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nerdperv

44 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:02am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Naughty robot seeks evil clown for adventures.

My deal
I have a grade-school-aged daughter who is the awesomest person I know. My relationship with her is incredibly important to me and her welfare is my highest priority.

I make my money as a web developer/designer. Most of the time I dig it. It's a quickly evolving field that challenges both sides of my brain. Some days though, it can feel like the whole thing is an elaborate, meaningless, puzzle designed to occupy my time so I don't wander the streets, committing crimes and fomenting revolution.

Speaking of revolution... politically I am a lefty. I'm a big fan of democracy, socialism and anarchism. If I could wipe the slate clean, and start over, I'd go back to a pre-agricultural, hunter-gatherer, tribal society.

I am your garden variety nerd. In the past my life has been, at various times, all about comic books, Doctor Who, Dungeons & Dragons, video games etc. These days I am learning how to play the guitar with my daughter; I'm into making pickles and jams; and I'm thinking of taking up woodworking.

I may or may not be a perv (as the name suggests), depending on your perspective. Basically, I am your average open-minded, sex-positive, kink-friendly, non-monogamous, ggg nerdperv.

Also, despite the way most of this summary reads, I do have a sense of humor. 8^)
What I’m doing with my life
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I just moved back to the city (Rogers Park) after 7 years in the burbs. I am very happy to be back!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
identifying communication breakdowns, starting hobbies, explaining what is happening in movies and on television shows (especially Game of Thrones), goofing off and researching things on the web.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Either my beard or my t-shirt. I design my own, so they usually only make sense to me (e.g. the third picture of me). 8^)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love reading (mostly non-fiction these days), watching good movies/television shows and trying new foods. I am a beer nerd, music geek and stand-up fan.

Please feel free to skip over the obnoxiously long lists below.

Here, in a loose chronology, is a list of books that have had a major impact on my life:

The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams, Cat's Cradle by Kurt Vonnegut, Another Roadside Attraction by Tom Robbins, Watchmen by Alan Moore and Dave Gibbons, 1984 by George Orwell, One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Love & Rockets by Los Bros. Hernandez, Swami Vivekananda: Essential Writings, Schizo Number 2 by Ivan Brunetti, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert Pirsig, Democracy for the Few by Michael Parenti, Juliette by The Marquis de Sade, Ishmael by Daniel Quinn, Of Human Bondage by Somerset Maugham, Televisionary Oracle by Rob Brezsny, Choke by Chuck Palahniuk, Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha, The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy and Become What You Are by Alan Watts.

Here, in a loose chronology, is a list of bands that have had a major impact on my life:

Pink Floyd, Queen, The Moody Blues, Yes, The Beatles, Devo, The B-52's, Laurie Anderson, Oingo Boingo, Run DMC, The Butthole Surfers, Talking Heads, Dead Kennedys, David Bowie, R.E.M., Frank Zappa, The Minutemen, Captain Beefheart, They Might Be Giants, Brian Eno, James Brown, Sonic Youth, Lydia Lunch, The Velvet Underground, Public Enemy, The Residents, The Fall, The Smiths, Jesus Lizard, Nirvana, King Crimson, David Byrne, Bongwater, Guided by Voices, Ween, Radiohead, Wu-Tang Clan, Flaming Lips, Aimee Mann, Funkadelic, Akron/Family, Daniel Johnston, Alice Coltrane, Grizzly Bear, Erykah Badu, Ravi Shankar, Fela Kuti, The Carter Family, Robert Johnson, Junior Murvin, Georgia Anne Muldrow, Junip, Glass Candy, etc.

I'm sure I forgot a few, but that should give you a sense of who I am.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends and family
everyone else
new experiences (novelty)
great music
awesome beer
sleep
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the nature of reality, how my brain works, sex, beer, absurdity, music, politics, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with my daughter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My spirit animal is the humble bunny rabbit.
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you are interested in meeting me.