I am warm and fuzzy, absent-minded, and avoidant.
My Self-Summary
"I hail from the explosive jetsam of a multitude of high-mass stars
that died more than 5 billion years ago." -Neil DeGrasse
Tyson
Astrophysical smartassery aside, I'm an
easy-going,
low maintenance kind of guy, for
the most part.
[Stop the profile. Ok, I know what you're thinking. "Yet another
guy who describes himself as easy-going. Next!" Even so, my
easy-going nature is actually one of the more noticeable aspects of
my personality. On those rare occasions when I appear agitated or
annoyed, people seem genuinely shocked that I would ever display
such strong emotion. Once, someone even described me as "zen-like".
Honestly, I don't find very much in my day to day life to get that
worked up about. I save my passion for things that are worth it.
And now, back to the profile...]
I do have very strong personal values, however, and will stick to
those values come hell or high water. I am fiercely loyal, highly
moral and quietly stubborn. You've been warned.
If you want to get a better idea of what I'm like and are too shy
to ask (I understand, I'm
shy too) check out the tests I've taken and
use the compare page.
(In case you're wondering, the nickname "nervous_subject" comes
from
The Sims
2.)
What I’m doing with my life
Working in
retail
and enjoying it, surprisingly enough. Working on a BA in
liberal studies at
SJSU and
contemplating a master's in
library science. Feeding my
photography
habit, if I can ever find the time anymore.
I’m really good at
Picking up new and interesting bits of information, and discovering
connections between concepts that may not be obvious.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically? You tell me. I hope that they notice that I try to be
polite and friendly (even if I can be a little snarky at
times.)
I've recently received totally random complements on my eyes, my
beard and my smile, from three different women, respectively. I'm
just a little weirded out that they were all old enough to be my
grandmothers.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
(a) My current favorite authors are
Terry Pratchett and
Neil Gaiman, though I
often mix it up with non-fiction. Currently, I'm in the middle of
Harry Potter. (Shh! Don't spoil it!) Next on the pile are Quantico,
by Greg Bear, and The Three Stigmata of Palmer Eldritch, by Phillip
K. Dick.
(b) Too many to list, but I used to be a Star Wars freak before
Lucas ruined it for me. Right now, I'd say
Casablanca is near the top of the
list. No kidding. For my birthday I went and saw The Simpsons
Movie, which was awesome.
(c) A little of this and a little of that. I lean more towards rock
than anything else and mostly listen to whatever's on the radio,
which happens to be
KFOG these days, when I'm not listening to
NPR.
(d) I'm
picky. Fruit
and I have never been friends. I don't like weird textures or
discovering nuts in things. I especially don't like anything with a
strong bitter flavor, unless it can be sweetened. Otherwise I like
most anything. ;)
The six things I could never do without
Ok, we all know they don't mean that which is physically necessary
for survival, though it might be nice if they would specify. Most
of this stuff I can and have lived without for short periods, but I
wouldn't want to give them up forever.
An internet connection
Art and/or photography
Chocolate
Reading material
Music
Companionship
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Pick up the latest issues of
Biblical Archaeology
Review,
Scientific American and
Newsweek, and you
might get a partial glimpse. Not being conceited, I'm just sayin'.
In fact, it would be nice if I could shut my damn brain off
sometimes.
BTW, there is a good reason why I'm very serious about my
agnosticism.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home. Yes, I really am that exciting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
Let me get to know you first.
You should message me if
I'm just looking for a nice person, really...someone who can bring
me out of my shell. I've got a thing for the girl-next-door type:
friendly, smiles a lot, easy to talk to, kind to small animals,
still thinks the word "party" is a noun, that kind of thing. Bonus
points for anyone who is into
car camping or
backpacking.