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nerd_burgher

31 M Pittsburgh, PA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 28–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:14pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
People tell me I'm kind of a hipster, but I'm not vegan, I don't ride a fixie, wear skinny jeans and I don't live in Lawrenceville. However, I appreciate good third-wave coffee, indie music, plaid, hand-rolled cigarettes/smoking a pipe, crafts, chucks, having a beard, drinking scotch and living a life of conscientious awareness with a desire for progressive change. I realize a lot of that is based on stereotypes, and find the irony of them hilariously identifiable.

I love drinking red wine and trying new craft/microbrew beers. Scotch enthusiast. Also like bourbon and whiskey. I'm always in search of a new great place to eat brunch. I like cats.

Just retook the Myers Briggs and came out as an ENFP. Was an ENFJ last time I took it.

I brew my own beer at home. So far, I've made upwards of 10 batches, and they're all pretty good! I haven't made any beer since before Christmas, because I made 3 different kinds to giveaway as holiday gifts and I still have some left. I made a Russian Imperial Stout, a Black IPA, and a Winter Holiday Ale. Then I designed Harry Potter-themed labels for all 3 :-) I've also made several IPAs, a Pumpkin Porter, and a Belgian Tripel.

I've been playing guitar for 10 years. I've written 20-30 songs, and have 20-30 I haven't finished. Yes, I will sing and play them for you :) I used to play open mic nights when I was in college, but haven't in years.

I really like burritos.

I'm kind of clumsy sometimes.

I'm really bad at remembering song titles, movie titles, actors names, and character names when I'm actually trying to make a point or refer to them in conversation. It's like a chronic brain fart hah.

I really really really hate the suburbs. The idea of living in them makes me wanna barf. Definitely a city person. There will be no white picket fence in my future.

I'm a HUGE Harry Potter fan. I feel this is important to put out there. You will either find it adorably endearing or head shakingly nerdy.

Geeky/nerdy girls apply within.

Also, I think visible tattoos, freckles, septum piercings, and current/future cat ladies are very attractive :-)

Here's a couple of things that will make me sound like an ass:

It seems a lot of people on here like the characterize themselves as "down to earth". Know what that says to me? You're boring.

Apparently a lot of people "like to laugh and have fun". Really? You thought that was an important thing to point out about yourself? You know, I can't remember the last time I met a person who liked to laugh and have fun.

I will judge you by your tattoos.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a graphic designer. I have my own place in Squirrel Hill. I have a car. An amazing girlfriend, who is also my best friend. Life is pretty darn good!

Riding my newish Raleigh Port Townsend bicycle a lot. If you want to go riding with me, drop me a note!

Creating my own beer recipes.

Updating my website, Tumblr, Twitter, and other social media outlets. Gotta have a good presence as a designer.

Drawing a lot on my iPad.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading people. Design. Cooking. Organizing. Parallel parking. Kissing. Sex related things (not boasting). Solving Rubix Cubes. Not doing the dishes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My beard and glasses. My tattoos if they are showing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Just finished reading: Fight Club, The Sandman, and Perks of Being A Wallflower
Currently reading: Story of O, Manuscript Found in Accra, V for Vendetta
Authors: J.K. Rowling, Paulo Coelho, Michael Chabon, Tom Robbins, Chuck Palahniuk, Neil Gaiman

Movies:
Almost Famous, Across the Universe, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Indiana Jones Trilogy, Star Wars Saga, Harry Potter, Fight Club, Shawshank Redemption, Catch Me If You Can, Labyrinth, Dark Crystal, Mel Brooks movies, Monty Python, Kill Bill, Pixar films (Finding Nemo, Ratatouille and Up are big favs), Miyazaki films.

TV:
How I Met Your Mother, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, Big Bang Theory, Dexter, Lost, Parks and Recreations, Man v Food, Bob's Burgers, Futurama, Adventure Time and Regular Show.

Music (in no particular order):
Recent Additions: Old Crow Medicine Show, The Low Anthem, Great Bloomers, Passenger, Hargo, The Winter Sounds

The Beatles, Mumford & Sons, Noah and the Whale, Butch Walker, Simon & Garfunkel, James Taylor, Mason Jennings, City and Colour, Bon Iver, Cat Stevens, Led Zeppelin, Dave Matthews (occasionally), The Decemberists, Derby, Avett Brothers, Enter the Haggis, The Pogues, Flogging Molly, Dropkick Murphies, Fleet Foxes, Frightened Rabbit, Glen Hansard, Josh Ritter, Newton Faulkner, Ryan Montbleau Band, The Bravery, Band of Horses, Pete Bjorn and John, Angus and Julia Stone, Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros, Cage the Elephant, Matthew and the Atlas, Of Monsters and Men, Skinny Lister, Fun., Grouplove, Imagine Dragons, The Tallest Man on Earth, Two Door Cinema Club, and so on and so forth...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My best friend
2. The Beatles
3. Red wine
4. Intimacy (Emotional and Physical)
5. Internet
6. My iPhone (sad but true)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I had the money, maybe I'd start a craft brewery.

Traveling to Europe and Australian/New Zealand.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's no good answer here that doesn't sound cliche or trite. I'm perfectly happy going out for drinks or doing dinner and a movie. Also, if I don't have any plans, I'm perfectly content to stay at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably one of the more important things to know about me is that I practice polyamory, also known as consensual non-monogamy. For those who don't know what this means, follow this link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory. I'm not against monogamy, and believe that for most people, its the best arrangement. Always interested and happy to talk to like-minded folks. However, I do not think that this defines who I am as a person, nor does it encompass all aspects of my life. I'm just a normal guy, with different dating practices.

– I periodically sleep walk.
– I'm afraid of bears, wolves and sharks.
– I like Harry Potter more than the average 12 year old girl.
– I'm also on FetLife. Sub or bottom girls apply within.

P.S. Putting "I'm OkCupid" in this section is not private. If anyone reads your profile, we already know this. You can do better than that.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I will likely NOT message you first. Not because I don't want to, but rather because I know most people don't have the same approach to dating/relationships as myself. So...

If you are (most of the following):
– within 30 minutes of Pittsburgh (East End+++)
– liberal
– educated
– have your own place
– have a career
– well-read and musically well-versed
– nerdy/geeky
– you have tattoos or piercings
– are sexually progressive and open minded (note: this is not an offer, invitation or guarantee for sex)
– actively practice/interested in/curious about polyamory of other types of consensual non-monogamy

If you're under 28 but feel we have something in common and/or would get along famously, then go for it!

You should avoid messaging me if:
– You are from Cleveland/OH (last two gf's were from there; I'm done)
– You're even the slightest bit country

I had more here before, but it all just sounded negative. Best to focus on what I do want :-)