Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
* NOTE: I have left San Diego and not able to date at this time.
T-girl (Transgender woman).
If you don't know what this means, please move on.
I am a sophisticated woman looking for a sophisticated partner.
Please have something to say and be able to put at least a few
words together. Also, please know who you are and what you want. I
have lived and worked in Manhattan, in Budapest, and in San
Francisco, and I have traveled. I know what what comes in a good
martini and can make one. My favorite place in the world is Lincoln
Center. I love opera and jazz and cocktail hour in little black
cocktail dresses. I read and watch movies and love music. I also
love to be at home, to cook wonderful things, dress nicely and
please my lover.
I am a beautiful, magical, spiritual, being, living here in this
physical body. And I do like luscious pleasures of the physical
world. I love touch and sex and food and wine and stones and other
crystals and whispey curtains and soft bedding and pretty dresses
I was born into this world, as a male, but I am female really, a
transgender female. And I love who I am, and am wonderfully
comfortable with myself and my femininity and am looking for a
partner who is also. As an earth child (Taurus), I love all things
sensuous, cooking, eating, dressing up, drinking wine, raising
energy, burning candles and incense. And I'm looking for partners,
what a drag life is alone. Of all the amazing experiences I've had
in my life, it has been the simple pleasures of the company I have
shared that have been the most precious.
So please come and talk to me, perhaps you can be part of the next
set of precious experiences.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I feel like I have done everything. But more and more I realize I
am storyteller. I love writing and finding other ways to talk about
what life has shown me. I am also helping others through life
transitions, gender and otherwise. Generally, trying to make the
world, and me, a little better. I am also practicing and teaching
Reiki, reading Tarot, and doing personality type testing
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, and teaching (they kind of go together) touch, cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, my dry cleaning lady said I was "so tall..." I thought that
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Odyssey (The basis of all adventure stories)
The Sailor Dog :) A great children's book that has just stuck with
Balkan Ghosts by Robert Kaplan (Amazingly good modern study)
Jitterbug Perfume by Tom Robbins (Oh! I love this story!)
The Things They Carried by Tim O'brien (Excellent Vietnam
Ursula K. LaGuin
Marion Zimmer Bradley
Divergent by Veronica Roth (Found in my room in Ko Samui
Ken Burns: Jazz
The Hunger Games
Boys on the Side
Ma Vie en Rose
La Vie en Rose
The French Lieutenants Woman
Kissing Jessica Stein,
The Hudsucker Proxy
Joe vs The Volcano
Amour de Femme
City of Angels
Evanesence, Portishead, Moby, Sheryl Crow, Mazzy Star, Amy
Winehouse, Nina Simone, Billie Holiday, Thelonious Monk, Musical
And FOOD yes. Thai, Vietnamese, Mexican, Greek, Indian, Brunch!.
All of it almost. And cooking it. Smelling the spices heating in
the oil and wafting their aroma through my kitchen. Yummmmm.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friendship; without my friends I could not survive. They have saved
me so many times in so many ways I can't even say.
Clothes that make me feel; mmmmmmmm, just you know, feel delicious
My Tarot Cards.
Jewelry & crystals. The kind that heals and feeds my
Kindness & compassion
Books, especially books that inspire and make me feel more alive
and more in love.
Food. Anything that feeds actually; the body, mind or soul. Art can
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Touch and sex and friendship.
How to have an impact on the world, and how to have and create more
community. Americans are so disconnected and New Yorkers so busy.
Like everyone, I need my friends and a person in my life and it
just seems so difficult to connect to anyone here. I miss
Ok and shopping. I love shopping and cooking. Hanging around the
kitchen with friends and cooking whatever.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking up something yummy probably!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, I'm a trans-woman, although that's getting less and less
private all the time. I'm pretty open. I put the Sailor Dog in my
book list, that's kind of private ;)
You should message me if
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You're spiritual and sexual and comfortable with yourself and in
your body. And you're not afraid to admit who you are, and what
turns you on.
Or... if you just feel it!
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