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ncbenjamin

40 M Providence, RI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:42am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Russian (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
After 20 years away living in Boston, Barcelona and, most recently, New York, I've returned to Providence. Forgot what a lovely city it is, though when I grew up here it was a lot shittier. I left a pretty great job developing digital education products for colleges to pursue my dream of writing and publishing fiction.
What I’m doing with my life
Working on a collection of short stories; doing some ed tech consulting to pay the rent and bar tabs.
I’m really good at
Procrastinating; writing imperfect sentences; holding my liquor
The first things people usually notice about me
You'd have to ask them, wouldn't you?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many books to list so some favorite authors: Don DeLillo, Alice Munro, George Saunders, Ian McEwan, Faulkner, Raymond Carver, Lorrie Moore, and many many more. Fave music: classical, garage/psychedelic, 70-80s punk, non-fey indie, anything Al Green. Food: pretty much anything that once walked the earth, swam its seas, or flew its skies.
The six things I could never do without
A good book; a great burger; Bach's piano music; my laptop; Pavement's Slanted and Enchanted; necking
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The perfect sentence.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't have a typical Friday night and hope I never do.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I take showers just because I'm bored.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating