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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24-29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Nov 28
Hispanic / Latin
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other but it’s not important
Working on University
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Fernando here not sure what my life means right now

I was born and raised in San Diego, National City to be specific.
I've always been a nerd, from comics to video games. also i'm a huge movie buff i love watching movies and documentaries. love all kinds of music but have a huge love for punk and ska. i love photography and really really need a new camera. I have had my own place in the past and have even been close to being married.

Just so there is no bullshit and misunderstanding I'm gonna lay out the past and future. I have been in a few serious relationships in the past and every time i was cheated on. So if you could imagine i never really kept in contact with anyone from my past. The most serious one spanned years and led to engagement but it ended bad and led to what i called a downward spiral. i thought i had it all figured out. haha to be so young and dumb. i blamed myself for so long, going through depression and shit like that. i really did think i knew what i wanted, i had a car and apartment. i lost all that in weeks. it seemed like i had hit the worst luck ever. that led me back home, at the time i was just gonna drink myself through the days. We don't get what we want though and i learned that i was needed for something higher than myself. My Grandparents health was not good so i decided to help my mom and be a caretaker for them. For four years i did everything for my family and grandparents. I gave up my goals and put aside dreams to make sure they were as comfortable as possible. how many people would give up their social lives and income? In January my grandfather passed away and I'm still not sure if i'm ok.

In four years I learned so much about people and the way we go about life. I see things differently now. there are more important things than money, popularity,and keeping up with trends that come and go in the blink of an eye. I know i'm not stupid and money makes the world go round so yes i am looking for a job. With all that said I'm looking for something real with someone who understands the way the world works and is looking for somethin more than the norm. oh also 420 friendly haha
What I’m doing with my life
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getting back on my feet
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening to you and giving feedback. making people smile. being a couch patatoe. playin video games. walking the beach at late hours. being a good friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
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height- im 6'2
tattoos- have 7
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: the hitchhikers series, most of michael crichton, hatchet, brains winter, the river.lord of the flies.

movies: star wars, the new star trek, starship troopers, super troopers, super bad, knocked up, pinaple express, step brothers, forrest gump, saving private ryan, band of brothers, any ww2 movie, the quick and the dead, wyatt erp, boondocksaints, evil dead. fight club. LOTR. and soooo many more

music: streetlight manifesto,the secret 6, syndicate, anti-flag, story of the year, jimmy eat world, weezer, death cab for cutie, dashboard confesional, my chemical romance, fall out boy, thrice, brand new, nofx, rancid, blink 182, sum 41, gym class heros, we the kings, billy talent, cobra starship, pro era, capital steez, azizi gibson, chris webby. i could go on and on
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my dog
a fresh bowl ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the universe. like stars and shit. i love learning about the cosmos. seeing the stars at night calms me.

i think a lot about my grandfather, he was my mentor and he taught me everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
watching netflix or playing smite, i dunno i don't have much of a social life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i have always believed i have had bad luck with women, i call it a curse because i usually end up sad and hurt. I have a tattoo on my chest that says fatally yours. Why? because when i was going through bad times i did a foolish thing and got a young lady pregnant, we knew each other from the past but i was stupid and drunk and we hooked up. she told me and in the weeks we spent talking about what to do about it she had a miscarriage. i blamed myself for years and i know she hated me for it cause i never herd from her after. depression is something i deal with and i hope someone out there understands.

i haven't been on a date in years.
You should message me if
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you're looking for a nerd/gamer friend. lets play smite

you like photography/graphic design/ the cosmos/ sunset cliffs.

you want to talk about how awesome Captain Mal is or what you thought about the lost ending