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nelly024

46 F Minneapolis, MN

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 42–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:43pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I guess it is really hard to get to know somebody after reading these few lines, but until we get to talk here is my little summary. I live generally a happy life, and believe that all the great things in life are simple. My life is balanced and calm most of the time, and I have a healthy dose of confidence that allows me to feel comfortable around people, and to make other people feel comfortable around me. I value integrity, intelligence, and ‘quiet confidence’, and believe in treating everybody well, accepting differences between people, and understanding that we all have a purpose and place on this planet. I believe it’s good to have it together in life since it makes us content and happy, and be able to deal with anything that life throws at us.

I am a transplant from Europe, and of all the places in this country I chose to land in Fargo for graduate school. Spent quite a few years there, and met some of the most wonderful people in my life. My friends come from just about every corner of the world, and being so far away from family some of them have become like a family to me. I try to take the best from both worlds – the one I live in and the one I was born in, and let that fine blend guide my life and make it more interesting.

I am empathetic and supportive, and the well-being of people close to me is always on the top of my list. I enjoy being around people, especially those who can get engaged in stimulating conversation, who laugh when they find something to be really funny, who are nice and kind to people because they really mean it, and who can listen to what you have to say without judging you. Now you know that if you ever met my friends you’d be having a great time!

I can laugh at myself, and I enjoy a company of people with good sense of humor as it is usually a sign of some positive brain-waves, which can make a conversation so much more interesting. My accent sounds kind of funny (at least to me), but for some reason most people like it. I am always up for a good theater play, live music, art galleries or local art fairs. Traveling, hitting the ski slopes, biking, tennis, occasional hiking.....always open to new ideas as long as the company is good.

I’ve been very fortunate to do what I like, and to work with kind and intelligent people. I maintain a 'healthy relationship' with my work so I am not obsessed with it. It feeds my curiosity, allows me to learn something new all the time, and keeps me grounded by showing me how much I still don’t know.
What I’m doing with my life
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I enjoy good conversations over a cup of dry cappuccino, dinner parties with friends, traveling and exploring interesting local places (museums, galleries, restaurants...), spoiling my friends' and cousins' kids, bike riding, downhill skiing and trying to learn cross-country (anybody interested?), a good movie or book. Always up for a good theatre play, anything new at the Science Museum, MIA.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Connecting with people, and making them feel that they are valued. Dealing with ups and downs in life, and adjusting to different situations. I make a real effort to help when somebody is in a need of help. I believe in integrity and assertiveness, but I don't impose my views onto others.
Oh yes, and making the best cake that you've ever tried!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I smile a lot (I really do!). Extrovert, connect with people easily.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Mediterranean and spicy Hungarian food, fine pastry, love exploring local restaurants, bakeries and farmer's markets
Music: blues rock, 80-ties, classical and operas, enjoy live music but do not attend nearly as much as I would like to
Books: I read a lot for work ( not always fun, but have to do it); other than that I read everything from fiction to history, Recently S. Hawking "The Grand Design", P. Coelho "The Winner Stands Alone", S. Wells "The Journey of Man", reading again "Selfish Gene", started Singer "The Slave".
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and family (not really 'things', but they're most important in my life)
Intellectual stimulation/great conversations
Trips to Europe to visit home
All the gadgets that make life easier (or more complicated sometimes :)
Constant learning
Good health
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My folks at home......it is inevitable when you live so far from them. Also, a bit about where I want to be in future, but I know very well that we don't always have a full control over this.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
......happy that I can take a break from a busy work week. Usually with friends sharing our culinary 'expertise', or just relaxing at home.
You should message me if
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If you are a happy person who thinks that life can be a great adventure by sharing it with somebody. I definitely won’t expect you to ‘abandon’ yourself for the sake of the relationship since we really should click the way we are. No idea how and why that click happens, and I don't try to understand it....you just know when it feels right when you meet somebody. If you feel comfortable with your life, find happiness in small things, have enough confidence to be open-minded, kind to other people, be interested in what’s going on in the world, and if we are able to share our thoughts, emotions, fears then we probably have lots in common.