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ngm7

26 Rutherford, NJ Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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As a kid, I always loved activities that involved making predictions. That left me with the perfect dream job—weatherman! It’s probably a good thing I didn’t pursue that career, though. I don't think I would have liked having everyone hate me (especially after this winter)!

What do you get when you combine a type-A personality with a love of travel, learning, and baseball? Answer: Someone who's been to a game at 39 different Major League ballparks. Over the course of those trips, I was able to visit some really cool cities—Chicago, Seattle, San Francisco—and some not so cool cities—Atlanta, Cincinnati, Tampa. (No offense if you're from one of those places. Well, sorta...)

I'm pretty sure I have an unhealthy obsession with the show House Hunters. Seriously, there's no better way to end the day than hearing newlyweds wonder whether their L-shaped couch will fit in their potential new home. #firstworldproblems

So why am I on here? Because the town I grew up in has no bars—it is a dry town—so there was nowhere to meet people. While having nowhere to meet people may have been a bad thing, at least it kept out those tacky chain restaurants and grew my appreciation of BYOBs!

In all seriousness, I'm on here because of the inspiration of my friends who told me that I need to put myself out there. After going to college in DC (go Hoyas!) and law school in Boston (go Eagles!), I'm back home to start the next phase of my life. I've got a great job, great friends, and a great family. I'm just looking for that special person with whom to share all of life's joys...and dinner.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently completing a one-year judicial clerkship. Until August, I work for a court. Beginning this fall, I pretend to be (a friendlier version of) Harvey Specter at a firm in the city.

It also seems like I'm always playing the role of reader at my friends' weddings. I'm flattered that they'd ask me to play a part in their weddings, but isn't it ironic that a person who is on okcupid is the person they'd ask to speak about love? Who knows, maybe they just think I'm a good public speaker. "Love is kind, love is gentle..."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Umpiring. I've been umpiring Little League games since high school. Being good at umpiring doesn't just mean being able to call balls and strikes well. It also means being able to stand up to angry parents. I guess that means I have patience...and good eyesight!

I'd like to think I have a really good sense of direction, but my parents never let me live down the time I got us lost in Chicago...or…Kentucky…or…New Hampshire…or...when I got lost taking the subway to Brooklyn. That was the worst one!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My positive outlook. You'll never hear me complain...except at my annual Festivus party. During the airing of grievances, I let people know what's bothered me over the past year!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Social Animal, Baseball as a Road to God
David Brooks is my hero.

Shows: Jeopardy, Seinfeld, West Wing, House Hunters, Survivor, Sopranos
I just finished watching Sopranos. I'm pretty sure my NJ citizenship would be revoked if I never got around to watching it.

Music: Billy Joel, Frank Sinatra, Bruce Springsteen
Only the good die young.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Long, scenic runs while listening to a good podcast. I got spoiled running along the National Mall in DC and up Heartbreak Hill in Boston (well, technically Newton).

-Reading (and laughing at) the NY Times wedding announcements. Who knew there are so many Mayflower descendants getting married (sometimes to each other) in New York?

-Screaming out answers during Jeopardy! It's vindication for being a nerd.

-Following politics. I can't be the only one who's excited for the 2016 primaries, right?

-Good grammar/style guides. After doing way too much editing the past two years for law review and work, my goal is to master the CMS hyphen rules.

-A blog I regularly read on the aesthetics of sports. Jerry Seinfeld says sports are all about rooting for laundry. Shouldn't we just admit that?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a serious note:
-What Life asks of me.

-What neighborhood I should move to in the fall. Suggestions are appreciated!

On a less serious note:
-Why people put so much faith in hourly weather forecasts (Maybe I should have become a meteorologist!).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Heading down to my parents' beach house in Point Pleasant (they just bought it). Until this year, I never knew how great (and peaceful) the shore is during the winter.
You should message me if
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-As a kid, you wanted to be a contestant on Legends of the Hidden Temple.

-You would be equally excited to visit a museum, see a Broadway show, or go to a baseball game.

-You think it's pretentious to say "I heard on NPR..."

-You've been known to say "I heard on NPR..."