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46 M Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:17pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This is where I tell you about my sports car, modeling career and Ed Hardy shirt collection, yes?

Me: Awesome, healthy, goofy, fun, smart, romantic, relationship minded, athletic, avid culinary hobbyist in search of one great partner/willing food victim. She should be a bit of a foodie, like to laugh (a lot,) enjoy hiking and being active, dig seeing live music, and bonus points if you are into tennis, as I just started playing again.

Top Ten Reasons You'll Totally Dig Me:

1: I'm faithful, fun, loyal and cute. Like a puppy, except better, since I bathe myself and you don't need to buy me chew toys.

2: At the age of 44, I guess I still don't really understand women. I'm not sure that's a bad thing, though, since they say that women *do* understand women, and they often tend to not like one another.

3: I don't kick kittens. While I understand that there are taller, better looking men than myself that you could date, they all kick kittens. Do you really want to spend your life with a kitten kicker? I thought not.

4: When I get cash out of the ATM, I don't count it, but I do make sure all the bills are facing the same direction.

5: I'm an awesome cook. Seriously. I can cook you a better meal than what you can get in a great many restaurants.

6: I'm quite certaint that I am, in fact, not a butterfly dreaming that I am a man. Even as a butterfly, I think I'd have the common sense to dream that I was a taller and better looking man.

7: After 18 years in Los Angeles, I am still an 'East Coast Boy,' and very proud of it.

8: I very firmly believe that the very best things in life aren't 'things' at all.

9: At some point, for some reason or other, you will probably call me 'maestro.'

10: Everything in my profile is true, which shows that I'm either pretty honest, or dumb enough not to lie about the bad stuff. Hopefully the former, but it might be a combination of both.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing high-end visual effects for films and commercials. Cooking up some crazy good food from scratch. Enjoying my friends and family. Staying fit. Reading great books. Learning to play guitar (badly.) Exploring. Photographing. Continuing to play hockey, even though my body now enjoys reminding me that I'm not 25 years old any more.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking (especially French, Italian and Southwestern. And healthy soups.) Road tripping out of LA for the weekend. parallel parking (sexy, eh?) entertaining, playing with kids, hockey, screaming profanities after golf shots, photography.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My stunning good looks,of course. What? What???
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read almost every night, and will read almost anything. Currently into Dostoyevsky's 'House Of The Dead,' and then will read this Mark Haddon novel which seems to have shown up in my stack.

Art house movies over mainstream movies (even though I work mostly on nerdy VFX movies,) documentaries, silly comedies. And Mystery Science Theater, just to show that I'm so sophisticated.

Most kinds of music as long as it's good and the players are having fun. I'm seeing Wayne Shorter at D.C.H. this weekend, and just bought tickets to an eclectic music festival in the summer. Can't wait to see who is playing the Greek this season. I've been an avid and unapologetic Steely Dan geek since I was ten years old.

I'll cook or eat almost anything, except perhaps some nasty organs which I don't believe we were ever really meant to eat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food and wine.
Cooking supplies.
Weekends out of LA.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Hmmmm. Let me spend some time thinking about this one.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I had a great answer for this, I wouldn't be on OK Cupid.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really want to fall in love again. Blush.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're looking for a completely awesome guy and are at a place in life where you want to build something great.

Plus, if you don't message me, the terrorists win.