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  • Ages 19-35
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Last online
Nov 18
Asian, Middle Eastern, Black, Native American, Indian, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin, White
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Life is school. I'm here to learn, laugh, and lead others to the most fulfilling lives possible. My unique gift is behavioral neuroscience smarts and burning passion to help people understand their behavior, and others behavior, to live the most fulfilling lives possible. At a Meta-level, I'm passionate about the neuroscience of engendering cultural tolerance when it comes to religion, race, nationality, sex etc.

I've wound down a fantastic nine year analyst job in Nashville and am serving in Tanzania, Liberia, etc through this spring.

This is my wonderful team. I'm at the bottom. (Luther Lee)

...I'm even meeting incredible people throughout East Africa via OKC! I totally had to cut a ton of Western culture humor out of my profile. ;)

Upon return to the US, I intend to visit lots of friends across the US. I couldn't be more excited my passions for social justice and investing allow me to settle in any metro, so we'll see which opportunities and beautiful souls steal my heart as my journey unfolds!

Hakuna matata! Friends say I’m a chummy, open, wholehearted, "happy go lucky" ducky. My religion is kindness!...I'm a free-thinking dreamer with a starry-eyed/poetic outlook on life...always romanticizing the cosmos and radical compassion for all humanity. I aim to never be the smartest guy in the room and have a voracious appetite for people's fascinating life narratives and each person’s unique smarts. Music, sports, languages, nature are all just as fascinating as stereotypically “brainy” stuff. I’m ceaselessly in awe and wonder as to how everything in life works and a sponge for such things.

Do you seek a playmate for yoga, swing dancing, hiking, caving, skydiving or a cuddlebuddy to enjoy a film with? Let’s enjoy a moment! Be sure and skim my profile to see all the fascinations, smiles, laughs and playfulness we share!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I had a fantastic career as a PC analyst for Dell Corp for nine years. No, don't even think about flirting with me if you just want to hack into the PC of your arch nemesis. I am done with vengeance skanks. Your revenge is my baggage. ;-) I've outgrown my PC analyst career. I couldn't be more excited transitioning to even more fulfilling work in social justice and investing in apartment buildings.

On a serious note. When it said "doing with my life" I had a bit of déjà vu!

I'm a really autotelic, self-satisfied, independent person and gravitate to others with a great sense of self-efficacy also. I endorse the following aphorisms:
▬ "We're all dating ourselves everyday...Establish you’re happy by yourself, before sharing it with someone else."
▬ "Happiness" is not a destination..."Love" is not a destination
▬ "Emotionally invest in the experiential process, not a specific outcome."
▬ "An attitude of love towards oneself, and happiness by oneself, will be found in all who are fully capable of loving others.."
▬ "You are what you love, not what loves you."

Amazing Things Seen/Done?
Spelunking Espy cave.
Synchronous fireflies.
Skin diving w/ sea turtles in Maui. Day-hiking Appalachian mountains. Hiking sand dunes. Skydiving. Polar Bear plunge. Hiking the tropical forest in Maui. Cliff diving. Serving the Special Olympics. Psychedelic Phish at Bonnaroo. A lot of mountain peaks, zip-lining & rafting in Costa Rica. Kayaking & camping Canadian boundary waters. Swimming through raging flood waters when access roads to a friend's home were overtaken. Haleakala sunset.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Competitive sobbing. Naughtiness & debauchery. Being a savvy PC analyst. I'm an ambivert and sure I've got many other "skillz"...MUAHAHAHA...I'll just share some fun quiz stuff. I'm really impressed by the personality profiling eHarmony is providing their users. I added my results from them as a photo album to OKC. Here's a few of my quiz results & I'm curious to know your results too :-) ...................... ............ ............... .................

