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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:37am
6' 5" (1.96m)
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This profile may look long but it should give you a good idea about me without being super long like some I have read on here lol. If you make it through it, especially this section and the last section... we might be a good fit!

Umm let's see I am bisexual and I know a lot of people have a problem with that. Attention women- I am not bi because I am afraid to be gay and will not therefore leave you for a guy someday. Attention gay guys- I am not afraid to be gay nor in some sort of transition... so if you can't accept that I am not another gay guy move on....

Attention everyone... I am a handsome, caring, intellectual successful, fun, creative professional person. I am looking for something long term and one-on-one (I am not into this polyamory thing that is all the rage these days- I want to get married someday), I hope to meet someone who is special, who I can let them know how special they are and will feel about and treat me the same way.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a great job as a professional software engineer/analyst- I do that every day :). I like watching movies, Netflix, a video game here and there, some sports on TV but not too much (like soccer and hockey). I DJ progressive house music (I see this as an art not as some performance gimmick/hobby). I have guests over for pizza/music/conversation/grilling. I live my life the way I want to.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job, being a great and loyal friend, being a great boyfriend, mixing music, and critical thinking!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height and eyes I suppose. Those are the physical things anyway... other things might be extroversion, intellect, sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorites include: The Simpsons,The Daily Show, Are you being served?
Some others are Peaky Blinders, Warehouse 13, Orange is the New Black, Law and Order SVU, Judge Judy.

Lots of music...

Favorites include: Elton John, Erasure, Enya, AC/DC.

Genres (in no particular order) classical, classic rock, house, trance, new age, adult contemporary, some pop, some rap, jazz, Dixieland Jazz, some heavy metal, older country, Motown, bluegrass.

Favorites include: pizza, sushi. steak and other "stuff on the grill"

Seafood and Italian are good... Thai bad :)

Reading Material
Favorites include: Mark Twain (essays and misc), EAP

NPR, BBC World Svc, XM Utopia, XM Chill, XM 90s

Favorites include: The Imitation Game, Indiana Jones (original trilogy)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
pizza, turntables, family, eggs, Creme Brulee via my Keurig, stevia... and of course MUSIC!!!. Peoples' patience for people with more than six.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stuff that is probably a waste of time to think about like: "will the American dollar become obsolete and what will replace it." Other random crap like.... why did the king's horses and men give a crap about Humpty Dumpty anyway?... who did he "know?" How was he connected... maybe ties to organized crime... or perhaps in the Bilderberg group??
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I guess you could call me a hopeless romantic.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You ultimately want something long-term and are in a position in life to pursue it (happy with the area you live in and your career etc). I almost never date students (of any age or circumstance) as they tend to be flighty.

- You know what critical thinking is.

- You like romance.

- You love music... this is kind of important.

- You enjoy "intellectual" discussions- talking about politics, current events, religion, philosophy, science, and human behavior are some examples. You need not be highly-educated but we will enjoy each other a great deal if you have ideas rooted in objective observation etc.

- You do not find this list too intimidating, geeky, or verbose... this is how I am... I am chatty, gabby, and intelligent... I suppose I can be a handful for some... but a great catch for the right person!