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51 M Branford, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 46–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 18
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Back after a hiatus. I'll add more soon.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Hello ladies. Thanks for stopping by. Are you looking for a self-absorbed couch potato who has a perpetual sink full of dirty dishes, never puts down the toilet seat, and plays video games 24/7? Then keep looking, because THAT guy I'm not. I look forward to finding a good woman to be the focus of my attention, and to getting off this darn site.

I'm a fit, open, active, respectful, stable, romantic guy who wants to find a similar woman, interested in building a long-term monogamous relationship. The relationship I want will be built via good communication and shared interests/activities. Of course there has to be a mutual physical attraction. The things I’ve listed in my profile aren’t just things that I like, or things I’ve done 25 years ago. They’re things that I actually do - in real life. Many of you have commented about how active I appear to be. I’m no slouch, for sure, but I’m not constantly on the run. When I was married, I headed home after work. I wasn't the kind of husband/father who found ways to avoid the family life and I enjoyed being a bit of a homebody. I just don’t take pictures of myself napping, doing chores, or watching tv. If that doesn’t make you smile, then perhaps you’re a little too serious for me.

You are in a healthy place in life, and truly ready for a meaningful relationship. You have inner beauty that matches your outer beauty. Good partners work together and play to each others stronger skill sets. The girl I want to spend time with understands that thought. She also understands the concept of a partnership, as well as the give-and-take of a healthy relationship. We will (I hope) push each other a little outside our comfort zones to both experience new and wonderful things. I think I'm fairly old-school when it comes to romance and manners, yet I’m young-at-heart, mind, and body. Seeing how someone’s mind works and processes things continues to amaze me. I enjoy being exposed to different ideas, but I prefer to generally be on the same page with someone.

At this stage in life, we all have baggage. Let's just be honest about it. Mine is manageable (like a carry-on size); hopefully yours is, too. I'm fairly self-aware, and realize that I'm not perfect. I try to live a good life and be a positive role model to my kids and co-workers. I'm very much an optimist and wake up every morning in a good mood. I can usually find fun in most situations.

If that’s not enough to pique your interest, I can do a pretty mean cartwheel.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My kids
2. Air and water (duh)
3. Laughter
4. M&Ms; coffee; Mike & Ikes (hard to choose)
5. Variety of activities
6. intimacy/closeness with my partner
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to spend more time with my teenage boys.
What vacation to take next.
What's in store for the weekend.
How to find the right girl to get off these damn dating sites.
Am I saving enough money?
Am I spending enough money? (it's a karma thing)
Will the Yanks finally get rid of A-rod?
You should message me if
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you're honest, optimistic, and have a nice smile. Also, you're active, attractive, and intelligent. Maybe you know a good dance club nearby. Other attributes that would be nice? Kind, positive, upbeat, friendly, well rounded, polite, young-at-heart, respectful. DON'T message me if you're shallow, materialistic, or selfish.