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29 M Nashville, TN

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Asian, Middle Eastern, Black, Native American, Indian, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Banking / Finance
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Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I never learned how to smile. I shudder at the sound of laughter. I spit on books and small children. I love mega churches and tea party politics. I shun non-theists. TED talks are the worst, I wouldn't get involved with that organization if they paid me. I can't stand hiking, kayaking, swimming or any other activity that could mess up your manicure. Egalitarian politics are not at all important to me. I'm averse to any kind of merry-making. Tennis sucks. Dance parties are lame. I poo poo on science. Wanderlust is for losers. I despise friends, family, and community. I detest learning. I drink hatorade for breakfast. Sarcasm is disgusting. If you agree, honey badger don’t care for you!

Life is school. I'm here to learn and laugh! I have a voracious appetite for books, people's fascinating life narratives, and their esoteric knowledge of various domains. It’s a joy musing with uber-inquisitive and well-read friends. I aim to "never be the smartest guy in the room." Nonetheless, I’m not bashful about sharing my own expertise in domains such as economics, neuroscience, biohacking, psychonautics, para-politics among others.

I’m especially passionate about egalitarian activism, intrapersonal intelligence, brain science, perennial philosophy and syndicated real estate. So much so that I’ll be leading future speeches in public forums (community orgs & youtube) and networking/organizing with other thought leaders to put together viral blog/video campaigns. As such you’ll find my Q&A colored with that mindset. I envision giving a future TEDx talk that intersects these subjects. (except real estate of course)

Activism and brainy stuff aside, I’m a really chummy, wabi-sabi, hakuna matata, easy to get to know kind of guy. I'm always passionate to contribute some good to something or someone. I have a very starry-eyed/poetic outlook on life...always romanticizing the cosmos, egalitarian philosophy and leaders, and radical compassion for all humanity. (Leave Britney alone! :p)

I'm definitely a dreamer. My philosophical leanings are towards perennial philosophy, pantheism, pastafarian, transhumanism. My religion is kindness! I'm seeking an organization best fit for me to serve on the board. is amazing!

I'm called Luther Lee for having Martin Luther's irreverent rebel mindset & my desire to heal people. Morally taboo public policy endorsements and criticism avoidance fascinate me (para-politics). Also, resource competition and economic/political power structures.

I'm in a bromance with IWontMurderYou6. You can't not like the guy!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I was driving an ice cream truck until the courts said I can't drive a lockable van that attracts children anymore. You know, ice cream truck driving is just too political. Then I worked for Buford's bail bonds & DMV Glamour Shots & directing traffic of people waiting in line. More recently, I became a PC analyst. No, don't even think about flirting with me if you just want to hack into the PC of your arch nemesis. I am done with vengeance skanks. Your revenge is my baggage.

Seriously. When it said "doing with my life" I had a bit of déjà vu! ... I'm working diligently to be able to leave my 9-5 corporate PC analyst job. I'm just starting to learn syndicated real estate & am thrilled by the opportunity it presents to lead some change I wish to see in the world. :-)

I'm a really self-satisfied, independent person and gravitate to others with a great sense of self-efficacy also. I endorse the following aphorisms:
▬ "We're all dating ourselves everyday...Establish you’re happy by yourself, before sharing it with someone else."
▬ "Happiness" is not a destination..."Love" is not a destination
▬ "Emotionally invest in the experiential process, not a specific outcome."
▬ "An attitude of love towards oneself, and happiness by oneself, will be found in all who are fully capable of loving others.."
▬ "You are what you love, not what loves you."

Amazing Things Seen/Done?
Skin diving w/ sea turtles in Maui. Day-hiking Appalachian mountains. Hiking sand dunes. Skydiving. Polar Bear plunge. Hiking the tropical forest in Maui. Cliff diving. Serving the Special Olympics. Psychedelic Phish at Bonnaroo. A lot of mountain peaks, zip-lining & rafting in Costa Rica. Kayaking & camping Canadian boundary waters. Swimming through raging flood waters when access roads to a friend's home were overtaken. Haleakala sunset.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Competitive sobbing. Naughtiness. Being a savvy PC analyst. Sure I've got many other "skillz"...MUAHAHAHA...I'll just share some fun quiz stuff. I'm curious to know your results too :-) I bounce between INFJ INTJ. I find Big 5, Helen Fisher, love languages, and GGG useful when evaluating mates. Here's my quiz results: ...................... ...............

