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ncbenjamin

41 Providence, RI Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:37am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Russian (Okay), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
After 20 years away living in Boston, Barcelona and, most recently, New York, I've returned to Providence. Forgot what a lovely city it is, though when I grew up here it was a lot shittier.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just got a new job as head of instructional design for a company at the Harvard Innovation Lab (shameless name dropping I know); also casually working on various fiction writing projects
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastinating; writing imperfect sentences; holding my liquor
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'd have to ask them, wouldn't you?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many books to list so some favorite authors: Don DeLillo, Alice Munro, George Saunders, Ian McEwan, Faulkner, Raymond Carver, Lorrie Moore, and many many more. Fave music: classical, garage/psychedelic, 70-80s punk, non-fey indie, anything Al Green. Food: pretty much anything that once walked the earth, swam its seas, or flew its skies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good book; a great burger; Bach's piano music; my laptop; Pavement's Slanted and Enchanted; necking
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The perfect sentence.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have a typical Friday night and hope I never do.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I take showers just because I'm bored.
You should message me if
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you dare