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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

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5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Working on Post grad
Wants kids
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I was born in the states and raised in asia, so I'm still working out the kinks of being neither here nor there. have lived in a few countries and recently moved to berlin to start something new, find a new home.

I'm an introvert but a secret extrovert. If you catch me in the pocket, I'm brazen, friendly, and loose. I'm a pretty serious guy, so I naturally respond to spontaneous, active people. Once I get there, I'm golden. Mostly, i'm just a bit shy.

I think sweaty, effort laden tasks/activites are the best kind, but sometimes all i want to do is chill out in bed with a lame tv show over a pint (beer or ice cream).

This site asked me to identify as gay. I usually use "queer." That's pretty telling, right?

Ending on an overly formal positive note: I'm excited for my 30s and the potential for a more diverse social circle.

Care to toss a frisbee around in the park or, in this weather, sit in blankets of snow wrapped in blankets?
What I’m doing with my life
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Busy seeking answers to questions I don't have answers to, mostly revolving around displacement of space and physicality, expressed in the occasional presentation at some venue.

also: dancing, biking, experimentation, rehearsing, breathing, shitting, eating, trying to sleep.

also: not going to the gym. staying fit through regimented, routinely scheduled exercise seems strange to me.

also: puppeteering.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dry sarcasm.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
-a tendency to gravitate towards corners in large crowds with a quizzical, mildly confused expression on my face.
-"i'm usually not into asians"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books...currently reading: Grammatik fuer Mittlestufe

music...depends on the mood!
movies...could be anything.
food...all of it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music, a solid friend, good food, the outdoors, creative endeavors, and... neuroses.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
performance presence, movement, art
cultural identity/displacement in america
what to eat/cook next
where to live next
a second career late in life
sex (just saying)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
sometimes i catch myself counting steps to 100 then starting over but that's not necessarily private i'm willing to admit that I'm judging the fact that I'm filling this profile out and making an actual effort, uncoerced and unrehearsed.
You should message me if
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you want to or if your schedule permits.
you are active, engaged, challenging, and relaxed.
you realize i say all of this with a wry smile.
you get a nagging feeling when this site asks you to expand your profile to 1000 words. are we there yet? are we there yet? guess not.