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nellicate

23 / M / gay / Single

New York, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My Self-Summary

Who is good at writing this? I can't imagine what else would go here that isn't redundant. So. Without further ado...

What I’m doing with my life

I want to say that I'm a singer/actor, because that's a big part of my life, but I don't want you to assume that's all that I am. I am a positive person, who is open to most things/people life throws at me.

In addition to pursuing my career, I make time to spend with friends and family. I have a few close friends who are like family to me, and are equally as important.

I like to see new musicals/plays, try new restaurants/bars, exercise, and go on random adventures around the city. I like to be surprised.

I’m really good at

Organizing things, making lemons into lemonade, being on time, loyalty, honesty, having fun, being spontaneous, impersonating my Longgisland Grandma, shopping at Whole Foods, being vegan - for a day at a time.

The first things people usually notice about me

I've been told that I have a great sense of style, but I'd like to think that people notice that I'm a great friend.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

It may not be overly apparent, but I love to eat...

My favorite foods are in no particular order: pasta, sushi (brown rice, please), anything with complex carbohydrates, salmon, and anything you want to cook for me.

Hmmm music... James Taylor, Aretha Franklin, Queen, Mariah, Whitney, MJ, the occasional musical (and anything with Judy, Liza, or Sutton!), Billy Joel, Hanson, Jason Mraz, and I'm always looking for something new and interesting to listen to.

I love almost anything on HBO or Showtime -- Six Feet Under, Trueblood, Weeds, Dexter. I also have an unhealthy obsession with Blair and Chuck drama. Oh. Another guilty pleasure -- the Real Housewives of (*any city here).

I always start books and never finish them. I'll get to finishing Atonement and My Judy Garland Life eventually...

The six things I could never do without

soy milk
my golden retriever Casey
cellular communication
my new blue patent leather sandals (one of the straps broke last night -- I am distraught)
method hand soap (the foaming variety)
New York City

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My next rehearsal, dance class (well, I think about it but I usually never go), pinot grigio, Mariah's weight gains and losses, puppies and butterflies.

On a typical Friday night I am

Anything but typical.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I don't like my feet. Isn't it odd that I'm willing to wear and love open toed shoes?

You should message me if

You don't play games and you value honesty.