Friends say my strengths are:
▀ having Gilbert Gottfried's voice, Channing Tatum's ears & Napoleon Dynamite's sex appeal...Ladies, please, contain your orgasms :p
▀ my sense of style & having everything in the Ray Charles collection
▀ that I sing in deaf children's choir
▀ being wholehearted/unassuming/pragmatism/ambition
▀ my investing acumen/managing finances
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Literature???, Tragedy & Hope, Capital in 21st Century, Catherine Fitts blog, Go-Giver, Outliers, Freakonomics, Brain's Role in Religious & Mystic Experiences, Art & Science of Low Carbohydrate Performance, Change Your Brain Change Your Body, Valuing Wall Street, Deliberate Dumbing Down of America: A Chronological Paper Trail, Economic Facts & Fallacies, Norwegian Wood, Life You Can Save, Psychology Today blogs, Snowball, Power of Now, Untethered Soul, Why We Get Fat, Road Less Travelled, Stages of Faith, Dataclysm, Tibetan Peach Pie, Millionaire Next Door, God Delusion, How God Changes Your Brain, Mating in Captivity, Why Him Why Her, 4 Hour Body, People's History of the US, GMO Quarterly Newsletter, ... ...

Nonlinear/confusing/abstract/puzzle films, documentaries,, House MD, Vsauce

Ikiru, Yojimbo, Bacheha-Ye Aseman, Podzemlje, Incendies, Jagten, Mibu Gishi Den, 2046, Okuribito, Le Scaphandre et le Papillon

Holy Mountain, Intouchables, Kung Fu Hustle, Mary & Max, SNL, Team America, Borat, Patch Adams, Dumb & Dumber, Brazil, Lego Movie, Happy Gilmore, Napoleon Dynamite, Shrek, Meet the Parents

Before Midnight, Waking Life, Amadeus, Ghandi, Pay It Forward, Monster, Great Dictator, Reader, Mr Nobody, Treasure of Sierra Madre, Fountain, Schindler's List, The Sessions, Network, 500 Days of Summer, Mulholland Dr

Comedians. (Jeselnik, Regan, Robin Williams, Gaffigan, Chappelle, Dunham)

Just a few of the leaders whose footsteps I'm grateful to follow in: Catherine Austin Fitts, Louis Brandeis, Martin Luther, Martin Luther King, neurotheologist Todd Murphy, neuroscientists Alan Snyder & Vilayanur S. Ramachandran, Ray Kurzweil, Peter Singer, neurochemist Steve Fowkes, Charlie Chaplin, Ramsey Clark, Meb Faber, Jeremy Grantham, Warren Buffett, Thomas J Stanley, Richard Linklater, Eckhart Tolle, Nick Hanauer, Daniel Amen, Werner Erhard, Buddha's condemnation of the caste system

Historians/Academics/Journalists: Carroll Quigley, John Taylor Gatto, C. Wright Mills, Glenn Greenwald, Antony Sutton, William Domhoff, Gary Webb

Whistleblowers William Binney, Russ Tice, Jacob Appelbaum, Charlotte Iserbyt, Smedley Butler

Audiobooks, more audiobooks, comedy, podcasts, trance techno, brainwave entrainment, orchestral soundtracks, Piano Guys, folk, African Tribal, calypso, soca, vocal jazz, acoustic vocals, simple soulful music, simple Spanish vocals. Needless to say I've had an untrained ear my whole life & am awesome at Mondegreens. Lindsey Sterling, Apocalyptica, Sam Lin, Clint Mansell, LOTR, nature/ocean/rain sounds, scat, lounge music, classical (solo piano & violin). Soaring strings transport me to cloud 9!!!

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I reject your sixocracy!
▀ Wholehearted relationships/deep sense of empathy
▀ Wikipedia/audiobooks/TED conferences/dictionary/thesaurus
▀ Social activism (Kyriarchy, egalitarian, religious)
▀ Laughs
▀ Psychonautics / rare double rainbows :-)
▀ Wanderlust
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...the amazing times we live in & the ever increasing precision with which we can explore the brain/consciousness/universe!

Promoting principles for self-actualization as a "happiness engineer."

Effective altruism & promoting egalitarian principles. I'm enamored with: ............ .....

Imagine going to a 100 persons dinner with exactly 100 portions food. Imagine the first 2 people eating 50 portions! Imagine the next 48 people eating 49 portions leaving only 1 portion scraps for the remaining 50 people. This is the world we live in. You and I have more prosperity and opportunity than 90% of human beings. Talk about privilege!!!

