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new2u2009

52 / M / straight / Single

Lamar, Missouri

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 3" (1.90m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Virgo
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Transportation
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am happy, outdoors, and single.

My Self-Summary

I'm a single man of 51 1/2 years,, been divorced since '92. ( I think the question of " on the rebound "has been satisfied). , almost all animals ( except skunks). I've got a few dogs, a cat (who lives here when he wants to), a few horses, and a little land to wander around on. I love bon fires, and cooking brats over an open flame,,,,I smoke a lot during the summer months ( meat ). And I love life, and all it has to offer. I know my way around a kitchen fairly well, But after many many years of eating yer own cookin,,,, I feel there's room for advancement. Me and the pres. both think it's time for a change.,,, I'm 6'3 195# light brown hair .I'm {[basic/yet complex,}] if that makes any sense. I love all of the < simple pleasures > life has to offer.Yet,, I have an < analytical mind > and I use it, To me,,, {[ EVERY THING HAPPENS FOR A REASON }],,,We may not understand it at the moment,, But give it time, and everything will eventually come to the surface,,, And if you're lucky enough, you'll see it, recognize it, grasp it, learn from it, and ultimately benefit from it for future use.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I've learned a LOT over the years, and I'd like to thing I had a lot to bring to the table,,,< Someone in my future is going to benefit from all my failures in my past >.

What I’m doing with my life

well,,, I work a lot. ( the rail road ). When I'm not at work, for money, I'm working on my little piece of ground, I call home. that mother nature is fighting me over. I'm busy on my "off week-ends" cooking for special events like, weddings,anniversaries,birthdays,charitable events. when all is said and done,,I set back and contemplate, " what would I be doing IF I was married, or had a GOOD woman in my life",,,,And on Sundays,,, it's time to play house wife.< doing laundry,vacuuming,etc.etc,> and

I’m really good at

(not admitting what I'm bad at ) lol...I'm {self sufficent} BUT,,,

The first things people usually notice about me

dont know,,,,I never asked...My height..6'3".....my mustache?? the lack of jewelry on my left hand???????? you tell me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

books? oh, about anything by Ralph Compton, or Elmer Kelton, Larry McMurtry, Jory Sherman. Movies, oh lets see; < I really have varied taste there..> there's "The Notebook" "We were Soldiers" "Message in a Bottle" "Open Range" "Big Fish" "Tombstone" "Driving Miss Daisey".see a pettern there?Music; '60s-'70s-'80s Hey,,,, I'm a Classic.< NO RAP.. Food,,, > I have a weakness for Mexican food and Margaritas< maybe more for the margaritas. Chinese food, I'm a man,,,PIZZA.,,, not really a picky eater.

The six things I could never do without

well,,,1st thing,,,,My morning COFFEE..2nd my two (grown) daughters,,,,,,,,, I know,,I know,,,,I put my daughters 2nd,,, the reason being,,, they didnt want to be around Dad until HE had his first cup in the morning,,,,,,,,,, the Love of a GOOD woman, a warm fire, my dog( since there's no women here,,, he gets talked to alot,,,, we discuss things),,,,,,,,,,,, the sixth thing in my life I could never do without,,,,I've never met before,,,,,,,,maybe thats why i'm here,,,,,, are you out there?

I spend a lot of time thinking about

"what if I'd taken the other path" ? I've always taken the road less traveled. What it would be like to roll over in the morning and nuzzel the back of a womans neck,. Wondering if there's a woman out there

On a typical Friday night I am

Well,,,, I dont have typical Fridays nights,,,,. It may be as simple as , Margaritas in front of the fire place just relaxing., or friends come over and we go out back and build a big fire, and have a few beers . I am willing to try something new,,,, whats yours like,,,,,I might like yours better,,,

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

" when nobody's around,,,,I put chocolate in my coffee",,,, just, dont let that get out. Private,, remember?,,,,I guess if you want to know whats inside of ME ,,,, you'll have to get to know me better . There's a lot in there if,,, "you know where to look", and,"What questions to ask".

You should message me if

You are sincere ( No Mattress Monkeys),,if you believe in monogamous relationships,(if you wont tell my coffee secret).