Friends say my strengths are:
▀ that I sing in deaf children's choir
▀ being wholehearted/ unassuming/ pragmatism/ ambition
▀ my investing acumen/managing finances
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite cologne called ‘sex kitten’ by titillating troubadour. It’s illegal in nine countries and made with bits of real kittens, so you know it’s good ;-)

Literature??? Tom Robbins, Murakami,, Capital in 21st Century, Catherine Fitts blog, Go-Giver, Outliers,, Freakonomics, Brain's Role in Religious & Mystic Experiences, Art & Science of Low Carbohydrate Performance, Valuing Wall Street, Deliberate Dumbing Down of America, Man's Search For Meaning, Waking Up, Economic Facts & Fallacies, Pale Blue Dot, Life You Can Save, Psychology Today blogs, Stages of Faith, Millionaire Next Door, How God Changes Your Brain, Ethical Slut, Mating in Captivity, Noam Chomsky, Howard Zinn ...

Comedians??? Jeselnik, Regan, Robin Williams, Gaffigan, Chappelle, Dunham, Impractical Jokers Comedy Troupe

SNL, Team America, Borat, Patch Adams, Dumb & Dumber, Brazil, Lego Movie, Happy Gilmore, Kickass, Napoleon Dynamite, Shrek, Meet the Parents, Holy Mountain, Intouchables, Kung Fu Hustle, Mary & Max

Before Midnight, Waking Life, Amadeus, Gandhi, Pay It Forward, Monster, Great Dictator, Reader, Mr Nobody, Treasure of Sierra Madre, Fountain, Schindler's List, The Sessions, Network, 500 Days of Summer, Mulholland Dr

Nonlinear/confusing/abstract/puzzle films, documentaries,, House MD, Vsauce, Cosmos documentary series, foreign films

iPod??? Audiobooks, more audiobooks, comedy, podcasts, EDM, brainwave entrainment, orchestral soundtracks, Piano Guys, folk, African Tribal, calypso, soca, vocal jazz, acoustic vocals, simple soulful music, simple Spanish vocals, Lindsey Sterling, Apocalyptica, Sam Lin, Clint Mansell, LOTR, nature/ocean/rain sounds, scat, lounge music, classical (solo piano & violin). Soaring strings & vocals transport me to cloud 9!

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I reject your sixocracy!
▀ Wholehearted relationships/deep sense of empathy
▀ Wikipedia/audiobooks/TED conferences/dictionary/thesaurus
Social justice activism (Kyriarchy, egalitarian, religious)
▀ Laughs & Wanderlust
▀ Investing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...the amazing times we live in & the ever increasing precision with which we can explore the brain/consciousness/universe!

Promoting principles for self-actualization as a "happiness engineer."

Effective altruism & illuminating social justice issues.
I'm enamored with: ▬

Other than comedy, pop culture & mainstream media bores me. My favorite credos regarding media & history: "Every man his own priest" "Truth can be stranger than fiction" "Sunlight is the best disinfectant"

"I'm in a permanent state of an intellectual erection."
- Salvador Dali :p ...My worldview straddles the boundaries between neurology, psychiatry & psychoanalysis. Kind of like a House MD that warmly sees people & myself as “curious little creatures.”...but without House's condescension. (E.G. I like guessing people's digit ratio)

In addition to aforementioned interests, I also enjoy reading about: happiness econonomics, biopsychosocial models, psychobiography, neurotheology, biopsychology, neurocriminology, epigenetics, biotech, noetic sciences, TDCS, pharmacology, psychonautics, synesthesia, low-carb & ketogenic dieting, sexology, oneirology, lucid dreaming, experimental psychology, global investing, neurohacking

If you want to know more, I've amended dozens of the OKC Q&As with pensive stuff from my blog. The Q&As gush with what colors my worldview.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Main orgs I spend time with: ▬Yes, that's me :-)

You won't find me at the bar...I'm a bucket list kind of chap always seeking novel/variety of experiences:
TED conferences, Skepticon, film festivals, music festivals (Bonnaroo, Ultra Music Festival, TomorrowWorld, Dayglow, Electronic Daisy Carnival, Burning Man, etc), OneTaste/GGG, float tanking, hiking, yoga, swing dancing, trampoline gym, snowboarding, rock climbing, cycling, kayaking, spelunking, ballooning, meetups/salons, swimming, snorkeling/scuba, poetry cafe, meditating, museums, Nordic skiing, tennis, disc golf, exercising, roadtripping, international travel/world heritage sites, ziplining, 4wheeling, bungee, zorbing, hang gliding, playing party games w/ friends, hosting couchsurfers, volunteering for brain research ( is amazing!)

