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44 San Diego, CA Trans Woman

Trans Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Sep 20
Middle Eastern, White
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
* NOTE: I have left San Diego and not able to date at this time. *

T-girl (Transgender woman).
If you don't know what this means, please move on.

I am a sophisticated woman looking for a sophisticated partner. Please have something to say and be able to put at least a few words together. Also, please know who you are and what you want. I have lived and worked in Manhattan, in Budapest, and in San Francisco, and I have traveled. I know what what comes in a good martini and can make one. My favorite place in the world is Lincoln Center. I love opera and jazz and cocktail hour in little black cocktail dresses. I read and watch movies and love music. I also love to be at home, to cook wonderful things, dress nicely and please my lover.

I am a beautiful, magical, spiritual, being, living here in this physical body. And I do like luscious pleasures of the physical world. I love touch and sex and food and wine and stones and other crystals and whispey curtains and soft bedding and pretty dresses and shopping!

I was born into this world, as a male, but I am female really, a transgender female. And I love who I am, and am wonderfully comfortable with myself and my femininity and am looking for a partner who is also. As an earth child (Taurus), I love all things sensuous, cooking, eating, dressing up, drinking wine, raising energy, burning candles and incense. And I'm looking for partners, what a drag life is alone. Of all the amazing experiences I've had in my life, it has been the simple pleasures of the company I have shared that have been the most precious.

So please come and talk to me, perhaps you can be part of the next set of precious experiences.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it!

I feel like I have done everything. But more and more I realize I am storyteller. I love writing and finding other ways to talk about what life has shown me. I am also helping others through life transitions, gender and otherwise. Generally, trying to make the world, and me, a little better. I am also practicing and teaching Reiki, reading Tarot, and doing personality type testing (Myers-Briggs).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, and teaching (they kind of go together) touch, cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, my dry cleaning lady said I was "so tall..." I thought that was cute.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

The Odyssey (The basis of all adventure stories)
The Sailor Dog :) A great children's book that has just stuck with me
Dante's Inferno
Balkan Ghosts by Robert Kaplan (Amazingly good modern study)
Jitterbug Perfume by Tom Robbins (Oh! I love this story!)
The Things They Carried by Tim O'brien (Excellent Vietnam stories)
Ursula K. LaGuin
Marion Zimmer Bradley
Divergent by Veronica Roth (Found in my room in Ko Samui Thailand)


Ken Burns: Jazz
The Hunger Games
Boys on the Side
Ma Vie en Rose
La Vie en Rose
The French Lieutenants Woman
Kissing Jessica Stein,
The Hudsucker Proxy
Joe vs The Volcano
Amour de Femme
Primary Colors
City of Angels


Evanesence, Portishead, Moby, Sheryl Crow, Mazzy Star, Amy Winehouse, Nina Simone, Billie Holiday, Thelonious Monk, Musical Theater!

And FOOD yes. Thai, Vietnamese, Mexican, Greek, Indian, Brunch!. All of it almost. And cooking it. Smelling the spices heating in the oil and wafting their aroma through my kitchen. Yummmmm.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friendship; without my friends I could not survive. They have saved me so many times in so many ways I can't even say.

Clothes that make me feel; mmmmmmmm, just you know, feel delicious and delightful
My Tarot Cards.
Jewelry & crystals. The kind that heals and feeds my energy.
Kindness & compassion
Books, especially books that inspire and make me feel more alive and more in love.
Food. Anything that feeds actually; the body, mind or soul. Art can be food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Touch and sex and friendship.

How to have an impact on the world, and how to have and create more community. Americans are so disconnected and New Yorkers so busy. Like everyone, I need my friends and a person in my life and it just seems so difficult to connect to anyone here. I miss Europe.

Ok and shopping. I love shopping and cooking. Hanging around the kitchen with friends and cooking whatever.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking up something yummy probably!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, I'm a trans-woman, although that's getting less and less private all the time. I'm pretty open. I put the Sailor Dog in my book list, that's kind of private ;)
You should message me if
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You're spiritual and sexual and comfortable with yourself and in your body. And you're not afraid to admit who you are, and what turns you on.

Or... if you just feel it!