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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 12, 2013
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5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and it’s important
Dropped out of University
Has kid(s)
English, French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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brutally honest but not cruel
so far left, liberals are scared of me
kinky but not creepy
driven but not greedy
angry but sweet
punk but not stupid
idealist but not deluded
somewhere between anarchist and socialist
dad but not dead
extremely queer friendly
feminist and misanthropic
normal people make me uncomfortable
I curse like a sailor

I am not hunting unicorns, so relax.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Lots of work. Lots of working out. Playing with my wee ones. Spending time with people I love. Trying to find more time to float down rivers, climb mountains, go back to school (hah, right), ride bikes and motorcycles, play music (badly), go to shows. The place I live has a garage full of motorcycles. Sometimes I work on them, sometimes I kick them.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
all things technical
arguing politics
turning people into bourbon drinkers
sentence fragments
non sequiturs
restating my assumptions
drinking too much
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
probably the ski mask
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
in no particular order

William Gibson, Neal Stephenson, Neil Gaiman, Richard Dawkins, Christopher Hitchens, Dostoevsky, Chuck Palahniuk, Douglas Coupland, Hunter S Thompson, Bukowski, Henry Miller, John Allen Paulos, John Kennedy Toole, lots more. I don't get to read nearly as much as I want to anymore. Currently trying to read The Brothers Karamazov and The Bible (yeah, I said it, so? can't argue about something you don't know)

too many movies to mention. mostly indy, foreign, weird, etc. though I'll giggle through a blockbuster if it's entertaining enough. I've seen a lot of movies.

no shows with commercials. I dropped cable a long time ago and I don't miss it. Lately, I've taken to watching series all at once (Treme, Game of Thrones, Firefly, BSG, etc.) and other shows as long as I can get them without commercials.

avail, born against, skarp, from ashes rise, tragedy, skarp, off with their heads, refused, a tribe called quest, public enemy, propagandhi, choking victim, leftover crack, spazz, infest, man is the bastard, neanderthal, crossed out, dropdead, limp wrist, turbonegro, dillinger four, skarp, dropkick murphys, nofx, dwarves, black flag, dead kennedys, descendents, all, flogging molly, jawbreaker, gogol bordello, lunachicks, nomeansno, spitboy, antischism, raised fist, screeching weasel, walls of jericho, vindictives, SNFU, kid dynamite, mischief brew, minutemen, kylesa, skarp, spittin cobras, a wilhelm scream, sloppy seconds, drag the river, old 97s, lucero, aesop rock, atmosphere, wingnut dishwasher's union, slayer, grimple, blatz, lots of drum n bass and various techno and electronic music, bluegrass, rockabilly, classic rock, metal, my list is enormous, too big to fit here.

I like sexy food. things with blistering heat and aggressive flavors. thai, vietnamese, laotian, italian, indian, ethiopian, real mexican, spanish. meat and potatoes are not sexy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(good) food
beer and whiskey
family and friends
sex and kink
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whatever the voices are saying
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
same thing I do every friday - trying to take over the world
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are poly, open, or totally comfortable with someone who is.

You are sex-positive.

You are any part or combo of: kinky, queer friendly, anarchist, socialist, political, punk and/or you occasionally like to drink a lot and rage it.

You are not easily offended. I will probably offend you anyway.

Also, I honestly am equally interested in friends as I am in anything else, so if you're going out for food, drinks, music (or want to) or feel we have similar interests, drop me a note. I have no hidden agenda and I respect boundaries.