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29 Nashville, TN Man


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Last Online
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Asian, Middle Eastern, Black, Native American, Indian, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My cup overflows. At present, I only seek to connect with people that message me with *burning passion* for one or more of the following:
▀ Boldly crusading pragmatic solutions for social justice
▀ Tactfully voicing religious reason
▀ Commercial multifamily real estate investing
▀ Non-Real estate investment fund management

If you're not into sarcastic humor...bummer...start at ¶ #4... ▀ ▀ ▀
I'm as wealthy as MC Hammer, as graceful as a dog at a fire hydrant and as modest as Kanye West. I drink hatorade for breakfast to start the day off right. I poo poo on science…It's a tool of Satan. The cosmos is hideous like your face. TED is lame as a duck. Not the metaphorical lame duck, but a real duck actually lame from stepping on a land mine. Compassion is for weak namby pamby fairies. Little old ladies that can no longer bake me cookies should be made into soylent green.

Social justice activism and democracy is not at all important to me. I adore caste systems, peonage, nepotism and neoliberalism. Thank goodness for laissez-faire patrimonial capitalism and trickle-down economics! I love living in a world where 85 of my siblings steward more economic resources than 3.5 billion of my siblings. I'm euphoric it's accelerating such that 1% of my siblings have captured 95% of all prosperity growth since 2009, while the bottom 90% of my siblings became less prosperous!

I work as hard as your mom on a Saturday night and my ambition is like the wings of an ostrich. I can't stand hiking, kayaking, swimming, Tennis or any other activity that could mess up your manicure. Wanderlust is for hoity-toity yuppie douche-bags. Sapiosexuals are pathetic impotent Missionary Mary librarians. When they're bad in bed, I give them my best sargasm. I'm a bum as tight as a snare drum…Up tight! If you don't think this sarcasm is as subtle as a butt burp air biscuit in the bath…Tough noogies…Honey badger don't care! I'm on Gap Yah darling!
We can get together the second Tuesday of next week to talk about it.

¶ #4 ▀ ▀ ▀ Seriously, life is school. I'm here to learn and laugh! I have a voracious appetite for books, people's fascinating life narratives, and their esoteric knowledge of various domains. It’s a joy musing with uber-inquisitive and well-read friends. I aim to "never be the smartest guy in the room." Nonetheless, I’m not bashful about sharing my own expertise in domains such as socioeconomics/behavioral economics, social justicebehavioral neuroscience/psych, biohacking, psychonautics and self-actualization.

My career passion is as an entrepreneur in syndicated real estate investing, REITs, and real estate development

When not working real estate, I have a burning desire to network/organize with other thought leaders putting together viral videos/memes for social justice that's actually effective altruism...issues that have the greatest measurable societal/global impact AND shifting public policy is measurable AND actually achievable. No pie in the sky stuff. Some of this will go to political action committees, some not. I'm rabid to increase my literacy in successful models of drastic public policy shifts actually achieved and how they've been organized and lead.

I currently see massive opportunity with inequality, incarceration, and religious reason. I've made myself very competent to illuminate these issues. I envision giving a future TEDx talk about a social justice issue. My ears are eager to hear about all social justice issues...It's those with jaw-dropping achievable solutions, and I can actually grow competent to tackle, I'll pursue like a Serengeti Lion!!! Sidebar...In looking for boards to serve on for social justice issues is amazing!

I've amended dozens of pensive blog musings to the Q&As gushing with the aforementioned worldview I'm not bashful about. In keeping with with all this social justice stuff, I'm nicknamed Luther Lee for having Martin Luther's irreverent rebel mindset and crusading for the underprivileged.

Social justice and brainy stuff aside, Hakuna matata! I'm a chummy, easy to get to know kind of guy...always passionate to contribute some good to something or someone. Friends say I'm wabi-sabi "happy go lucky" ducky. My religion is kindness!...with philosophical leanings are towards pastafariantranshumanism and romanticized pantheism. I'm definitely a dreamer with a starry-eyed/poetic outlook on life...always romanticizing the cosmos and radical compassion for all humanity. (Leave Britney alone! :p)

I'm in a bromance with IWontMurderYou6. You can't not like the guy!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I was driving an ice cream truck until the courts said I can't drive a lockable van that attracts children anymore. You know, ice cream truck driving is just too political. Then I worked for Buford's Bail Bonds & DMV Glamour Shots directing traffic of people waiting in line. More recently, I became a PC analyst. No, don't even think about flirting with me if you just want to hack into the PC of your arch nemesis. I am done with vengeance skanks. Your revenge is my baggage. I've always dreamed of making it as an entrepreneur. My idea is to launch a child caskets business.

