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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-33
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 12
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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=) the moon, the smell of coffee and pipe tobacco, slam poetry, preposterous ideas, riding the bus, collar bones, speedcubing, spreadsheets, dancing in the living room, feminism and gender, wordsmiths, efficiency, sustainability, being cooked for, synchronicity, smiles, tattoos (though I don't have any myself), audio books, Burning Man, Integral Theory, Nonviolent Communication, good food, sexuality, taking chances, dark chocolate, science fiction, bohemians, systems, soylent, touch and proprioceptive input, polyphasic sleep, bouldering, NPR, making lists, making out, savasana, chess, the unconventional

=( big dogs that jump on me, celery, the howling wind, milk chocolate, subconscious (and blatant) acts of oppression, submerging myself in water, binaries, watching sports, the military, spelling, public speaking, senses of entitlement, war, emails without subjects, being cold, restrictions on love, that smell in airplanes
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring the universe.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Lately, people have been asking if I'm an artist. I don't know where that's coming from but it's flattering. I can dabble with the best of them: dance, graphic design, writing, photography. Oh, and I have a degree in architecture; that counts for something, right?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fiction: Frankenstein, Everything is Illuminated, The Lovely Bones, I Capture the Castle, Anne of Green Gables, Sabriel, Dune, Ender's Game, The Vampire Chronicles, Childhood's End, The Disreputable History of Frankie Landau-Banks, Chuck Palahniuk, Toni Morrison

Non-fiction: The Power of Quiet, Willpower, Cunt, One World Schoolhouse, Pilgrim at Tinker Creek, Sex at Dawn, Science and the Akashic Field, Outliers, No More Mr. Nice Guy, The Ethical Slut, Augusten Burroughs, Ken Wilber, Eckhart Tolle, Joseph Cambell, Octavio Paz

Movies: Angels in America, Donnie Darko, Fight Club, Blade Runner, everything Wes Anderson, Brick, Wet Hot American Summer, The Orange Thief, Orange County, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Moon

Music: Stars, Mates of State, Death Cab for Cutie, Tilly & the Wall, Jimmy Eat World, Tegan & Sara, Coheed & Cambria, Brand New, Cat Stevens, Rage Against the Machine, Lauryn Hill, mc chris, Sage Francis, Themselves, Sol.illaquists of Sound, Patty Griffin, Grimes and I have recently started a relationship.

Podcasts: Radiolab, Stuff You Should Know, Savage Love, TED Talks, Intelligence Squared, Mr. Diety, The Moth, My Brother My Brother and Me

Animals: jellyfish, octopuses, bonobos, ants, and bees
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
things to climb
a comfy spot to sleep
a scenic view
thoughtful and imaginative conversation
making out
a Rubik's cube
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
social & cultural systems, education, psychology, envisioning humanity in the distant future
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately, my weeknights have been pretty social so I'm happy to relax at home once Friday rolls around. Or I might visit friends or go out; there's no routine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sexuality is a crazy, complicated but no doubt beautiful thing. I'm attracted to people, not just women. Particularly, I am attracted to the feminine...regardless of sex. So even though it says "Straight" up there, you shouldn't take that too seriously.
You should message me if
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right now, the digits on the clock add up to less than 14. Or if you want to dance, boulder at SBP, or start a chess rivalry. Or if you think you can wow me with your charm.

Bonus points if you:
have visible tattoos
sport some wholly unnatural color of hair
listen to Savage Love, Radio Lab, and MBMBAM podcasts
have style...however you choose to define that