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ngoc_cj

33 / M / straight / Single

Sacramento, California

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
Indian, White, Other, Undeclared
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Military
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am lacking motivation, somewhat cynical, and supremely sarcastic..

My Self-Summary

Hi, my name is Craig.

I'm a Combat Medic in the California National Guard. I've worked full time for the National Guard for the last 3 years.

For the rest I have to plagiarize Brennan Manning's Ragamuffin Gospel...

When I get honest, I admit I am a bundle of paradoxes. I believe and I doubt, I hope and get discouraged, I love and I hate, I feel bad about feeling good, I feel guilty about not feeling guilty. I am trusting and suspicious. I am honest and I still play games. Aristotle said I am a rational animal; I say I am an angel with an incredible capacity for beer.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm usually hanging out with my friends at the local brewery drinking a beer or at Starbucks sipping coffee and reading a book or writing. I like hiking, running, and camping.

Currently I'm deployed on a peacekeeping mission in Kosovo. Only a little while left. Will be back in Cali by Thanksgiving!

Updating my 5 year plan again... I recently discovered what I want to be when I grow up so I'm putting the plan into motion.

I’m really good at

Making friends, finding new ways to do old things, finding the absolute worse thing to say at the worst times...

The first things people usually notice about me

My ghetto booty or my massive guns!!!

Just kidding, it's usually my eyes...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: I like to read alot! Everything from comparative theology, mythology, symbology (yeah I'm a dork) to sci-fi, mystery, and fiction the most. And lots of poetry. I don't really have any "favorite" authors or subjects, I just like to read everything basically.

Movies: Varied, Army of Darkness, Band of Brothers, The Notebook, Princess Bride, Boondock Saints, anything by Tim Burton and/or starring Johnny Depp, lots of other ones too...

Music: Just as varied as the other areas. My ipod looks like it was programed by someone with Multiple Personalities. Little bit of everything.

Food: Pizza, Salad, Pasta, Ice Cream, a whole lot of stuff...

The six things I could never do without

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My kids because I miss having them with me all the time.

Whether or not anything really happens to us after we die, if our existence is meaningful or unimportant, whether or not we really have a soul, the sound of one hand clapping. The future, the past, the present. Grammatical errors. Conversations.

Lots of stuff!

On a typical Friday night I am

There's no such thing as a "typical" Friday night...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have a severe weakness for Ben & Jerry's

Ok, the Ben & Jerry's thing is kinda lame and not really private as anyone who's known me for any length of time knows I can't pass up the ice cream aisle...

So... I haven't had sex since last Christmas and I haven't had GOOD sex since last Thanksgiving...

Damn deployments...

You should message me if

Your anywhere near as bored as I am...