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35 M London, UK

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:20am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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I think shared values are what builds connection. I value communication, independence, and playfulness. At the moment my life is changing a lot so I'm open to a committed relationship but not solely focussed on it.

So I'm here to meet new friends and hook up for intimate encounters. I really need intellectual and emotional stimulation as well as physical.

I like women that can teach me things and know how to listen. I am fascinated by creativity and communication.

I am deep, sincere and fucking hilarious.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working in a museum, writing fiction, improvising comedy and stories.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Women are always blatantly checking out my neck-chest triangle when I wear shirts. Presumably I have a hypnotic adams apple.

I have a working class saff-east/kentish accent.

I have nice fore-arms, biceps and general shoulder-area if you like those kinds of things. Which you obviously do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favourite Passionate Clinch:
Daniel Day-Lewis and Madeline Stowe in Last of the Mohicans.
Mmm, dat clinch.

Poor quality clip if you haven't seen it:

I adore books, films and comedy.

Books: Classic Sci-Fi and Fantasy, eg Fritz Leiber, John Brunner.

Films: My favourite movies: Pan's Labyrinth, The Goonies, The Warriors, The Incredibles, Little Miss Sunshine, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, Plains Trains and Automobiles, Bride With the White Hair, Almost Famous.

I grew up on 80s films. I like cheesy classics, heartwarmers, intelligent sci-fi. I love films.

Films I watched/rewatched recently and enjoyed. Kiki's Delivery Service, Heathers, Ink, Linda Linda Linda.

Music: I listen to Metal, Motown, female songwriters like Tori Amos, Neko Case, Jenny Lewis, and a lot of other stuff.

I game a lot, board and video. I started on the Spectrum, graduated to the Snes and Megadrive, currently play a lot of indie stuff on PC like Guacamelee. Strategy and RPG games mostly.

I read a lot of sci-fi and a bit of fantasy, also comics. I absorb a lot of media.

Favourite Comedies: Look Around You, Space, Alan Partridge, MST3K.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Empathy and fun.

If you want to know where my antenna are focussed then see Brene Brown's TED talk on vulnerability.

Also I dig Mr Rogers. My role models are him, Bill Hicks and Sam Beckett from Quantum Leap.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Improvising. I'm obsessed. Even when I work on other things I keep thinking about running classes and doing shows.

I am an improv geek I will talk about it a lot if you let me.

Also Non-Violent Communication, I have been using that for about 5 years. It's fundamental to how I see the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fucking around doing something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like primal connections, I don't like small talk for the sake of it.

I've been around and long-term my dating goal is to find somebody to share my life with. But I think that happens by being myself and finding the people that are drawn to that.

I like honesty and will always be upfront about my intention.

I will tell you the secret assessment that runs in my head on a date. I will listen to you, see if you listen to me and are interested in my point of view, and make dry jokes and see if you get them.
You should message me if
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"I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness"

If you can finish the rest of that quote...

If you want a partner to go to: Prince Charles Cinema, Museums, Comedy Gigs, Poety Nights, Galleries. All that stuff.

Or we could meet in some bar and have awkward drinks and feel that terrible existential loneliness of crushed expectations. We will succumb to fear and fail to ask provocotive questions of each other. *Sadface*