Seriously. When it said "doing with my life" I had a bit of déjà vu! ... I'm working diligently to be able to leave my 9-5 corporate PC analyst job. I'm just starting to learn syndicated real estate & am thrilled by the opportunity it presents to lead some change I wish to see in the world. :-)

I'm a really self-satisfied, independent person and gravitate to others with a great sense of self-efficacy also. I endorse the following aphorisms:
▬ "We're all dating ourselves everyday...Establish you’re happy by yourself, before sharing it with someone else."
▬ "Happiness" is not a destination..."Love" is not a destination
▬ "Emotionally invest in the experiential process, not a specific outcome."
▬ "An attitude of love towards oneself, and happiness by oneself, will be found in all who are fully capable of loving others.."
▬ "You are what you love, not what loves you."

Amazing Things Seen/Done?
Skin diving w/ sea turtles in Maui. Day-hiking Appalachian mountains. Hiking sand dunes. Skydiving. Polar Bear plunge. Hiking the tropical forest in Maui. Cliff diving. Serving the Special Olympics. Psychedelic Phish at Bonnaroo. A lot of mountain peaks, zip-lining & rafting in Costa Rica. Kayaking & camping Canadian boundary waters. Swimming through raging flood waters when access roads to a friend's home were overtaken. Haleakala sunset.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Competitive sobbing. Naughtiness. Being a savvy PC analyst. Sure I've got many other "skillz"...MUAHAHAHA...I'll just share some fun quiz stuff. I'm curious to know your results too :-) I'm an ambivert that bounces between INFJ INTJ. Maslow Group Theory would say I'm a pioneer. I find Big 5 personality profiles helpful & am really impressed by the Big5 personality profiling eHarmony is providing their users. I added my results from them as a photo album to OKC. I also find Helen Fisher, love languages, and GGG useful when evaluating mates. Here's my quiz results: ...................... ............ ...............

Friends say my strengths are:
▀ having Gilbert Gottfried's voice, Channing Tatum's ears & Napoleon Dynamite's sex appeal...Ladies, please, contain your orgasms :p
▀ my sense of style & having everything in the Ray Charles collection
▀ that I sing in deaf children's choir
▀ being wholehearted/unassuming/pragmatism/ambition
▀ my investing acumen/managing finances
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Noam Chomsky, Howard Zinn Tibetan Peach Pie, Norwegian Wood, Leaders Eat Last, Start with Why,, Tragedy & Hope, Capital in 21st Century, Catherine Fitts blog, Go-Giver, Outliers,, Freakonomics, Brain's Role in Religious & Mystic Experiences, Art & Science of Low Carbohydrate Performance, Change Your Brain Change Your Body, Valuing Wall Street, Deliberate Dumbing Down of America: A Chronological Paper Trail, Economic Facts & Fallacies, Pale Blue Dot Life You Can Save, Psychology Today blogs, Snowball, Power of Now, Untethered Soul, Why We Get Fat, Road Less Travelled, Stages of Faith, Dataclysm, Millionaire Next Door, God Delusion, How God Changes Your Brain, Mating in Captivity, Why Him Why Her, 4 Hour Body, People's History of the US, GMO Quarterly Newsletter, ... ...

SNL, Team America, Borat, Patch Adams, Dumb & Dumber, Brazil, Lego Movie, Happy Gilmore, Kickass, Napoleon Dynamite, Shrek, Meet the Parents, Holy Mountain, Intouchables, Kung Fu Hustle, Mary & Max

Before Midnight, Waking Life, Amadeus, Gandhi, Pay It Forward, Monster, Great Dictator, Reader, Mr Nobody, Treasure of Sierra Madre, Fountain, Schindler's List, The Sessions, Network, 500 Days of Summer, Mulholland Dr

Nonlinear/confusing/abstract/puzzle films, documentaries,, House MD, Vsauce

Ikiru, Yojimbo, Bacheha-Ye Aseman, Podzemlje, Incendies, Jagten, Mibu Gishi Den, 2046, Okuribito, Le Scaphandre et le Papillon, Kimssi Pyoryugi

Comedians. (Jeselnik, Regan, Robin Williams, Gaffigan, Chappelle, Dunham)