Video messaging via phone (skype, glide) and love of travel have afforded me amazing relationships at any distance. I wouldn't have some of my greatest enduring relationships had I limited my horizons to my local city! :-) Skype neuroguy77 or glide
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Does one or more of the following describe you?
▀ Have burning desire to lead change you wish to see in the world??!!
▀ You're most interested in musing with mindmates & any given day eager to share the novel somethings you just learned???
▀ You're an emotional Jedi and hunger for deep, wholehearted conversation with intimates???
▀ You delight psyching people up to be the best they can be???
▀ You take pleasure in serving others/making a difference with helpmates???
▀ You have a mature understanding of "privilege" and appreciate that growing "affluent" can empower positive influence just as much as not growing affluent and giving time???
▀ You love hearing me habitually say "What do you think?"... "I respect that..." or "humbly I don't know, and I'd be curious to learn that..."

▀ You seek a yoga/acroyoga/swing dancing/hiking mate???
▀ You seek a runningmate/tennis/swolemate???
▀ You seek thrills, outdoors, world wonders with playmates???
▀ You'd love to muse over audiobooks while roadtripping???
▀ You'd love weekend trips to mountains for day hikes???
▀ You'd love to tent/sleep under the stars in national parks???
▀ Months travel in Tanzania, Bali, Costa Rica intrigues you???
▀ You love snuggling up watching films??? (foreign, indy, documentary, psychological thriller)
▀ You enjoy the intimacy of reading books aloud???
▀ You conduct shamelessly awkward social experiments E.G. candid camera to gather people's reactions???
▀ Modest, dreamer, well-read, great judge of character, radiate empathy, poetic, witty, generous, high-fiving???

I believe in reciprocal dating/taking turns and share Warren Buffett's prosperity mindset and ideology regarding conspicuous spending. I love the endorphins and euphoria of novel romantic interests as much as anybody AND a firm believer it takes a couple years to allow that stage to pass before considering greater secure attachments/greater commitments.

I can be very decisive and my philosophy is "different strokes for different folks" or

Sooo...Are you excitedly thinking something I've shared is complimentary and more of "who you are?" If it's an emphatic YES, I'm eager to make your acquaintance!!!

My fellowsapiosexuals out there, this will undoubtedly make you smile :-) ...

Ignore all that follows, it's only for those persons using interest tags on the desktop PC version of OKC
Shambhala Buddhism social movements social issues political leaders public speaking author leadership social injustice social inequality social structure social equality political activism political campaigns political blogs occupy wall street the occupy movement anti-capitalists anti-capitalism altruism Secularism secular humanism The Perennial Philosophy Unitarianism Unitarian Universalism Universalism collective action cooperation economic justice Community Organizing young turks pale blue dot the pale blue dot self-actualization real estate investing positive psychology electro swing acro yoga imperialism pastafarian transhumanism pantheism socioeconomics behavioral economics behavioral neuroscience biohacking psychonautics self-actualization

Leaders: John Taylor Gatto, Catherine Austin Fitts, Louis Brandeis, Martin Luther, Martin Luther King, neurotheologist Todd Murphy, neuroscientists Alan Snyder & Vilayanur S. Ramachandran, Ray Kurzweil, Peter Singer, Tank Man, neurochemist Steve Fowkes, Naomi Klein, Charlie Chaplin, Ramsey Clark, Meb Faber, Jeremy Grantham, Warren Buffett, Thomas J Stanley, Ethan Nadelmann, Eckhart Tolle, Nick Hanauer, Daniel Amen, Werner Erhard, Simon Sinek, Elaine Aron, Mozi, Buddha's condemnation of the caste system, Ben Cohen (ben & jerry's)

Historians/Academics/Journalists: Carroll Quigley, C. Wright Mills, Glenn Greenwald, Antony Sutton, William Domhoff, Gary Webb

Whistleblowers William Binney, Russ Tice, Jacob Appelbaum, Charlotte Iserbyt, Smedley Butler