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ndrphndlphn

47 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:40pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Native American
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
While always aware of
Horizon wary alligators
Must stay aware of those
Faithful few.
Staying focused yet aware of
Those kindling spirits near and far

Long story short, I am polyamorous. I've successfully navigated this discovery with my beautiful wife/partner (grownupgina) of 22 years. I am looking for other peeps to share my life with. Life is good!
What I’m doing with my life
Have work for the last 15+ years in the field of sexual violence (mostly perpetrators). Have loved the work and my colleagues/teammates who have been just as twisted as I am. Have recently (October 2013) made a shift to higher paying gig. Continuing to work with at risk folks but no longer sexual violence.

Supporting and loving my artist, novel writing, wife. Raising my two awesome teens.

Have built things in past (guitars mostly) and am wanting to expand that experience to furniture, more guitars, and at least a boat or two (a couple dinghy's and eventually a liveaboard).
I’m really good at
Listening, observing, questioning, walking, thinking, reflecting.

Recently got rid of the 4 wheeled monster and am now commuting daily to work...so am getting better at riding bike and making personal choices to lower my carbon footprint.
The first things people usually notice about me
My beautiful long black hair...
If I'm wearing my kilt then they notice that first and then my beautiful long black hair...and then how thick the beautiful long black hair is...and if your a woman then how jealous you are of my beautiful long black hair...then, "can I feel your hair..."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Any book by:
Jo Nesbo, Clive Barker, Stephen King, Tolkien, Christopher Moore, T.Thorne Coyle, Richard Schwartz, Christopher Ryan (Sex at Dawn), Chuck P., Ripley Patton, Anne Rice, to name a few.

Any movie by:
Joss Whedon, Jim Jarmusch, Werner Herzog, David Lynch, Stanley Kubrich, Guillermo del Toro, Coen Brothers, Wachowski's (right on Lana!), Quenten T., Rain Wilson, Stephen Soderbergh, Spike Jones, ...
Lately have really enjoyed Another Earth, Sound of My Voice, Contagion, Hesher (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HXKRKpvv3SU).

Tool (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGa4axAX_TM),
Metallica, Megadeth, Mozart, Miles Davis, David Friesen, Faith No More, Sepultura,Soulfly, Mike Patton, Peeping Tom
NIN (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HOJUxZizOpg) Tchaikovsky, Beethoven, Brahms, Anthrax, Trey Gunn, Portishead, Robert Fripp, Van Halen, Living Colour, Mendelssohn, Weather Report, Rodrigo y Gabriella, System of a Down, Fantamos, Mr Bungle, did I say Mike Patton?...,Primus,
Rammstein, Black Sabbath, Pantera,...to name a few.

Pizza, tiramisu, fresh fruit, chocolate,

Buildings designed by:
Frank Gehry, Zaha-Hadid, Santiago Calatrava, Frank Lloyd-Wright for starters...
Boats designed by:
Gardner, McNaughton, Benford, Kasten, Wharram,
"Jonques de Plaisance," Brewer, Hensaval, Welsford, Roberts...
The six things I could never do without
Openness
Creativity
Nature
Exploring
...in process
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Boats, buildings, change, math (getting stuck), mystery (WTF moments), my own stupidity (I often default to preoccupied attachment style...I'm always working on it), my internal process (parts shit), that's just in the last minute or so of sitting here...
On a typical Friday night I am
Taking a walk...chilling with the family...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
In answer to the query "what's under the kilt?"
A. A catered invitation only kinkfest.
B. One of those anti-aircraft gatling guns carried on warships
C. An average sized, of alright girth when erect and potentially
teeny tiny when it's cold outside...cock
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You see anything interesting...have any questions...feeling anything in particular...