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  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
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5' 8" (1.73m)
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Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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Connection is important to me, with others, with nature and with myself.

Right now I am listening to Moon Safari by Air and wondering what facet of personality to write about. I like the rough edges and surprising vulnerabilities in people. Recently I went to Gothenburg to write whilst listening to the sea. It was good.

I had a good talk with a theatre teacher who believes that everybody has a story in them, and I strongly agree. People have a lot of strength and creativity if you support them.

That's the main thing I keep coming back to. I like the sciences, but I don't think we have created an ergonomic society with them yet. You need to honour your individuality.
What I’m doing with my life
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My day job is basically writing about science for a museum. No prize for guessing which one.

I am learning Korean. 한국어 흥미있어요! 그리고 한국어 말하기 재미 있어요.

I like board-games and do that quite a bit. I perform improvised comedy.

Most recent gig was Barbarettes, which was incredible.

I'm looking for a companion to play boardgames, go to parks and the wilderness, go to museums and gigs, and wander about London with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a working class saff-east/kentish accent, which surprises people apparently.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The full list is ridiculous, I will just put down recent fascinating things I have experienced. The Ape and the Sushi Master by Frans De Waal. Lords of Light by Zelazny. Castaway on the Moon. Sex Criminals. Rat Queens.

Favourite things of all time. Imajica by Clive Barker. Promethea by Alan Moore. Goonies. Almost Famous. I really love Idries Shah's writing and Cordwainer Smith's.

Favourite Passionate Clinch:
Daniel Day-Lewis and Madeline Stowe in Last of the Mohicans.
Mmm, dat clinch.

Poor quality clip if you haven't seen it: Here

Music-wise I grew up listening to heavy metal, Devin Townsend and Opeth. Listen to everything now. I love the soundtrack to O Brother Where Art Thou. Tori Amos, They Might Be Giants, Arethra Franklin, Detroit Emeralds, RIlo Kiley, Neko Case, Ravi Shankar. All good.

I consume a lot of media and love talking about it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Empathy and fun.

If you want to know where my antenna are focussed then see Brene Brown's TED talk on vulnerability.

Also I dig Mr Rogers. My role models are him, Bill Hicks and Sam Beckett from Quantum Leap.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Improvising. I'm obsessed. Even when I work on other things I keep thinking about running classes and doing shows.

I am an improv geek I will talk about it a lot if you let me.

Also Non-Violent Communication, I have been using that for about 5 years. It's fundamental to how I see the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Come on, there isn't one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really like being emotionally supportive. I worked with the Samaritans for a while and have done lots of other similar training.

So I'm pretty open and hard to surprise. I am emotionally available.
You should message me if
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"I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness"

I like genuine connection and positive actions. So if you want a genuine connection and some passion and playfulness we will get on.