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36 London, UK Man


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  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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Hey, welcome to my charming advert.

I like telling stories about honesty and vulnerability. I write for a museum and I perform improvised stories.

I enjoy working very hard and then carefully putting down that responsibility at the end of the day. I'm passionate about working as a creative but I need an open heart also.

I really like sunsets that have that lurid purple and pink texture to them. It's like a sweet shop for the eyes.
What I’m doing with my life
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Getting my writing/performing to be my main thing. It's hard work but I want to make art about vulnerability and change, so I'm willing to put the hours in to make it happen.

Been learning Korean since Xmas! 한국어흥미있어요.

I did a week-long clown workshop with Spymonkey recently which was brilliant. Being in the shit the whole week. Fail again. Fail better.
I’m really good at
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The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a working class saff-east/kentish accent, which surprises people apparently.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The full list is ridiculous, I will just put down recent fascinating things I have experienced. The Ape and the Sushi Master by Frans De Waal. Lords of Light by Zelazny. Castaway on the Moon. Sex Criminals. Rat Queens.

Favourite things of all time. Imajica by Clive Barker. Promethea by Alan Moore. Goonies. Almost Famous. I really love Idries Shah's writing and Cordwainer Smith's.

Favourite Passionate Clinch:
Daniel Day-Lewis and Madeline Stowe in Last of the Mohicans.
Mmm, dat clinch.

Poor quality clip if you haven't seen it:

Music-wise I grew up listening to heavy metal, Devin Townsend and Opeth. Listen to everything now. I love the soundtrack to O Brother Where Art Thou. Tori Amos, They Might Be Giants, Arethra Franklin, Detroit Emeralds, RIlo Kiley, Neko Case, Ravi Shankar. All good.

I consume a lot of media and love talking about it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Empathy and fun.

If you want to know where my antenna are focussed then see Brene Brown's TED talk on vulnerability.

Also I dig Mr Rogers. My role models are him, Bill Hicks and Sam Beckett from Quantum Leap.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Improvising. I'm obsessed. Even when I work on other things I keep thinking about running classes and doing shows.

I am an improv geek I will talk about it a lot if you let me.

Also Non-Violent Communication, I have been using that for about 5 years. It's fundamental to how I see the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Come on, there isn't one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I volunteered with the Samaritans for a bit, that and other experiences put me in very intimate conversations that influenced how I see people. I saw the strength in people even through pain and how we can all be more supportive of ourselves and others.

Maybe that's a bit intense but I think life is supposed to have all those colours in it. I'm happy to explore emotional topics as well as fuck about and talk nonsense.
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"I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness"