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neeuqdrazil

32 / F / gay / Available

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
—
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Rather Not Say
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Poorly)

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I am oddly extroverted, introverted, and sexy.

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My Self-Summary

First off - my dance card is completely full at the moment, and I'm not looking to get involved with anyone else. (Although if the right person comes along, I won't say no.)

I'm polyamorous, queer, sapiosexual, and I live with my (male) partner. He knows about all of my relationships, and I know about his. I'm a musician at heart, although not as much as I used to be, and I don't play nearly often enough. I read more than is probably healthy (does anyone else you know read while walking, all the time?) I'm kinky, mostly submissive, but not always. I'm really bad at writing these things. I'm voluptuous, and I seem to be turning into a marathoner. Who knew?

Also, I don't have a cam, so if that's all you're interested in, don't even bother.

What I’m doing with my life

I work, way too much. I spend too much time online, particularly on LiveJournal, and recently Ravelry. I hang out with my friends and lovers. I cross-stitch, sing, knit and play board games. I'm in a choir, I cook, and I'm currently booking well into next month.

I’m really good at

Reading. Playing the piano. Listening. Making homemade, handmade bread (none of this breadmachine stuff for me, tyvm.) I don't suck at knitting, and I enjoy cross-stitching.

The first things people usually notice about me

My hair. My eyes. My smile. Oh, and the cleavage. It's really hard to miss that.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(A) I read too much to have favourite books, but I have favourite authors: Anne Bishop, early Sharon Shinn, Tad Williams, Neal Stephenson, Margaret George, Jasper Fforde... the list goes on. My dirty little reading secret is that I love cheesy historical romance novels. I also read a lot of historical works, primarily biographies, but pretty much anything that deals with social history (particularly of Britain) is on my list. I still own all of my cultural history books (Derrida, Foucault, etc.) and mean to re-read them (with enough time to pay attention to them) but haven't managed to yet. (B) Bound, Secretary, Titan AE, Pirates of the Caribbean, Meet the Feebles, Kissed... the list goes on. Just don't ask me to watch Kids again. (Ask why, if you're curious.) (C) Ani DiFranco, Le Tigre, Covenant, Kristin Hersh. The list goes on. (D) Sushi!!!, Saag Paneer, Risotto, hoememade lasagne, homemade bread with old cheddar and gherkins, or good olive oil and balsamic vinegar.

The six things I could never do without

Books. Friends. Pens and paper. Snuggles. A bathtub.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Books. Communication. Feeeeeeelings. "Why do I work here again?" Sex.

On a typical Friday night I am

Curled up at home with my partner, watching a movie or TV on DVD. Or over at my girlfriend's place, doing the same thing.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I buy chocolate often, but don't eat it. I buy it for the reactions I get from the people I give it to.

You should message me if

You're literate, interesting, and not an asshole. Don't bother messaging me if you use 'r' instead of 'are', 'u' instead of 'you', or anything similar. I may be a snob about it, but I can't respect anyone who can't be bothered to use proper English.

Also, I don't have a webcam, so if that's all you're interested in, don't even bother.

Alsoalso, if you don't have anything in your profile, I'm not going to be likely to want to talk to you.

As I mentioned above - I'm not really looking to get involved with anyone else at the moment.

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