Other than comedy, pop culture & mainstream media bores me. My favorite credos regarding media & history: "Every man his own priest" "Truth can be stranger than fiction" "Sunlight is the best disinfectant"

"I'm in a permanent state of an intellectual erection."
- Salvador Dali :p ...My worldview straddles the boundaries between neurology, psychiatry & psychoanalysis. Kind of like a House MD that warmly sees people & myself as “curious little creatures.”...but without House's condescension. (E.G. I like guessing people's digit ratio)

In addition to aforementioned interests, I also enjoy reading about: happiness econonomics, biopsychosocial models, psychobiography, socio-economics, behavioral economics, neurotheology, behavioral neuroscience, neurocriminology, epigenetics, biotech, noetic sciences, TDCS, pharmacology, psychonautics, synesthesia, low-carb & ketogenic dieting, sexology, oneirology, lucid dreaming, value-investing (as opposed to growth investing), global investing, neurohacking
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Batman. Rescuing kittens from trees, puppies from storm drains and covering mud puddles with wool coats. You can tell when I'm in disguise, because I'll be wearing pants. On Saturdays I'm at support group for testicular cancer victims with my friend Marla Singer. Then clubbin' seals. Sunday I take my lithium vitamins and "it puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again."

You won't find me I at bar...I'm a bucket list kind of chap always seeking novel/variety of experiences:
TED conferences, Skepticon, social activist stuff, film festivals, music festivals (Bonnaroo, Dayglow, Electronic Daisy Carnival, Burning Man, etc), OneTaste/GGG, float tanking, hiking, snowboarding, rock climbing, cycling, kayaking, spelunking, ballooning, meetups, swimming, snorkeling/scuba, poetry cafe, meditating, museums, Nordic skiing, tennis, disc golf, exercising, roadtripping, international travel/world heritage sites, ziplining, 4wheeling, bungee, zorbing, hang gliding, playing party games w/ friends, hosting couchsurfers, volunteering for brain research ( is amazing!)

BEEEEEEEEEEEP. We now interrupt your regularly scheduled programming to bring you this public service announcement.

I love how the internet (OKC) allows us to put our bobber in the ocean and meet alter egos around the world sharing a similar esoteric worldview or ideological schema/mosaic. :-) I endorse OKC to everybody!!! I’ll impart some wisdom…If you use Google Chrome browser with this powerful extension you can far more quickly filter out higher quality matches. That extension and having pasted my pensive blog musings to dozens of the Q&A have made OKC rock my face off...OORAH!!!

A day will come when OKC will better promote/capitalize on the same sex platonic friend potential of this amazingly powerful site. Facebook is already building this with “grid search.” Don’t be afraid to build out your profile! Surely never delete it. In addition to romance, I’m networking & video chatting with amazing platonic guy/gal friends, activists, and business associates all around the globe just by strategically searching keywords and allowing OKC to search "everybody." GO GET EM PARTNER!

We now return you to your regularly scheduled programming…
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If romance/bedmates are your greatest priority, don't waste your time on me. Inspiring, wise, wholehearted friends are my first priority, romance second.

Does one or more of the following describe you?
▀ You have burning desire to lead the change you wish to see in the world???!!!
▀ You're most interested in musing with mindmates & any given day eager to share the novel somethings you just learned???
▀ Hunger for deep, wholehearted conversation with intimates???
▀ You delight in psyching people up to be the best they can be???
▀ You take pleasure in serving others/making a difference with helpmates???
▀ You have a mature understanding of "privilege" and appreciate that growing "affluent" can empower positive influence just as much as not growing affluent and giving time???
▀ You seek a hiking/runningmate/tennis/swolemate???
▀ You seek thrills, outdoors, world wonders with playmates???
▀ You'd love to muse over audiobooks while roadtripping???
▀ You'd love weekend trips to the nearby mountains for day hikes???
▀ You'd love to tent/sleep under the stars at the different national parks???
▀ Months travel in Tanzania, Bali, Costa Rica intrigues you???
▀ You don't desire to have your own kids???!!! (I love kids and want to be the best uncle, godfather, continue serving foster children. I don't desire to have my own.)
▀ You love snuggling up watching films??? (foreign, indy, documentary, psychological thriller)
▀ You enjoy the intimacy of reading books aloud???
▀ You conduct shamelessly awkward social experiments E.G. candid camera to gather people's reactions???
▀ Humility, dreamer, well-read, great judge of character, radiate empathy, poetic, high-fiving/fist-bumping???

I believe in reciprocal dating/taking turns and share Warren Buffett's prosperity mindset and ideology regarding conspicuous spending.

I love the endorphins and euphoria of novel romantic interests as much as anybody AND a firm believer it takes a couple years to allow that stage to pass before considering greater secure attachments/commitment.

Have you ever observed a couple absorbed in serving one another and less disposed to jointly serving others/leading the change they want to see in the world? I’m not your manic pixie dream boy. You’re not my manic pixie dream girl ... ... ... As a subset of being “sapiosexual” you could say I’m compassiosexual and duxsexual…Yes, my very own portmanteaus :-)

I can be very decisive and my philosophy is "different strokes for different folks" or
Sooo...Are you excitedly thinking something I've shared is complimentary and more of "who you are?" If it's an emphatic YES, I'm eager to make your acquaintance!!!

My fellowsapiosexuals out there, this will undoubtedly make you smile :-) ...