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nerdperv

43 / M / Straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:14am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Naughty robot seeks evil clown for adventures.

My deal
I have a grade-school-aged daughter who is the most awesome person I know. Our relationship is my most precious and her welfare is my highest priority.

I make my money as a web designer. Most of the time I dig it. It's a quickly evolving field that challenges both sides of my brain. Some days it can feel like the whole thing is an elaborate, meaningless, puzzle designed to occupy my time so I don't wander the streets, committing crimes and fomenting revolution.

Speaking of revolution... politically I am a lefty. I'm a big fan democracy, socialism and anarchism. If I could wipe the slate clean, and start over, I'd go back to pre-agricultural hunter-gatherer tribes.

I am your garden variety nerd. In the past my life has been, at various times, all about comic books, Doctor Who, Dungeons & Dragons, video games etc. These days I am learning how to play the guitar with my daughter; I'm into making pickles and jams; and I'm thinking of taking up woodworking.

I may or may not be a perv (as the name suggests), depending on your perspective. Basically, I am your average open-minded, sex-positive, kink-friendly, non-monogamous, ggg nerdperv.

Also, despite the way most of this summary reads, I do have a sense of humor.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently living in Lake County with my ex and our daughter. I'll be moving back to the city (why did I ever leave?!) in the Fall.
I’m really good at
identifying communication breakdowns, starting hobbies, explaining what is happening in movies and on television shoes (especially Game of Thrones), goofing off and researching things on the web.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love reading (mostly non-fiction these days), watching good movies/television shows and trying new foods. I am a beer nerd, music geek and stand-up fan.

If you want to get a sense of who I am, here's a list of books that have all had an impact on my life. I've arranged them in a loose chronology starting in 7th grade with:

The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams, Cat's Cradle by Kurt Vonnegut, Another Roadside Attraction by Tom Robbins, Watchmen by Alan Moore and Dave Gibbons, 1984 by George Orwell, One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Love & Rockets by Los Bros. Hernandez, Swami Vivekananda: Essential Writings, Schizo Number 2 by Ivan Brunetti, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert Pirsig, Democracy for the Few by Michael Parenti, Juliette by The Marquis de Sade, Ishmael by Daniel Quinn, Of Human Bondage by Somerset Maugham, Televisionary Oracle by Rob Brezsny, Choke by Chuck Palahniuk, Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha and The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy.

I'm sure I forgot a few, but that's a pretty good outline.
The six things I could never do without
friends and family
everyone else
new experiences (novelty)
great music
awesome beer
sleep
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the nature of reality, how my brain works, sex, beer, absurdity, music, politics... you know, the usual.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
you are interested in meeting me.