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Tom Leykis tenets: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Leykis%20101
Dating Tips for men! Choose lovers and friends wisely/Don't appear so needy/Look for red flags at the early stages/Never do long distance relationships, Never co-sign, Watch out for illegal immigrants that want to use you for a green card, Avoid women with kids at home, Stop bending over backward for women and do your own thing, Listen to Tom Leykis on dating (youtube).
-Never co-sign or mix any finances with a woman.
-Must see video on youtube. Check out don't get married stupid!
-Listen to Tom Leykis on youtube. (Read the comments under the videos)
-Avoid being catfished online by meeting only local women that are close by & meeting ASAP after a phone call. Stop talking on the phone forever & bring to real life ASAP.
-Avoid single women with a bunch of kids at home. Just know it's a package deal when dating women with kids. Do you like her kids? Do you get along with them? Will you have to pay for them?
-Don't become a walking wallet. Avoid date and run women by avoiding dinner & movies for first time meet up. Meet up at bookstores, parks during the day or a cafe. (No spending money until you know she is into you)
-Avoid all long distance relationships like the plague. Go for the women that live in the same county. Less than 10 miles.
-The less attachment you have to women the less suffering you will have.
-Avoid dating or marrying any illegal immigrants. It's not worth the risk because most of them just want to use you for a green card. (Google Marriage Fraud)
-Watch how women treat animals, waiters, maids and exes. This is how she will treat you if you break up.
-Avoid women that have no time for you/no workaholics.
-Never let a woman borrow money or mix any finances. Have separate bank accounts/never co-sign!
-Check out Jesco White on marriage youtube (Funny)
-Get in touch with your inner asshole when it comes to women.
-Never trust a woman who won't perform oral sex on you.
-Stop bending over backwards for women and do your own thing. Most women are attracted to what they can't control.
-Watch out for women that use phrases in online profiles like "looking for a real man" or "gentleman". This simply means she wants you to pay for everything and take care of her. Watch for code words in profiles!
-Avoid love triangles by not getting involved with two people at the same time. Have time to heal between each relationship. You can have sex with two different people but no emotions/falling in love with two. (Very painful!)
-Google Dave Ramsey on co-signing and getting out of debt.
-Don't leave a lot of your possessions at their house. You never know when it will be over.
-Avoid letting women use up precious time texting & talking on the phone. Meet ASAP and have sex not phone friends!
-No marriage with women. Check out Tom Leykis on marriage on youtube.
-Never jump thru hoops for a woman. Be less interested to turn her on.
-Check out Tom Leykis on dating (youtube)
-Invest at least 10% of your income instead of spending it on a woman.
-Avoid traditional women that want to be showered with flowers, jewelry and other expensive gifts.
-You can't ever please a woman. The more you do for a woman the more she will expect of you.
-Falling in love is like getting in quicksand. It's easy to get in and hard to get out.
-Men aren't afraid of marriage. They are afraid of divorce and the consequences that come with divorce.
-Never assume your woman won't cheat, leave or take your money. All women can do this to a man. (Have no attachment)
-Never get involved with any woman if you aren't attracted to her. Never be embarrassed to be seen with her.
-Avoid manly women that act like men. You want a feminine woman that is kind & sweet. Avoid the mean, bratty, overly sarcastic women.
-Avoid anyone that is violent or overly jealous.
-Avoid restaurants & bars with your girlfriends girlfriends & family. Often you will have to pay for her cheap friends.
-Avoid druggies and drunks. Avoid bar whores!
-Before you get in any relationship makes sure you are thinking with your big head. Keep in mind your deal breakers and spot those red flags at the early stages before you get your heart attached.
-Avoid women that are into Nascar, stuffed animals, wrestling. You want classy not cheesy!
-It's easier to prevent getting in a relationship than getting out of one. Watch for red flags at the early stages!
-It's a package deal when dating single women with kids. Do the kids like you? Do you guys get along? Just be aware of it.
-Communication is key in any relationship. Can you talk to each other? Do you guys listen to each other?
-Do you like her parents? kids? friends? Yes it matters because it's a package deal.
-Men want new women like women want new shoes.
-Don't spend hours on the phone before meeting someone. Meet as soon as possible to avoid wasted time with someone you don't connect with in real life. Phone/online is not the same as real life!
