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newday1780

48 / M / Straight / Single

Seattle, Washington

His Details

Last Online
Today – 3:45pm
Ethnicity
Indian, White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Ah, yes, the online profile. A vain attempt (double meaning intended) to convey one's essence in a sentence or two. It is as impossible a task for me as it is for you. I am a whole person, complex, confident, convoluted. Do you feel, as I do, that the depth of one's character transcends language, and pithy pronouncements packaged in a paragraph don't even start to scratch the surface? Yes, I love the PNW and all it has to offer and am physically active in my appreciation of it. Yes, I am looking for a long term relationship that feels so right. Yes, I love to laugh and I have a nonstop sense of humor. But what I am really after is a deep connection that undergirds all of the enjoyable moments so that we just KNOW and feel each other. I am a searcher, a spiritual thinker and want someone who is too, and will encourage me to delve, as I will her, but will also revel in the NOW, and readily appreciate who and where we are This Moment. I want to create something wonderful together. Let's learn, discover, grow together, and laugh about it!

By the way, I am American. Yes, my Dad was from India (Mom is from Oregon) and I'm happy to have that Indian heritage, but I am born and raised here. I have a thick American accent. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Spreading the love of art music (aka classical) through teaching cello to young people and running a non profit performing arts organization that I started 8 years ago.

Finding the balance between delving deep into life's inner meaning, and having simple fun, enjoying all life has to offer. Endeavoring to live a life free of judgment, including of myself!

Working on fitness, core strength. Staying active and gently improving the quality of my diet. Love camping, hiking, and car trips, travel. I love discovering other cultures, and appreciating their differences.

Also, spending time looking for a woman who gets me, and pushes me to learn and grow and improve, but doesn't try to change my core. I like who I am!
I’m really good at
Cello. Performing and teaching it.

Cooking (well, getting there anyway).

Messing with the English language - (Did you hear about the procrastinator? He never bit off more than he could eschew ;)

Challenging authority, bending the rules
The first things people usually notice about me
People have told me I have a nice smile.
I am an introvert, but that doesn't mean shy.
I can carry a conversation, and will look you in the eye.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Classics - Jane Eyre, Tale of Two Cities, etc.
Vonnegut, Jasper Fforde, Asimov, Tolkien, Rumi
Eckhart Tolle is grabbing me at the moment. Deida is kickin my butt.

Ethnic food. I'm fairly adventurous in my tastes. Love spicy food.

Will do action movies (Avengers, LOTR), chick flicks, but probably my favorites are foreign and non-hollywood. Loved Once. I don't own a TV.

Music - busman's holiday. My career is music, so I tend not to listen on my own. That said, I enjoy lots of kinds of music if others are listening. Except classical, because it draws my attention and distracts me. It's my profession and my passion, so I can't listen casually. Classic rock, alternative, jazz, folk, good contemporary rock (there IS some...), world music. (But not country or heavy metal.)
The six things I could never do without
The six things? Who said there are SIX??
Love my two college age daughters (update: one is now a college GRAD!)
Playing chamber music
Teaching, sharing my expertise
Masala Chai
Chocolate
Water. Need that. Food too. And Shelter.
My iPhone, I'm afraid. sigh.
What am I up to, 9? Unless each daughter counts, then it's 10.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Existence; awareness; delving into life's meaning.
Ontology; where things are headed musically, spiritually, physically, mentally.
The nature of relationships. What is chemistry?

I also think about the folks who worked on curbing the spread of African killer bees. Nice to know that SOMEone is working on the problem of Global Swarming!
On a typical Friday night I am
...trying to think of what typical is.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a hot pink iPhone cover. I LIKE pink. :P
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 36–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You love fun but you have a serious side and like to explore ideas and concepts. In between the fun. You have a sense of humor. You don't want to get to know someone by email or text, but in person. Need that chemistry!