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27 F Eugene, OR

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 18–21
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:27pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French, German

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My self-summary
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I'm a queer, poly, trans girl and an androgynous femme. If you can't handle an out and proud transgender woman, run away and save yourself. I am erudite, giggly, articulate and rambunctious. I'm the kind of anarchafeminist who you can still take home to mother.

I take a fluid and laid back approach to sex and romance. My turn-ons include rough housing, romance languages, bite marks and social justice. Body positivity and a disproportionate distaste for authority make me hot. Washboard abs and a winning smile matter much less to me than personality, sense of humor, and good politics. (Read: All bodies are beautiful.) I delight in unseemly queers with critical thinking skills and dirty minds.

I enjoy people who challenge me. If an evening of laughing, cuddling, debating feminist theory, and chewing my neck to smitherines appeals to you, message me. Do it right now.
What I’m doing with my life
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Going to school, organizing queer students, and doing everything I can to create and promote feminist consciousness, especially in young and/or new feminists. I'd like a career in trans, sex-positive, or pro-choice organizing. I'd also like to eventually get a PhD in something wicked cool like philosophy of science, feminist theory, or human sexuality--probably something intersecting all three. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Grassroots organizing, busting the Patriarchy's balls, learning languages, oral sex, and telling you what *your* problem is.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm androgynous. Proudly so. I'm a girl with the voice of a boy. If that freaks you out, I wouldn't be a good date for you. Also go hang yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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*The Ethical Slut
*Speaking Sex to Power: The Politics of Queer Sex
*Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex Positive Culture
*Nobody Passes: Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity
*Fall on Your Knees
*Intersex: For Lack of a Better Word.

Movies: Shortbus, Itty Bitty Titty Committee, Better Than Chocolate, The Raspberry Reich.

Shows: Doctor Who, Torchwood, Star Trek (especially
DS9), Grey's Anatomy, Battlestar Galactica, Firefly.

Music: Placebo, Ani Difranco, K's Choice, Shakira, Evan Greer, Play/Start, Lucinda Williams, Sinead O'Connor, Metric, Rilo Kiley, Prince, The Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Danielle Ate the Sandwich, Alix Olson, Athens Boys Choir
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Feminism, gender politics, queer theory, disability rights, marked bodies, science, and sex.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Good grammar turns me on. No, really.
You should message me if
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You're a smart, self-aware person with good boundaries who wants to go on a date with same.

You speak Spanish and would like someone to practice with. Preferred are people who are fluent, conversational, or exceptionally talented beginners. I fall somewhere in the conversational-to-fluent range myself.

You speak any other language and want to teach it to me. I learn fast.

You are an experienced top or sadist in the BDSM sense and are looking for a laid back and fun play partner to consensually hurt, tie up, or otherwise kink it up with. Sex and romance are neither expected nor required for this arrangement. Only friendship.

Queers and sex-positive folks step to the front of the line.