-Tom Leykis - Why "being nice" to women doesn't work. (youtube)
-Either you are a payer or a player. You decide how women view you!
-Never give up friends, hobbies for women. Be independent and follow your own dreams.
-Avoid any women that never listens to you. If they are always blabbing and never come up from air then cut them out of your life.
-Check out Dan & Jennifer Online Dating - Can I Really Fall In Love Online? youtube
-Why is it all the women with fake hair, fake nails, and fake bodies expect to find a "real man"?
-Google What Happened to All the Nice Guys? on craiglist. Great little rant!
-You can lose lots of money chasing women, but you will never lose women chasing money.
-The harder you try for a woman the more she will walk all over you.
-Don't work so hard for her. Let her chase you.
-The person less interested in the relationship controls the relationship.
-Never throw out a womans # even if you get in a relationship. Always have a plan B!
-What starts out with laughter often ends in tears.
-Get involved with rich women & avoid women that are in debt, no job and poor.
-Run a background check on women & make sure she doesn't have a criminal record, warrants or any unpaid parking tickets.
-Never hold a woman's purse when out shopping.
-Before marriage and kids men have all the power.
-No women that won't drive or have a car.
-Avoid women with no job. You will become the sugardaddy.
-Make her pay for shit and do nice things for you. Stop doing everything for her.
-Always remain a mystery to women and let them know you have other options.
-Don't be a nice guy instead be interesting and unpredictable.
-Always have other women in the bullpen warming up. Don't put all your eggs in one basket/Never throw out a woman's phone #.
-Books to read: Don't sweat the small stuff, The mack within, The complete ***holes guide to handling chicks, They mystery method, The game, Secrets of the A game, The 48 laws of power, Nice guys don't get laid, No more mr. nice guy, Mode one, Everything out of her mouth is a test, The Predatory Female", A Field Guide to Dating and The Marriage-Divorce Industry, by Lawrence Shannon.
Youtube videos to check out online: Don't get married stupid!, Friends don't let friends get married, Marriage fraud, Tom Leykis on dating, Chris Rock on marriage, Bill Maher on marriage, Eddie Murphy on marriage, move your money, don't co-sign, men math and marriage, men's dating tips, dan & jennifer dating.
Google: Buster B don't get married, Don't get married Perkel.
Life lesson tips: Eat more veggies, never co-sign, listen more talk less, spend time in nature, use your local library, drink less colas & more water, brush & floss daily, invest at least 10% of your income, exercise, have a pet, choose your friends & lovers wisely, never marry or date an illegal immigrant(Google marriage fraud), visit new churches & religions, read more self-help books, watch more documentaries, be kind to everyone, learn to relax & don't sweat the small stuff, listen to positive books on cd's(free from library), never lose your sense of humor,be more open minded, be willing to learn, always wear a seat belt, think before you talk, hug more, when you love someone say it, don't make assumptions, count your blessings, commit yourself to quality, be alert for opportunities to show praise and appreciation, don't make the same mistake twice, give people the benefit of the doubt, don't insist on running someone else's life, don't interrupt, never assume a woman won't leave you/remember the only person who won't leave you is yourself.
First Meetup tips: When you meet someone online it's a meet up not a date.
Meet at a bookstore, park, mall, library, cafe, small towns, nature preserves. Any place we can both escape if we don't like each other. Meet up somewhere free or at least low cost. Women will either like you or they won't. Spending lots of cash won't change a woman's mind.
Use restaurant coupons for half off on meals. I love a sexy man that knows how to save money. (groupon, entertainment coupon book, half off, sweet jack, atlanta on the cheap)
Never spend money on the first meet. Hell you don't even know if she is into you. Save your cash and avoid dinners and movies. Go dutch, meet at parks, meet at bookstores, malls, libraries, cafe.
Best free date (Arrive early at coffee shop and buy your own drink before you meet her. You lose nothing but a little time if you don't match up.)
Check out Dan & Jennifer Online Dating - Can I Really Fall In Love Online? youtube Meet soon after talking on the phone!
