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nicebearnyc

41 / M / gay / Single

New York, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English

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I am funny, smart, and social.

My Self-Summary

I'm enjoying life in this amazing city.

Born and raised in a very large extended family in Brooklyn I'm a very open, social, friendly, grounded person. I love my work and take it very seriously, but at home I'm very laid back and comfortable.

I enjoy going out as well as entertaining at home. It's not unusual for me to host a large party where i cook for 50 as a fundraiser for local charity.

I'm very politically mindful and very liberal. In a previous life I worked as a writer for a human rights organization writing about U.S. foreign policy in Central America (mostly about Guatemala). But that was a long time ago... these days i volunteer my time and help raise money for people doing good work.

I can be very philosophical about life. I'm definitely the sort that lives his life guided by a set of principals aimed at enjoying what life has to offer. Significantly this means being very open and honest with people and avoiding gay drama. I don't want to live in a drama, I want to live in a comedy. :-)

I am one who believes all the pleasures in life are love and art. In love i have had some really amazing relationships; I'm a much better person having had them. And I love art, opera, music, architecture and while i'm no professional, I think my photography adds to the beauty in my life and to the lives of a few people who hang some of my photos on their walls.

While I enjoy my own company, friends and family, it would be great to meet someone special to share in the fun with.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a partner in a real estate development company and I love my work. My work is stressful but incredibly fulfilling. When Monday morning rolls around, I am usually pretty excited to go to work.

I love to travel. I started late: i only got my passport in 2004! But since then i have been to 15 countries.

You might not guess it when you meet me, but I'm very active; biking, blading, skiing are all fun to me!

I’m really good at

I love photography, plays, musicals, opera, rock concerts and just about any other art experience. But in terms of my contributions to the creative work, its pretty much limited to to photography and the buildings we build.

I'm very open and communicative. I really enjoy meeting people.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm a fairly big guy, so if I'm in a room, its pretty likely you'll notice me! Beyond that, unless its a really bad day, you will probably hear me telling a story and laughing heartily!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Douglas Adams and lots more. But if you start with Douglas Adams you'll figure out a lot about me very quickly.

The six things I could never do without

Family, friends, music, my own cooking, wine, my blackberry!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

An honest assessment of what adds to the happiness in my life.

On a typical Friday night I am

Meet my friends for some drinks, invite them back to my place and cook them dinner! That is a great night for me.

You should message me if

The glass is half full. Especially, if its half full of wine. :-)