Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Connection is important to me, with others, with nature and with
Right now I am listening to Moon Safari by Air and wondering what
facet of personality to write about. I like the rough edges and
surprising vulnerabilities in people. Recently I went to Gothenburg
to write whilst listening to the sea. It was good.
I had a good talk with a theatre teacher who believes that
everybody has a story in them, and I strongly agree. People have a
lot of strength and creativity if you support them.
That's the main thing I keep coming back to. I like the sciences,
but I don't think we have created an ergonomic society with them
yet. You need to honour your individuality.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My day job is basically writing about science for a museum. No
prize for guessing which one.
I am learning Korean. 한국어 흥미있어요! 그리고 한국어 말하기 재미 있어요.
I like board-games and do that quite a bit. I perform improvised
Most recent gig was Barbarettes, which was incredible.
I'm looking for a companion to play boardgames, go to parks and the
wilderness, go to museums and gigs, and wander about London with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a working class saff-east/kentish accent, which surprises
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The full list is ridiculous, I will just put down recent
fascinating things I have experienced. The Ape and the Sushi Master
by Frans De Waal. Lords of Light by Zelazny. Castaway on the Moon.
Sex Criminals. Rat Queens.
Favourite things of all time. Imajica by Clive Barker. Promethea by
Alan Moore. Goonies. Almost Famous. I really love Idries Shah's
writing and Cordwainer Smith's.
Favourite Passionate Clinch:
Daniel Day-Lewis and Madeline Stowe in Last of the Mohicans.
Mmm, dat clinch.
Poor quality clip if you haven't seen it: Here
Music-wise I grew up listening to heavy metal, Devin Townsend and
Opeth. Listen to everything now. I love the soundtrack to O Brother
Where Art Thou. Tori Amos, They Might Be Giants, Arethra Franklin,
Detroit Emeralds, RIlo Kiley, Neko Case, Ravi Shankar. All
I consume a lot of media and love talking about it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Empathy and fun.
If you want to know where my antenna are focussed then see Brene
Brown's TED talk on vulnerability.
Also I dig Mr Rogers. My role models are him, Bill Hicks and Sam
Beckett from Quantum Leap.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Improvising. I'm obsessed. Even when I work on other things I keep
thinking about running classes and doing shows.
I am an improv geek I will talk about it a lot if you let me.
Also Non-Violent Communication, I have been using that for about 5
years. It's fundamental to how I see the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Come on, there isn't one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really like being emotionally supportive. I worked with the
Samaritans for a while and have done lots of other similar
So I'm pretty open and hard to surprise. I am emotionally
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
"I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness"
I like genuine connection and positive actions. So if you want a
genuine connection and some passion and playfulness we will get on.
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