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newbrain
22 / M / straight / Single
Vacaville, California
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 6' 2" (1.87m).
- Body Type
- —
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Sometimes
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Agnosticism but not too serious about it
- Sign
- Scorpio but it doesn’t matter
- Education
- Working on college/university
- Job
- Student
- Income
- —
- Kids
- —
- Pets
- —
- Languages
- English (Poorly)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am erudite, simple, and happy-go-lucky.
My Self-Summary
I'm a pretty plain guy. I spend entirely way too much time just laying in the grass. I like hot baths, good books, good tea, and happy music. I'm pretty much a pacifist, violence just isn't very nice.
Recent text from my friend margiecakes:
"...stop overthinking things. Seriously, you take everything waaaaay too seriously. You need to lighten up."
What I’m doing with my life
I'm also doing a fair amount of rowing in the mornings.
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
(B) The Darjeeling Limited, Garden State, Snatch, brick, Fight Club, Trainspotting, Requiem for a Dream, Fear and Loathing, Wag The Dog, The American Astronaut, RocknRolla, Waiting..., Eurotrip, Slumdog Millionaire, No Country for Old Men
(C) The Fratellis, Common Rider, Arctic Monkeys, Bright Eyes, The Kooks, The Wombats, Bright Eyes, Ingrid Michaelson, The Pigeon Detectives, The White Stripes, Ida Maria, The Bravery, The Shins, Rilo Kiley, Flaming Lips, The New Pornographers, Against Me!, Violent Femmes, Ingrid Michaelson. Recently started listening to: Tom Waits and Andrew Bird
(D) I have the firm belief that bacon and butter make everything better, grasshopper pie, fettuccine alfredo, chicken parmesan, asian food in general (including sushi), I love avocados, I work at a pizzeria so I guess I like pizza, I have recently grown fond of thai and indian foods.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The infinite possibilities each day holds should stagger the mind. The sheer number of experiences I could have is uncountable, breathtaking, and I'm sitting here refreshing my inbox. We live trapped in loops, reliving a few days over and over, and we envision only a handful of paths laid out ahead of us. We see the same things each day, we respond the same way, we think the same thoughts, each day a slight variation on the last, every moment smoothly following the gentle curves of societal norms. We act like if we just get through today, tomorrow our dreams will come back to us.
And no, I don't have all the answers. I don't know how to jolt myself into seeing what each moment could become. But I do know one thing: the solution doesn't involve watering down my every little idea and creative impulse for the sade of someday easing my fit into a mold. It doesn't involve tempering my life to better fit someone's expectations. It doesn't involve constantly holding back for fear of shaking things up.
This is very important so I want to say it as clearly as I can:
FUCK. THAT. SHIT.
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I think this is important to assert: My interest in someone else as a person is based solely on the thoughts that flow from them. Qualities such as having similar interests, ability to freely communicate, etc. are all nice, but not sufficient.