I'm in search of meaningful connections of all kinds. My passions include rough housing, romance languages, bite marks upon my person, and social justice. Body positivity and a disproportionate distaste for authority get me hot. Washboard abs and a winning smile matter much less to me than personality, sense of humor, and good politics. (Read: All bodies are beautiful.) I delight in unseemly queers with critical thinking skills and dirty minds.
*The Ethical Slut
*Speaking Sex to Power: The Politics of Queer Sex
*Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex Positive Culture
*That's Revolting!: Queer Strategies for Resisting Assimilation
*Fall on Your Knees (or anything by Ann Marie McDonald)
*Intersex: For Lack of a Better Word.
Movies: Shortbus, Better Than Chocolate, The Raspberry Reich.
Shows: Doctor Who, Torchwood, SG-1, Star Trek (especially
DS9), Grey's Anatomy, The Good Wife, Battlestar Galactica, Firefly.
Music: Shakira, Alanis, Placebo, Ani, old Liz Phair, The Hip, Lucinda, K's Choice.
You know Spanish or American Sign Language and would like someone to practice with. I speak Spanish pretty well but my sign is really basic, as I'm just starting out.
You know any other language and want to teach it to me. I learn fast.
You are a top or sadist in the BDSM sense and are looking for a laid back and fun play partner to consensually hurt, tie up, or otherwise kink it up with. My FetLife is theskepticalslut.
Queers and sex-positive folks step to the front of the line.