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nespeshu

46 M Sebastopol, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jun 3
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am ready to open up after a wound-licking and solitude-embracing period in my life. Obligatory dating site adjectives: loyal, intelligent, generous, funny. I am a good listener. I know how to focus on what's important. I guard my time and energy for true passions and lasting commitments.
What I’m doing with my life
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Catching up on missed parenting opportunities as my younger daughter is about to graduate from the high school. Working hard. Figuring out what I really like. Running care-free on beautiful Sonoma County trails feeling the wind on my skin.
I’m really good at
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Being a father. Doing my job - managing a software development team. Staying calm when things are in disarray. Playing chess. Seeing absurd in almost anything.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am a sucker for a written and spoken word - short stories, fiction, poetry, movies, theater. Listening to New Yorker fiction podcasts in the car.

Mesmerized by movies made by Ingmar Bergman, Krzysztof Kieslowski, Lisa Cholodenko, Todd Solondz. Many other wonderful filmmakers.

Poets that make me cry: David Whyte, Mary Oliver, Joseph Brodsky.

Writers that leave me speechless: Cheryl Strayed, Linda Yuknavitch, Barbara Kingsolver.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Caffeine in the morning
Alone time
Drinking with friends
Sierra Hot Springs
Questioning arbitrary question prompts
You should message me if
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you are fiercely loyal, fit, have a perverse sense of humor, value open-hearted communication, get turned on by intelligence and experience a "hell yes" feeling right now.