Watch out for women that just want a green card! Tom Leykis- Men going foreign BEWARE!! (youtube)
Hobbies/Fun Things to do: posting pictures online, blogging, world cat library, eating out, traveling, fall season, corn maize, little 5 points halloween parade, factsheet 5, zines, photography, reading, concerts, fall festivals, answers, reddit, shopping, dancing, music, stickers, graffiti art, bansky, athens georgia, junkman daughter in little 5 points, political art, stencils, hiking, redbox, videodrome video store (ATL), investing, indie films, downtown roswell ga, candler park, uu church, vegetarian restaurants, documentaries, anti-marriage fraud activist, raw foods, green smoothies, kissing in the rain, foot massages, loving life, positive quotes, self-help audio cd's, state parks, having fun, doing new things, networking, going to new places, keeping positive attitude, being open minded, being kind, gene simmons, richard carlson, tom leykis, relationships between men & women, life lesson tips, film making, six flags, nature preserves, studying apologetics/atheism, wine, uu church, zig ziglar, les brown, state & local parks, political art, take more pictures, toe sucking, letter writing, recycling, road trips, roadside attractions, south of the border dillion sc, panama city, myrtle beach, exploring.
Tom Leykis: The goal is to get the most tail for the less cash & drama!
A blind date online is a meet not a date. Meet only at low cost or free places: parks, bookstores, cafes, mall. No dinner or movies for first meet!
You can lose lots of money chasing women, but you will never lose women chasing money.
Women use sex to get love, men use love to get sex.
Women are like shadows: the more you chase them, the faster you run the faster they run away and you will never be able to catch them...but what happens the minute you turn your back on them and walk away?
Whenever you are too worried about someone else's approval, that person loses respect for you.
It is better to be disliked for being who you are than to be loved for who you are not.
The most attractive quality of all is dignity.
If it has tits or tires it's gonna cost you some money.
Don't trust a woman who won't perform oral sex on you.
Avoid single women with a bunch of kids at home!
The less attachment you have to women the less suffering you will have.
Always remain a mystery to women and let them know you have other options.
Before marriage & kids men have the power.
Falling in love is like getting in quicksand. It's easy to get in and hard to get out.
Love is blind but marriage is an eye-opener.
The person less interested in the relationship controls the relationship.
Why is it all the women with fake hair, fake nails, and fake bodies expect to find a "real man"?
Men want new pussy like women want new shoes.
It's easier to prevent getting in a relationship than getting out of one.
What starts out with laughter often ends in tears.
Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another.
A person who is nice to you but not nice to the waiter is not a nice person.
When a man brings his wife flowers for no reason - there's a reason.
Marriage is not a word. It is a sentence (a life sentence!!!)
Marriage is love. Love is blind. Therefore marriage is an institution for the blind.
A happy marriage is a matter of giving and taking; the husband gives and the wife takes.
When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him keep her.
Any man who thinks marriage is a 50/50 proposition proves that: Either he knows nothing at all about percentages, (or) he's got an awful lot to learn about both women and marriage.
A man can be happy with any woman as long as he doesn't love her.
Before marriage, a man yearns for the woman he loves. After marriage, the 'Y' becomes silent.
Bigamy is having one wife too many. Monogamy is the same.
Ah, yes, divorce, from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man's genitals through his wallet.
Lust is easy. Love is hard. Like is most important.
Women are from mars and men have a penis.
Dumb men will always get married. So will smart women.
A man is called a "catch" because he's trying to run away.
Why divorces cost so much? Because they're worth it.
Why get married? Just find a woman you don't like and buy her a house!
50% of Americans (and 52% of Brits) end their first marriages with divorce, and nearly 70% of all second marriages end in divorce.
You never truly know a woman until you meet her in court.
The truth about men & women: Men want new pussy and women want money & security.
Some women are expert housekeepers. Every time they get divorced, they keep the house.
Being divorced is like being hit by a Mack truck. If you live through it, you start looking very carefully to the right and to the left.
Truly powerful people don't explain why they want respect. They simply don't engage someone who doesn't give it to them.
You jump through hoops any time you repeatedly make it very obvious you're giving your "all".
Before sex, a man isn't thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly, and the woman isn't.
Anything a person chases in life runs away.
Act like a prize, and you'll turn her into a believer.
Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.
The more independent you are of her, the more interested she will be.
She simply won't respect a man who automatically goes into overdrive to please her. (Be a crazy bad boy)
You can get away with saying much more with humor than you can with a straight face.
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