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41 F Miami, FL

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids

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My self-summary
"Seduce my mind and you can have my body. Find my soul and I'm yours forever."

I am a champion, a warrior, I am eternally positive, optimistic, opportunistic. I have an insatiable appetite for learning something new, doing something new, going on my next adventure.

I used to think I was just crazy (in a good way) but now scientists have made it legit and linked it to well being. Google "neophiliac".

Here's an article about it:

I have little tolerance for negativity or drama. I wear a medic alert bracelet that says I am allergic to: drama, bad wine and neediness. True story. I will break out in hives and go into anaphylactic shock. It's not cute!

I have:
- fantastic kids (yes, plural - stfu)
- a drama free relationship with my ex, who is an excellent father (not looking for a baby-daddy)
- a successful, challenging and rewarding career (don't need your money)
- my mental and physical, health and fitness in check (yours better be, too)
- loving family and friends (truly blessed)
- an insane sense of humor (you'll quickly learn what I mean)

I am guided by:
- humility
- gratitude
- a thirst for knowledge

My Mantra:
Live large, choose courageously, love without limits.

But, alas... something appears to be missing? Someone to share life's special moments, intimately (and I don't only mean sexually), connecting both in the quiet and the chaos. A kindred spirit who shares equally in my joys and my heartache and I in theirs. A profound friendship wherein we want each other, but don't need each other. Similar enough to be compatible long-term and yet different enough to be continually intriguing. Someone to crave. Someone to misbehave with.

My personal journey has been one of continual learning experiences. I have been told I am "tough". On the outside, that is exactly what my environment has made of me. Inside, I'm vulnerable. I have had my heart broken and I have broken a few hearts - both equally painful. Deep down where I live, I am a hopeless romantic and choose to live by my mantra and "love without limits" even when it's risky.

I give my all. Jump in with both feet. Take risks. In love. In life. There is no alternative.
What I’m doing with my life
I have entered the wild and wonderful world of a startup entrepreneur (again). I am building a new tech biz in the health and wellness space, after almost 20 years building a career in marketing. Some days I am terrified. Most days I am exhilarated.

One of favorite quotes is, "if your dreams don't scare you, they are not big enough." I guess I'm finally dreaming big enough.
I’m really good at
Having mad fun just being.
Finding new adventures.
Dancing like a rhythmless white girl, while singing off key.
The first things people usually notice about me
Energy, passion. At least that what I like to think. It's probably just my boobs though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Just finished The Four Agreements as well as the Fifth Agreement. Recently read The Lean Startup and Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance (old one). Went on a Paulo Coelho kick and read 11 Minutes and The Alchemist. I also enjoy reading any kind of book on Health and Wellness or spirituality, like Ultra Prevention, Think and Grow Rich, The Art of Happiness, The Power of Now, Blink, Harmonic Wealth. Classics and best sellers like Slaughterhouse Five, Breakfast of Champions, Kite Runner, She's Come Undone, The Weight of Water, Dirty Girl's Social Club, The Devil Wears Prada, Chasing Harry Winston, 50 Shades of Grey (duh!) I have only read the first one so far. I could go on for days. I love to read and prefer books to TV.

Movies: Pulp Fiction, Forrest Gump, Green Mile, Full Metal Jacket, Top Gun (I'm such a girl), Terms of Endearment, Seven, Cocaine Cowboys, Old School,
The Hangover, Superbad.

Shows: Love theater. Book of Mormon is insanely funny. I just saw the revamped Pippin on Broadway - just wow. What a great show.

Music: Addicted to the Teddy Pendergrass Pandora station at the moment. I love discovering "new-to-me" music, especially music that has soul and makes me feel something. Favs: Incubus, O.A.R.,
Sublime, Jack Johnson, DMB, Ben Harper, The Temper Trap, Anything Cafe del Mar or Buddha Bar, Good Dance/Electronic/Indie, Soulful R&B (Laura Izibor, Jill Scott, Kem), some hip hop (Jay Z, Lil Wayne, Kanye), Radiohead, Passion Pit, Ghostland Observatory, Miike Snow, Ed Sheeran, blah, blah, blah.

Food: Yes please, as long as it's paired with a nice wine. Oysters and champagne, seafood, and a kick-ass eggs benedict rank at the top. I have also never met a truffle I didn't like. I mostly
eat healthy. Not completely vegetarian or vegan (obvi given my fav food choices), but can go for a long stretch without meat or animal derived foods. I think about this all the time. It's an evolution. I'm getting there, one day at a time!
The six things I could never do without
1) my kids
2) my passport
3) air
4) sunshine
5) words
6) apple products
bonus answers: lip gloss and stilettos. oh, and Jameson!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to be a better human.
On a typical Friday night I am
Looking for an adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I LOVE DJ Hero for wii, but only play when no one's looking. And, I'm not really a pirate. Shhhhhh!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
This comes from a genuine place of not wanting to waste anyone's time, so I hope you read it and are not offended. I wish much love for everyone, but our search is deeply personal. In that sense, this profile is all about me and I am very selective about people I am willing to spend my time with. Don't be offended if I don't answer your message. There is someone special waiting just for you.

Physical attraction and chemistry are VERY important. I am a very physical person (I guess I'm intense all around). I tend to be attracted to a person like this: strong sense of personal style, has good energy. He is athletic, handsome in my eyes, humbly confident, sexy and sexual, charismatic, a little edgy, funny, smart, driven and sociable. Someone I can learn from and who has an infectious laugh. I fall hard for creative types, entrepreneurs, 'do-gooders'... and the occasional hipster.

What does this mean for you? If you have read what I am looking for and are nodding your head "yes, yes, yes"... If you're comfortable in your own skin, aren't afraid to expose your flaws and you are ready to meet a game-changer, then you should definitely message me.