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34 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 28–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 2
5′ 5″ (1.66m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm having a much easier time with these lists down below. What a delight! It really is like something made for Stefan, the Bill Hader character on SNL. (You didn't need me to spell that out. Or maybe you did. That's fine: YouTube it! Or don't, if you come from a foreign country and feel like that's too much cultural reference. Or do, because Stefan's really funny!!!)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a lapsed history student-turned-journalist-turned-foundation web/editor type. It's a strange intersection of things, and, in all truth, I'd rather be doing one of those: foundation/human rights work OR journalism - but so far, "this is what we have."

I've lived a few places, including St. Petersburg, Russia; Berlin; the Bay Area; and a pretty rural part of Wisconsin.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing (sometimes); making lists; baking an apple charlotte; biking from Brooklyn to Manhattan; batting my eyelashes; coming up with poems appropriate for an occasion; overthinking things (also sometimes).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Passion, by Jeanette Winterson
Headlong, Michael Frayne
The Dictionary of the Khazars, Milorad Pavic
Harold and Maude
Kryzstof Kieslowski's Red, White, Blue trilogy
Arizona Dream
Bonnie and Clyde

I most recently saw Fiona Apple, sang vocalises, and dj'ed an amazing, intoxicated midnight set at a friend's house that included The Animal Cracker song by Melanie and a lot of Lou Reed.

I eat everything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Wine; NPR/podcasts; a travel agent ("Ask me about my travel agent!"); a gym membership; recently, the soundtrack to a music documentary called Hecho en Mexico; alas, an internet connection.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Religion. Cultural signifiers. Feminism. Shoes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't really know how to make drip coffee.

I fell asleep during "In the Mood for Love."

I find Amy Goodman irritating.

(Also, this isn't really private, but I'm sorry if I "rated" you! I think it's a bizarre concept, but couldn't figure out another way to save a name or profile for a while!)