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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18-41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:05pm
Queer, Sapiosexual
Relationship Type
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), German, Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm a queer, polyamorous, femme trans girl. If you can't handle an out and proud transgender woman, run away and save yourself. I am erudite, giggly, articulate and rambunctious. I'm the kind of anarchafeminist who you can still take home to mom.

I'm in search of meaningful connections of all kinds. My passions include rough housing, romance languages, bite marks upon my person, and social justice. Body positivity and a disproportionate distaste for authority get me hot. Washboard abs and a winning smile matter much less to me than personality, sense of humor, and good politics. (Read: All bodies are beautiful.) I delight in unseemly queers with critical thinking skills and dirty minds.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, laughing, learning ASL, and thinking about what's next.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Grassroots organizing, busting the Patriarchy's balls, learning languages, and keeping the peace.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm unapologetically, fabulously fat. Also that I'm a woman with a deep voice. If either of these things are a problem for you, kindly self-immolate immediately.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
*The Ethical Slut
*Speaking Sex to Power: The Politics of Queer Sex
*Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex Positive Culture
*That's Revolting!: Queer Strategies for Resisting Assimilation
*Fall on Your Knees (or anything by Ann Marie McDonald)
*Intersex: For Lack of a Better Word.

Movies: Shortbus, Better Than Chocolate, The Raspberry Reich.

Shows: Doctor Who, Torchwood, SG-1, Star Trek (especially
DS9), Grey's Anatomy, The Good Wife, Battlestar Galactica, Firefly.

Music: Shakira, Alanis, Placebo, Ani, old Liz Phair, The Hip, Lucinda, K's Choice.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Intersectional feminism, class struggle, queerness, accessibility, marked bodies, science, and sex.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a smart, self-aware person with good boundaries who wants to go on a date with same.

You know Spanish or American Sign Language and would like someone to practice with. I speak Spanish pretty well but my sign is pretty basic, as I'm just starting out.

You know any other language and want to teach it to me. I learn fast.

You are a top or sadist in the BDSM sense and are looking for a laid back and fun play partner to consensually hurt, tie up, or otherwise kink it up with. My FetLife is theskepticalslut.

Queers and sex-positive folks step to the front of the line.