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nicelygeeky

52 / M / Straight / Single

San Jose, California

His Details

Last Online
Jun 9
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and laughing about it
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Let's explore some things together - or show me something you like that I haven't tried yet. I love learning new things!

Divorced 5+ years, looking for an inspiring, intelligent woman to play with and be played with - not toyed with!

Although toys can be fun.
What I’m doing with my life
Raising my 3 kids (12, 16, 20) who moved in with me 6 months ago.
Supporting and guiding said kids to adulthood.
Being creative and having fun.
And laughing.
Oh, and eating good food.
And trying to keep the weight down after eating said food.
I’m really good at
Modesty!
I have done lots of stuff pretty darn well.
Working on cars, designing r/c planes, writing/performing/improvising comedy, designing/programing video games.
Other stuff too...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Lots of things, but nor really intense books about people being psychotic and hurting others. I can handle most Stephen King, and I loved the Fire and Ice series (Game of Thrones).

Movies: Most sci-fi, even bad sci-fi; Love Actually; My Favorite Year; Spanglish; The Fifth Element; LOTR; Chronicles of Riddick; That thing you do; Armageddon; Raising Arizona (most Cohen Bros films); Marx Bros.;

TV: Firefly; Dr. Who (but I'm not a Whovian); Star Trek (all of em); Perfect Stangers; Cheers; Taxi;

Music: Mostly Rock n Roll; R&B; Blues; Rockabilly; some Jazz; classical; not really into Rap or screamo or grunge or country (with exceptions - good songwriting no matter the genre).

Food: Love all kinds of food. Does that cover it? Am I good to go here? Yeah? Okie dokie
The six things I could never do without
Family and Friends
Love
Laughter
...that's pretty much it...

A hot shower every morning is nice.
Communication is good.
And a nice Bosc pear with some sliced Parmesan.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Making sure my kids are leaning good things and being more independent.
Creative things.
Who needs a ride where (Mr. Mom's taxi service)
Finding my next love.
Did my kids get their homework done.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my kids
Getting out with a friend or two for a bit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love my kids, and they drive me crazy. But I wouldn't have it any other way. I am so glad they are with me, even if my hair turns more grey!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You are:
Down to earth
Fun / Silly
Enjoy life

Look, I'm a nice guy. I've figured out that when it comes down to it, I'm kind of a prude - I am not interested in sex just to have sex. There has to be some long-term attraction involved. Weird for a guy to say, but there you are.