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35 London, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:03pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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Welcome. Life is quite short and better spent on things we are passionate about. I'm here to meet like-minded souls.

I was a total academic geek when I was younger (still am), but I did a lot of emotional support work and performance training which opened up my emotional intelligence too. So I got the goods. You want to be heard by a man, lady? You want some emotionally-charged sex, lady? I give you good empathy.

I'm open to casual hook-ups, but I'm really here looking for a relationship. I'm not into stereotypes, so I want a woman who is independent and also respects my vulnerability when I show it. And who can make me laugh.

Love is fun, love is not so serious.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing fiction, improvising comedy and stories. Writing sci-fi at the moment and creating a new group.

Just started learning Korean. I can read Hangul and am starting to learn phrases and grammar.

I did a week-long clown workshop recently which was brilliant. Being in the shit the whole week. Fail again. Fail better.

If you want a conversational hook to put in a message I have studied Astrophyics and English and I love Norse myth.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Women are always blatantly checking out my neck-chest triangle when I wear shirts. Presumably I have a hypnotic adams apple.

I have a working class saff-east/kentish accent.

I have nice fore-arms, biceps and general shoulder-area if you like those kinds of things. Which you obviously do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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This is a long list. TLDR=Heavy Metal, comedy legends like Pryor, 80s movies.

Favourite Passionate Clinch:
Daniel Day-Lewis and Madeline Stowe in Last of the Mohicans.
Mmm, dat clinch.

Poor quality clip if you haven't seen it:

Comedy: Look Around You, Space, Alan Partridge, MST3K, Hicks, Pryor, Eddie Izzard.

Books: Classic Sci-Fi and Fantasy, eg Fritz Leiber, John Brunner.

Films: My favourite movies: Pan's Labyrinth, The Goonies, The Warriors, The Incredibles, Little Miss Sunshine, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, Plains Trains and Automobiles, Bride With the White Hair, Almost Famous.

I grew up on 80s films. I like cheesy classics, heartwarmers, intelligent sci-fi. I love films.

Films I watched/rewatched recently and enjoyed. Kiki's Delivery Service, Heathers, Ink, Linda Linda Linda.

Music: I listen to Metal, Motown, female songwriters like Tori Amos, Neko Case, Jenny Lewis, and a lot of other stuff.

I game a lot, board and video. I started on the Spectrum, graduated to the Snes and Megadrive, currently play a lot of indie stuff on PC like Guacamelee. Strategy and RPG games mostly.

I read a lot of sci-fi and a bit of fantasy, also comics. I absorb a lot of media.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Empathy and fun.

If you want to know where my antenna are focussed then see Brene Brown's TED talk on vulnerability.

Also I dig Mr Rogers. My role models are him, Bill Hicks and Sam Beckett from Quantum Leap.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Improvising. I'm obsessed. Even when I work on other things I keep thinking about running classes and doing shows.

I am an improv geek I will talk about it a lot if you let me.

Also Non-Violent Communication, I have been using that for about 5 years. It's fundamental to how I see the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Come on, there isn't one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like primal connections, I don't like small talk for the sake of it.

I volunteered with the Samaritans for a bit, that and other experiences put me in very intimate conversations that influenced how I see people. I saw the strength in people even through pain and how we can all be more supportive of ourselves and others.

So long-term I am looking for that kind of support and rapport in a relationship.
You should message me if
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"I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness"

If you can finish the rest of that quote...

If you want a partner to go to: Prince Charles Cinema, Museums, Comedy Gigs, Poety Nights, Galleries. All that stuff.

Or we could meet in some bar and have awkward drinks and feel that terrible existential loneliness of crushed expectations. We will succumb to fear and fail to ask provocotive questions of each other. *Sadface*