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44 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 27
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Judaism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I've never had a cavity.

Two of my friends made a documentary about me awhile back, so I must be interesting. Or at least I was at the time. To them.

My lashes? To die for.

I'm well aware that there are two sides to every story. I prefer to know them both.

You can see the Statue of Liberty from my apartment.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to honor the principles of journalism at work and in the classroom. Neither is easy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Asking questions, NYT crosswords, subway etiquette, backgammon, spelunking, thoughtfulness.

Forgiving flaws. We've all got them, so might as well deal.

Making you laugh. With me, for the most part.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The Warby Parker specs, I imagine. Or the Bruce Willis head.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A) Many of those by Philip Roth, Stephen Dixon, and George Orwell.

B) Raising Arizona, Election, After Hours, Diner, The Player, Naked Lunch... My head hurts just thinking about it. Boyhood was something else, too.

C) Better Call Saul, the Returned (original French version, bien sur), Broad City, Togetherness.

D) Beck, Talking Heads, Liz Phair, Neutral Milk Hotel, Modest Mouse, Tegan and Sara, the Kinks, the New Pornographers, Jay-Z.

E) Hummus, Greek yogurt, Chop't, the occasional savory, toasted and buttered corn muffin. I also find it hard to say no to jerky of all kinds.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In-season honeycrisp apples, Facebook Scrabble, NYT crosswords, healthy skepticism, the shuffle songs option, the backspace key
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how, in movies and on television, when people are talking on the phone, they almost never say goodbye to each other before they hang up.

what is the appropriate balance of earnestness and humor on OKC. If you know, do tell.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Jury duty changed my life.
You should message me if
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you know what's good for you. Or for me.

you want to hang with someone who will make the effort.