I would like to get a couple of points out of the way right from the start:

1. I do not own a car. I live in a central location and cycle where i need to go. It saves me money and helps me stay in shape.

2. The music in gay bars makes me want to put a gun in my mouth.

3. I do not get drunk. I will occasionally have a glass of wine but it is extremely rare. This does not mean that i don't know how to have fun. it only means that i can do so sober.

4. I do not make a ton of money. I have a great job that i love but it doesn't pay a lot. You can't have it all.

Now, if i haven't run everyone off by now, you should know that i am honest person with a wicked sense of humor. I am most definitely not your run of the mill gay. And I certainly did not come out of an Abercrombie box. I can and do think for myself and do what i can to not get trapped in a stereotype.

I love any form of exercise. I play pick-up soccer, run, cycle and frequent the gym. Being healthy and taking care of myself is very important. Just to be clear, i also love sitting on my ass and doing nothing when the time is right. Balance in all things.

I am kind of a giant nerd and i engage in lots of nerdy activities. I read books with dragons on the cover and play online games. I draw the line at LARPing or cosplay. Everyone needs to have some standards!

I am doing what i need to do to make myself happy and find my path. Currently I fill my time with work, exercise, gaming and spending as much time as i can with my friends.

Doing dishes, strategy games, reading fast, falling without getting hurt, getting up early, and being a sarcastic smart ass.

probably that my beard looks scruffy, my glasses are smudgy and my shirt has holes in it.

Books: SciFi/Fantasy

Movies: Comedies

Music: I like all sorts of things. If you are interested in specifics, my Pandora stations are, Serj Tankian Radio, Belinda Carlisle radio, Depeche Mode radio (splashed with siouxie, the smiths and the pet shop boys) and the Sounds Radio (splashed with the kaiser chiefs and santogold).

Food: I am currently into things that spend all day cooking in a crock pot.

jersey sheets
spectacles
zip-lock bags
running shoes
athletic support underwear
earplugs

the usual stuff. Money, work, friends, family.

There really is no typical friday night. I have never been a big believer in going out and getting crazy just because it is friday. Sometimes i go to dinner, sometimes i stay in and raid. Either way, i am getting up early Saturday.

well it isn't really private since i have pics of it posted on flickr, but i had a colostomy last December. it sucked but i am all better now. 8)

you think there might be something good between us. I am not particularly interested in getting laid. That is too easy. I want more.