Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This was at the bottom of my profile, but no one seemed to see
If you are polyamorous, you won't be anything more than a friend
while you are poly -- & that is unlikely. I don't have time for
the drama that inevitably forms around the newest justification for
indecision and lack of commitment. Polyamory is just a way to lend
an aura of legitimacy while you shop around for a better prospect.
Since I am not a Christian, I don't really need this
“There is nothing more admirable than when two people who see eye
to eye keep house as man and wife, confounding their enemies and
delighting their friends.” - Homer, The Odyssey
I recently graduated from the University of Oregon with a degree in
Japanese Studies (Asian Studies: Japan). I focused on art history
and religion. Other than that, I am a single father (divorce
finalized Dec 2003), a computer geek, Thelemic occultist and Naval
Reservist. I enjoy philosophy, religion and politics. I returned
from doing a tour in Kuwait courtesy of the US Navy in 2007.
Some Keywords for the interest links: Philosophy
, Conservative Revolution
(the non-US one), Preraphaelite
, European Culture
, Japanese Culture
, Roman Empire
, Hellenic Greece
, Imperial Japan
, Military Uniforms
I am an INTJ. OkCupid says I am Enneagram type 3, however the Free
RHETI Sampler (Enneagram test) shows me as a 5, which seems to be
more accurate description-wise.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
[UPDATE 20150823] I am back in Eugene, working for a local Software
[UPDATE 20121021] On my Senior Year at UOregon. All is going well,
but I am a bit busy. I also work part time at the UOregon Knight
[UPDATE 20110805] I moved to Eugene. Now I am off to Japan and I
will be back at the end of the month. I am attending UO this
[UPDATE 20110418] I will be moving to Eugene at the end of July. I
am rather excited.
[UPDATED] I have been accepted to the University of Oregon's Asian
Studies program. I will be moving to Eugene after June 2011 in
preparation for the Fall Term 2011.
I took advantage of the poor economy and Post 9-11 GI Bill to
enrolled in College. My goal is to attain a transfer degree from
Portland Community College and transfer to the University of Oregon
in order to earn a degree in Asian Studies with a focus on Japan.
Thus, I am attending College and raising my children. I am still a
member of the US Naval Reserves. This means that for 2-3 weeks
every year I get to go to Japan to hang out in Tokyo (the base is
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
pretty much anything I have tried, though learning Japanese has
proven to be a challenge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
the Tiger"; Guenon
"Crisis of the Modern World"; Evola, "Men Among the Ruins";
Essays Toward Truth"; Nietzsche
, "Beyond Good & Evil";
Guenon, "Reign of Quantity"; Crowley, "The Holy Books of Thelema";
Nietzsche, "Also Sprake Zarathrustra"
I occasionally use my LibraryThing
. You can see what I am reading now, and future books I
pick up by going there.
Spirited Away, Soylent Green, Nausicaa, Vertical Ray of the Sun
You can check out my Anime preferences
at My Anime List.
, Current 93
, Death in June
, Sol Invictus
, Within Temptation
, Nurse With Wound
, Death Rock
, Gothic Metal
, Epic Metal
, Ambient Industrial
You can see what music is being played by checking out my LastFM profile
I cook and I
like food from various cultures. Reoccurring favorites seem to be
Chinese & Japanese, but that may be because the recipes are
rather quick. I tend to get extravagant on the weekends.
(You might infer that I enjoy lists, letting people know what I am
doing and social interaction sites).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
, Watching Movies or Anime
, Reading (philosophy
), or Drinking (Vodka Tonics
) & Dancing
(preferably to EBM
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I removed all of my genital piercings (a frenum and apadravya) and
have short hair now.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You look good in Utena cosplay or as a Miko or
Kitsune/Kitsunetsuki. If you know what all of those things mean, we
can give it a go :D
Seriously, I would like to talk to people with similar/overlapping
interests. This does mean that you are able to converse with some
modicum of ability.
Bonus points if you can speak Japanese.
"Women must learn to let themselves enjoy without fear or shame." -
Crowley (Comment on AL II:52)
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