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26 Rutherford, NJ Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–27
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:26pm
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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As a kid, I always loved activities that involved making predictions. That left me with two dream jobs—bookie or weatherman. It’s probably a good thing I didn’t pursue either of those jobs; for some reason, society looks down on both of those…professions.

What do you get when you combine a type-A personality with a love of travel, learning, and baseball? Answer: Someone who's been to a game at 39 different Major League ballparks. Over the course of those trips, I was able to visit some really cool cities--Chicago, Seattle, San Francisco--and some not so cool cities--Atlanta, Cincinnati, Tampa. (No offense if you're from one of those places. Well, sorta...)

I'm pretty sure I have an unhealthy obsession with the show House Hunters. Seriously, there's no better way to end the day than hearing newlyweds wonder whether their L-shaped couch will fit in their potential new home. #firstworldproblems

So why am I on here? Because the town I grew up in has no bars--it is a dry town--so there was nowhere to meet people. While having nowhere to meet people may have been a bad thing, at least it kept out those tacky chain restaurants and grew my appreciation of BYOBs!

In all seriousness, I'm on here because of the inspiration of one of my mentors who told me that I need to put myself out there. After four years of college in DC (go Hoyas!) and three years of law school in Boston (go Eagles!), I'm back home to start the next phase of my life. I've got a great job, great friends, and a great family. I'm just looking for that special person with whom to share all of life's joys...and dinner.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently completing a one-year judicial clerkship. This year, I work for a court. Beginning this fall, I pretend to be (a friendlier version of) Harvey Specter at a firm in the city.

It also seems like I'm playing the role of reader at my friends' weddings. I read at a friend's wedding last August, and I'll be doing the same for another friend this May. I'm flattered that they'd ask me to play a part in their weddings, but isn't it ironic that a person who is on okcupid is the person they'd ask to speak about love? Who knows, maybe they just think I'm a good public speaker! "Love is kind, love is gentle..."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Umpiring. I've been umpiring Little League games for the past eight years. Being good at umpiring doesn't just mean being able to call balls and strikes well. It also means being able to stand up to angry parents. I guess that means I have patience...and good eyesight!

I'd like to think I have a really good sense of direction, but my parents never let me live down the time I got us lost in Chicago...or…Kentucky…or…New Hampshire…or...when I got lost taking the subway to Brooklyn. That was the worst one!

It also seems like I play the role of moral compass for my group of friends--I'm usually the one they come to for ethical advice. But wait, aren't lawyers supposed to be among the least ethical people in society?!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My positive outlook. You'll never hear me complain...except at my annual Festivus party. During the airing of grievances, I let people know what's bothered me over the past year!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: The Social Animal
David Brooks is my hero. Seriously.

Shows: Jeopardy, Seinfeld, West Wing, House Hunters, Survivor, Sopranos.
I just started watching Sopranos. I'm pretty sure my NJ citizenship would be revoked if I never got around to watching it!

Music: Billy Joel, Frank Sinatra, Bruce Springsteen
Only the good die young.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Long, scenic runs while listening to a good podcast. I got spoiled in DC running along the National Mall between the Capitol and the Lincoln Memorial. Any suggestions for good spots around here?

-Reading (and laughing at) the NY Times wedding announcements. Who knew there are so many Mayflower descendants getting married (sometimes to each other) in New York?

-Screaming out answers during Jeopardy! It's vindication for being a nerd.

-Dining outdoors. Why would anyone eat inside when the weather is nice? I have no idea either.

-Good grammar/style guides. In law school, I did way too much editing for someone our age.

-A blog I regularly read on the aesthetics of sports. Jerry Seinfeld says sports are all about rooting for laundry. Shouldn't we just admit that?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a serious note:
-What Life asks of me.

On a less serious note:
-Why people put so much faith in hourly weather forecasts (Maybe I should have become a meteorologist!).

-Why my boss thinks I'm good with technology (he calls me into his office whenever he needs tech help). I swear I'm not great with technology!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Heading down to my parents' beach house in Point Pleasant (they just bought it). Until this year, I never knew how great (and peaceful) the shore is during the winter.
You should message me if
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-You wanted to be on Legends of the Hidden Temple as a kid.