Just a few of the leaders whose footsteps I'm grateful to follow in: Catherine Austin Fitts, Louis Brandeis, Martin Luther, Martin Luther King, neurotheologist Todd Murphy, neuroscientists Alan Snyder & Vilayanur S. Ramachandran, Ray Kurzweil, Peter Singer, Tank Man, neurochemist Steve Fowkes, Naomi Klein, Charlie Chaplin, Ramsey Clark, Meb Faber, Jeremy Grantham, Warren Buffett, Thomas J Stanley, Ethan Nadelmann, Eckhart Tolle, Nick Hanauer, Daniel Amen, Werner Erhard, Simon Sinek, Buddha's condemnation of the caste system

Historians/Academics/Journalists: Carroll Quigley, John Taylor Gatto, C. Wright Mills, Glenn Greenwald, Antony Sutton, William Domhoff, Gary Webb

Whistleblowers William Binney, Russ Tice, Jacob Appelbaum, Charlotte Iserbyt, Smedley Butler

Audiobooks, more audiobooks, comedy, podcasts, trance techno, brainwave entrainment, orchestral soundtracks, Piano Guys, folk, African Tribal, calypso, soca, vocal jazz, acoustic vocals, simple soulful music, simple Spanish vocals. Needless to say I've had an untrained ear my whole life & am awesome at Mondegreens. Lindsey Sterling, Apocalyptica, Sam Lin, Clint Mansell, LOTR, nature/ocean/rain sounds, scat, lounge music, classical (solo piano & violin). Soaring strings transport me to cloud 9!!!

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I reject your sixocracy!
▀ Wholehearted relationships/deep sense of empathy
▀ Wikipedia/audiobooks/TED conferences/dictionary/thesaurus
Social justice activism (Kyriarchy, egalitarian, religious)
▀ Investing
▀ Laughs & Wanderlust
▀ Psychonautics / rare double rainbows :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...the amazing times we live in & the ever increasing precision with which we can explore the brain/consciousness/universe!

Promoting principles for self-actualization as a "happiness engineer."

Effective altruism & illuminating social justice issues.
I'm enamored with: ▬

Imagine going to a 100 persons dinner with exactly 100 portions food. Imagine the first 2 people eating 50 portions! Imagine the next 48 people eating 49 portions leaving only 1 portion scraps for the remaining 50 people. This is the world we live in. You and I have more prosperity and opportunity than 90% of human beings. Talk about privilege!!!

Other than comedy, pop culture & mainstream media bores me. My favorite credos regarding media & history: "Every man his own priest" "Truth can be stranger than fiction" "Sunlight is the best disinfectant"

"I'm in a permanent state of an intellectual erection."
- Salvador Dali :p ...My worldview straddles the boundaries between neurology, psychiatry & psychoanalysis. Kind of like a House MD that warmly sees people & myself as “curious little creatures.”...but without House's condescension. (E.G. I like guessing people's digit ratio)

In addition to aforementioned interests, I also enjoy reading about: happiness econonomics, biopsychosocial models, psychobiography, neurotheology, biopsychology, neurocriminology, epigenetics, biotech, noetic sciences, TDCS, pharmacology, psychonautics, synesthesia, low-carb & ketogenic dieting, sexology, oneirology, lucid dreaming, experimental psychology, value-investing (as opposed to growth investing), global investing, neurohacking
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Batman. Rescuing kittens from trees, puppies from storm drains and covering mud puddles with wool coats. You can tell when I'm in disguise, because I'll be wearing pants. On Saturdays I'm at support group for testicular cancer victims with my friend Marla Singer. Then clubbin' seals. Sunday I take my lithium vitamins and "it puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again."

You won't find me at the bar...I'm a bucket list kind of chap always seeking novel/variety of experiences:
TED conferences, Skepticon, social activist stuff, film festivals, music festivals (Bonnaroo, Dayglow, Electronic Daisy Carnival, Burning Man, etc), OneTaste/GGG, float tanking, hiking, snowboarding, rock climbing, cycling, kayaking, spelunking, ballooning, meetups/salons, swimming, snorkeling/scuba, poetry cafe, meditating, museums, Nordic skiing, tennis, disc golf, exercising, roadtripping, international travel/world heritage sites, ziplining, 4wheeling, bungee, zorbing, hang gliding, playing party games w/ friends, hosting couchsurfers, volunteering for brain research ( is amazing!)

