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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 19–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 4:06pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Atheism and laughing about it
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I left New Jersey for San Francisco in 2011, fell in love with the city and started working in software engineering, fell out of love with SF as its culture began fading, and decided: I had this dream to travel the world, so why not do it?

I traveled around Asia, South America, and Europe for six months. Now, I'm planning on moving to New York in October/November. Until then, I'm mostly just looking around here. But, feel free to reach out if you're interested in chatting!
What I’m doing with my life
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Tech is my career, but it is not my life. Just quit my job. Traveling the world.

My latest passion has been capoeira. The one before that was improv, which I drop in on every now and then.

Figuring out how to properly maintain facial hair.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Great at some video games (Soul Calibur, Mario Kart) and terrible at others (Marvel vs Capcom 3, any FPS ever made besides Golden Eye 64).

I'm a good listener too, and great at giving advice. Basically, the one who has friends asking for advice on life when they're in a bad mood. Sometimes I give surprisingly in-depth help to other people's situations, which is rather ironic because I can be pretty oblivious to my own life.

Finding someone to crash with on a roadtrip.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Sometimes I'm really social, and sometimes I'm really quiet. Introvert trying to be an extrovert, I'd say.

That they have no idea what my ethnicity is.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I absolutely love "so bad it's hilarious" movies, like Troll 2, Jesus Christ Vampire Hunter, and The Room. Comedies, but not romantic comedies or most Adam Sandler movies, and I love any general action movie fight scene (though my favorites are from Kung Fu Hustle). Adventure movies always win as well. If I were a villain, I'd be Dr Horrible, and my henchmen would be the main characters of Attack the Gas Station.

If anyone has Gymkata I demand we watch it.

Most foods. No raisins or olives. You can see me physically react to the thought of eating either one. Also, an apple allergy, which is no bueno.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Smartphone. GPS, email, and entertainment for the buses and trains all in one.

- Physical activity, but still in moderation

- Intertubes

- Allergy meds yay.

- 3DS

- Youtube music playlists while I work
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Languages, their origins, and their influence on people's mindsets.

You might see German companies' job postings specifying male or female may apply, because the German words for male employee and female employee are different. There's an Aboriginal language which doesn't use left/right/back/forward, but instead specifies everything in terms of north, south, east, west. And why do some languages use pluralization?

Did you know flies drink alcohol to kill the eggs of parasitic wasps in their bloodstream?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typing with one hand.

Hatching pokemon with the other.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't drink coffee, beer, or coke/pepsi. I do drink tea, various hard liquors/sometimes wine, and sprite/fanta. I don't wear jeans.

When my profile says I speak Spanish "poorly", it means I was able to scrounge up enough high school vocabulary to get me through a 6-week trip in South America. Update: Apparently OKC removed the poorly/good language distinction. My Japanese is at a somewhat conversational level while my Spanish is basically essential phrases. Thanks, ObamaOkcupid
You should message me if
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you think you're awesome. You're probably right.

I'm a bit of an introvert so feel free to message me first. I don't bite. Unless you're into that.

Steady is nice. That may or may not imply relationship or even beyond platonic.

If you're willing to sacrifice a little convenience if it helps preserve the environment.

Or if you're looking for someone to:
- Learn a language with/teach a language to (Japanese, Spanish, Portuguese, German, and/or Bengali)
- Play capoeira with
- Practice chinese yo-yo with
- Travel with (bonus points for off the beaten path travel, which admittedly I haven't been doing very well)
- Hike with