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29 New York, NY Man


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  • Ages 25–33
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
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Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Creative nerdy type contemplating what's next. Awkward yet charming (or so I've been told), I'm often either the weirdest, most outspoken person in the room or the most reserved, depending on context.
What I’m doing with my life
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Plotting and scheming with henchmen from within the thick of my villain's lair, in even thicker clouds of noir-like smoke. Writing computery-code stuff. Editing some piece of video or film (though not nearly often enough as of late. The computery stuff's been winning)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the bigger picture. Getting lost in (and occasionally failing) the details. Explaining things. Stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Something about my face, the way I speak, the volume at which I speak, or just my tendency to ramble about things only I and people like myself care for.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I mostly read non-fiction. While I'm in love with perusing book stores, the fiction section tends to scare me; A badly written non-fiction book can still serve it's purpose, but a fiction book's always a gamble that you agree with some asshole that he or she's a good writer.

Still though, I am eerily obsessed with Dune :) Waaay better than Starwars. Pop-culture got it all wrong.

Heavily into metal, heavily into hip-hop, casually into almost any other genre you can think of (in the past two weeks I've spun bossa nova, bluegrass, and jazz). Also pretty into cinema (film school was the shit) and have a soft spot for terribly nuanced narrative structure and a unique, appealing visual aesthetic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Software development. Film & narrative archetype. Hip Hop. Metal. siphonophores(.org). The uplifting future vs a solemn singularity. Whether broken social systems are beyond repair. The interior decoration of my newfound villain's lair. Branding, letterhead, and a general theme for said lair. Self-fulfilling prophecies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In the city w/ friends and/or coworkers, talking about code.
At a party somewhere, probably in Brooklyn, trolling hipsters
In Jersey w/ the best friends, taking over the world.

Occasionally successful at pulling off the "friend circle merge" of all three.
You should message me if
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You are versatile; You can nerd out about things with me yet appreciate (and preferably take part in) the creative. I can take you anywhere and you'd know how to act. You know what the fuck you want or know that you don't, but you won't mince words or feelings to avoid confrontation or hedge your bets.

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