BEEEEEEEEEEEP. We now interrupt your regularly scheduled programming to bring you this public service announcement.

I love how the internet (OKC) allows us to put our bobber in the ocean and meet alter egos around the world sharing a similar esoteric worldview or ideological schema/mosaic. :-) I endorse OKC to everybody!!! I’ll impart some wisdom…If you use Google Chrome browser with this powerful extension you can far more quickly filter out higher quality matches. That extension and having pasted my pensive blog musings to dozens of the Q&A have made OKC rock my face off...OORAH!!!

A day will come when OKC will better promote/capitalize on the same sex platonic friend potential of this amazingly powerful site. Facebook is already building this with “grid search.” Don’t be afraid to build out your profile! Surely never delete it. In addition to romance, I’m networking & video chatting with amazing platonic guy/gal friends, activists, and business associates all around the globe just by strategically searching keywords and allowing OKC to search "everybody." GO GET EM PARTNER!

We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming…
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If romance/bedmates are your greatest priority, don't waste your time on me. Inspiring, wise, wholehearted friends are my first priority, romance second.

Does one or more of the following describe you?
▀ You have burning desire to lead the change you wish to see in the world???!!!
▀ You're most interested in musing with mindmates & any given day eager to share the novel somethings you just learned???
▀ You're an emotional Jedi and hunger for deep, wholehearted conversation with intimates???
▀ You delight in psyching people up to be the best they can be???
▀ You take pleasure in serving others/making a difference with helpmates???
▀ You have a mature understanding of "privilege" and appreciate that growing "affluent" can empower positive influence just as much as not growing affluent and giving time???
▀ You seek a hiking/runningmate/tennis/swolemate???
▀ You seek thrills, outdoors, world wonders with playmates???
▀ You'd love to muse over audiobooks while roadtripping???
▀ You'd love weekend trips to the nearby mountains for day hikes???
▀ You'd love to tent/sleep under the stars at the different national parks???
▀ Months travel in Tanzania, Bali, Costa Rica intrigues you???
▀ You don't desire to have your own kids???!!! (I love kids and want to be the best uncle, godfather, continue serving foster children. I don't desire to have my own.)
▀ You love snuggling up watching films??? (foreign, indy, documentary, psychological thriller)
▀ You enjoy the intimacy of reading books aloud???
▀ You conduct shamelessly awkward social experiments E.G. candid camera to gather people's reactions???
▀ Humility, dreamer, well-read, great judge of character, radiate empathy, poetic, high-fiving???

I believe in reciprocal dating/taking turns and share Warren Buffett's prosperity mindset and ideology regarding conspicuous spending.

I love the endorphins and euphoria of novel romantic interests as much as anybody AND a firm believer it takes a couple years to allow that stage to pass before considering greater secure attachments/commitment.

Have you ever observed a couple consumed with feeding their "relationship"...??? I’m not your manic pixie dream man, nor you my pixie. ........ .........
More substantially, my life goals don't include those of the typical "domestic household." I seek mates to jointly lead the crusade of kicking social injustice ass and MacGyvering the change we wish to see in the world. As a subset of being “sapiosexual” you could say I’m duxsexual. Yes, my very own portmanteau :-)

I can be very decisive and my philosophy is "different strokes for different folks" or
Sooo...Are you excitedly thinking something I've shared is complimentary and more of "who you are?" If it's an emphatic YES, I'm eager to make your acquaintance!!!

My fellowsapiosexuals out there, this will undoubtedly make you smile :-) ...

I like yours and my immune system the way it is. There's an old saying…”Having sex with Jane/John Doe, you’re having sex with all of Doe’s past partners. You’re having to trust Doe is a perfect judge of character and always exercised perfect judgment.” My STI literacy is higher than 99% of men you'll meet. If our biology finds each other attractive, I insist on having a partner already well informed about STIs and/or enthusiastic to have an unabashed conversation about it. For every one part "Casanova," I'm nine parts "Kinsey." I take a lot of risks most people won't take, yet needless STI risks isn't one of them.


Other keywords so social justice activists can connect w/ me
social movements social issues political leaders public speaking author leadership social injustice social inequality social structure social equality political activism political campaigns political blogs occupy wall street the occupy movement anti-capitalists anti-capitalism altruism Secularism secular humanism The Perennial Philosophy Unitarianism Unitarian Universalism Universalism collective action cooperation economic justice Community Organizing young turks pale blue dot the pale blue dot self-actualization