32 Oakland, CA
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My self-summary
I am non-monogamous and in a happy relationship with a wonderful woman (she doesn't like online dating, so I sadly don't have a profile to link you to). I mostly consider myself Poly, though I am also open to less serious dating. I have only dated women and am just recently exploring my attraction to men.

I believe in equality and active ongoing consent. That a sign of true strength is the ability to be vulnerable. I believe that proof of a strong identity is the ability to be accepting of differences. That sex and sexuality is beautiful.

I love art, food, people and community. I am consistent, grounded, passionate and easygoing. I love long one on one conversations where the rest of the world fades into the background and time disappears. I love to get to know new people and excited by what makes each of us unique.
What I’m doing with my life
I spend most of my time these days as a working artist. It is a lot of work and not a lot of money, but I am grateful and still filled with excitement and wonder by what I do.
I’m really good at
Seeing the potential in others, loving people for who they are, being positive, being realistic, building things with my hands, playing strategy games, giving shoulder massages, being present with people, talking about feelings, being fair, being silly.
The first things people usually notice about me
Someone told me their first impression was that I was expressive with my body language.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I don't know. Work, art, relationships, people, the nature of the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
The day of the week doesn't have all that much influence on my choice of activity. Often times I forget it is Friday and wonder why the restaurant has such a long wait...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am pretty open and enjoy talking about feelings, relationships and sex.

Sometimes before I go to sleep I think of all the stupid things I said or did that day (or that month) and am hard on myself for them.