasta and greens, whole grains, "naked" sweet potatoes, olive oil, greek yogurt, Nonni's almond biscotti with a cup of coffee
If you were traveling at the speed of light and you turned your headlights on... would anything happen?
Do vegetarians eat animal crackers?
How come if my car is clean and it rains, the rain gets it dirty and if it's dirty and it rains, the rain gets it clean?
If cops arrest a mime... do they bother to tell him he has the right to remain silent?
How life seems to be going by, more quickly all the time
Usually, I'm either home relaxing at the end of the long work week, or maybe meeting a friend for dinner somewhere... but no set schedule really
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