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nenenezuko

47 M Pacifica, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 32–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 3
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Transguy and fabulous, I'm pretty much "queersexual" , preferring others who identify as some stripe of LGBTQ or queer-friendly. I care a lot more about people's personalities than their plumbing; I'm flexible about gender and orientation.

I direct live theatre, write essays and fiction, sing in an LGBTQ church choir, and do graphic design work. I also collect Japanese art, play tabletop RPGs, read comics and manga, and love science and history. I have several pet rats, an aquarium, and more than one blog.

When I was little I wanted to grow up to be a hero; I still do. Sometimes I am one.

I am inquisitive, intuitive, and adaptable
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a stage director, a graphic designer, and a writer. I most recently directed the world premier of Upstairs, a new dramatic musical, which premiered in New Orleans in June 2013.

I write fiction and poetry, and I blog about LGBTQ issues, which brings me great joy but not much fame (yet). I write action-adventure, fantasy, and gay romance, among other things.

I serve on the Trans* and Gender Non-Conforming Advisory Council to Metropolitan Community Churches. (mcc.org)

I'm trying to learn to like leafy greens.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, conversing, staying up late, singing, drawing, designing, problem solving, theorizing, analyzing, learning, traveling, road-tripping, and being there for my friends.

I'm not so good at: Tidying, accounting, cooking, having self-discipline, running, managing time.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My (sometimes bright blue) hair, my broad shoulders, my bulky shape, and my big smile. Or my laugh, if they hear me before they see me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books I re-read: The Phantom Tollbooth, The Lord of the Rings, A Wizard of Earthsea, Terry Pratchett's Discworld books (especially the Tiffany Aching books)

Movies I rewatch: Fight Club, Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead, O Brother Where Art Thou?, The Shawshank Redemption, My Life as a Dog, K-PAX, Yojimbo (and pretty much everything else by Kurosawa Akira)

TV I enjoy: Downton Abby, Game of Thrones, Elementary, Old School Sesame Street

Anime: Cowboy Bebop, Fruits Basket, Last Exile, Trigun, Space Brothers, Silver Spoon, Spirited Away and pretty much everything else by Studio Ghibli

Music: Kanno Yoko, Mozart, Palestrina, Duke Ellington, Muse, Queen, old Genesis, King Crimson, Snow Patrol, kd lang, Keith Urban, Brad Paisley

Foood: sushi and sashimi, Tennessee pulled-pork barbecue, cheese (but not blue!), cold cereal and milk, pretzels, refried beans, really good bread and butter, lemons and limes
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intangible:
Freedom
Affection
Camaraderie
Inspiration
Curiosity
Self-awareness

Tangible:
My friends
My Mac
The internet
Music
Books
My pets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stories, words, writing fiction, human relationships, gender, motivation, how things work, the nature of the universe
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing with my online collaborative writing group, or watching a movie with my housemate and maybe one or two other people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Everyone who meets me thinks I'm at least ten years younger than I am, and most of my friends are younger than me. I think the ten years I was married don't really count.
You should message me if
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You want someone to geek out with about fonts or ukiyo-e or anime or music or medicine or astronomy or any number of other topics. Your idea of a good time includes long meandering deep conversations, lots of laughter, stargazing, trying new restaurants, visiting museums, making it up as you go along, camping, hiking and road tripping.

You should be:
Intellectual
Insatiably Curious
Spiritual (yes, Atheists can be spiritual)
Introspective but not self-absorbed
Spontaneous (or at least able to cope with someone who likes last-minute adventures)
Forgiving
Honest
A lover of life
Outgoing enough to meet me half-way