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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 7
Asian, Other
Relationship Type
5' 8" (1.72m)
Body Type
Might want kids
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A curious blend of east and west. Not for the faint hearted - am a free spirit, witty, funny, fussy (at times), unabashedly honest, Intellectually curious (Geekish) with a happy-go-lucky attitude.

Have lived and worked in four continents. Now, divide my time, living and working in three cities -Hong Kong , singapore and Kuala Lumpur. Most of my months are spent in SG but Hong Kong , I call my home.

A well read, well travelled Bon-vivant - loves contemporary art, architecture, design, gastronomy , robotics, politics, analytics, football, fast machines and music.

A rare ENTP type

A right brain person with a left brain job ,

...But incase you are wondering - I do have flaws
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Non-stop learning, thriving in chaos, Living in the future (few times already) , collecting pots and pans, rugs and art . Cooking is a passion.
I have a job - and it is called Imagineering .
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Most things, women are not good at (LOL)
Kissing - its the most amazing thing
Cooking - the 2nd most amazing thing
Cleaning up the kitchen after cooking - not so amazing or amusing
Ironing clothes - only with a drink and some background music
Critical analysis of other's cooking - only when asked to
Throwing (real) parties - at home
Laughing at myself
Finding and chasing out cockroaches
Displaying my superficial side
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Things that are not good about me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many to mention here - oh wait a moment yeah favorite food are : Caviar, romanesco artichokes, white asparagus (from Holland), carpaccio of kobe beef topped with little shavings of white truffle, with a glass of finest sake :-)

Okay, found few motivated seconds to fill up the likes for music : mostly Classical and Rock : Tchaikovsky, Rachmaninov, Beethoven, Mozart, Schubert, Doors, Pink Floyd, Jethro Tull, Clapton .....and Paul Robeson (a great inspiration since I was 15)

And now about Books: I always found books my best companion and I have a tiny library at that kept growing until the internet became pervasive and the downloading speed hit 20mbps. A wide range of subject that shows my interest in Economics, Molecular Biology, literature, politics, Software development, biographies, art, Design, architecture, astrophysics and cooking - and oh , I have almost all from the Calvin and Hobbs collection :-)

Movies : Too many but the one that I watched more than 10 times is: Dead Poets Society and Gandhi . Others worth mentioning : Gladiator, Beautiful mind, Danton, Fanny and Alexander, Shaw shank Redemption, Out of Africa , My eternal beloved, Ben hur, War and peace and comedies like my cousin Vinny, history of the world, silent movie, naked gun ..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order :
1. My work / my team
2. My Passport
3. Pots and pans
4. $$$$$
5. The house maid
6. The 7 AM espresso fix
7. My sense of wonder
8. My mind - Oops 8,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Definitely not, "my next vacation / holiday" - but more like , my new start-up, the origin of all matter, life beyond earth, What I am going to cook next, my mother who lives 5,000 miles away , my brother who lives 14,000 miles away and my dad who is living in heaven since 1984.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Why ask about Friday ?
But since asked, I am most probably sleeping cause I started partying way early at lunch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not here !!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You find men who can cook and clean-up after cooking is done - attractive and can happily live with one such :-)

You are a sapiosexual, intellectually curious and kind . You are urbane, you are opinionated, you love art, you love Beethoven's symphony #6 (kidding) , you have heard of 'quantum physics', you know life a bit deeper than what meets the eyes , you have a tattoo (optional) , you are non-needy type , unprejudiced, broad minded, you consider yourself intelligent, not a teetotaler, not looking for Hermes Birkin (LOL kidding again) , you love to eat and you do not think I am asking for too much. LOL