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51 Branford, CT Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 46–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 16
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello ladies. Thanks for stopping by. Are you looking for a self-absorbed couch potato who has a perpetual sink full of dirty dishes, never puts down the toilet seat, plays video games 24/7, and lives in his parent's basement? Then keep looking, because THAT guy I'm not. You should also keep looking if your profile is only two or three sentences long.

I'm a fit, open, active, respectful, stable, romantic guy who wants to find a similar woman, interested in building a long-term monogamous relationship. You are in a healthy place in life, and truly ready for a meaningful relationship. You also have inner beauty that matches your outer beauty, which I have thus far found lacking in the women I’ve dated.

The relationship I want will be built through good communication and shared interests/activities. Of course there has to be a mutual attraction - that‘s a given. We will (I hope) push each other a little outside our comfort zones to both experience new and wonderful things. I think I'm fairly old-school when it comes to romance and manners, yet I’m young-at-heart, mind, and body. Seeing how someone else’s mind works and processes things continues to amaze me. I enjoy being exposed to different ideas. That being said, I generally like being on the same page with someone. There isn’t much I can’t do, and there aren’t many subjects about which I don’t know a little something.

Family is important to me, even though mine is small. I work hard at living up to the obligation of being a good parent. I’m quite pleased with how my boys are turning into young men, with the lessons I’ve taught them and with the foundation I’ve provided. Some of my most enjoyable times were while I was coaching their sports teams and leading them through scouting. When I was married, I headed home after work. I wasn't the kind of husband/father who found ways to avoid the family life.

At this stage in life, we all have baggage. Let's just be honest about it. Mine is manageable (like a carry-on size); hopefully yours is, too. I'm fairly self-aware, and realize that I'm not perfect. I try to live a good life and be a positive role model to my kids and co-workers. I'm very much an optimist and wake up every morning in a good mood. I can usually find fun in most situations.

Some things that I'd like to do in the future, besides find an honest, strong, kind-of-mainstream, balanced, attractive, independent, playful, somewhat light-hearted woman who can be direct in her communication? Hot air ballooning; dance classes; explore more Caribbean islands (esp Aruba; Cayman); tour more National Parks (like Yosemite, Yellowstone); get my kids through college; take in a Broadway play (it's been a while). It’s probably a good idea if you have a valid passport.

If that’s not enough to pique your interest, I can do a pretty mean cartwheel.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being a solid guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Activities: Skiing, scuba diving, golf, 5ks/obstacle course races, kayaking, hiking, tennis (though it's killing my knees), my motorcycle, roller-coasters, dancing, seeing live bands, traveling, art galleries/museums, theater.

I like all kinds of food, and will even tolerate a small amount of vegetarian. But I'm more of a meat and potatoes kind of guy.

TV: Sons of Anarchy; Justified; NCIS; Modern Family; Elementary; The Americans; The Blacklist; Hell on Wheels. Thank god for my DVR.

Music: All, except for rap and death metal. Nickelback, Daughtry, Van Halen, AC/DC, Theory of a Deadman, Alterbridge, Jason Aldean, Brad Paisley, Keith Urban, Zac Brown Band, P!nk, Carrie Underwood, smooth jazz, Vivaldi.

Books: John Sanford and John Grisham are two authors I can actually read. I more listen to books on cd. Mostly mystery/thriller type stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My kids
2. Air and water (duh)
3. Laughter
4. M&Ms; coffee; Mike & Ikes (hard to choose)
5. Variety of activities
6. intimacy/closeness with my partner
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to spend more time with my boys.
What vacation to take next.
What's in store for the weekend.
How to find the right girl to get off these damn dating sites.
Am I saving enough money?
Am I spending enough money? (it's a karma thing)
Will the Yanks finally get rid of A-rod?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for someone to take advantage of Groupon or Living Social deals with me. ha ha
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're honest, optimistic, and have a nice smile. Also, you're active, attractive, and intelligent. Maybe you know a good dance club nearby. Other attributes that would be nice? Kind, positive, upbeat, friendly, well rounded, polite, young-at-heart, respectful. DON'T message me if you're shallow, materialistic, or selfish.