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35 M Emeryville, CA

My Details

Last Online
May 9
Asian, Hispanic / Latin
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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So human it almost warrants a new species.

Humble enough to know that, in all things, I am in training.

Real enough to know that I could show you a thing or two.

Love, loving, and loved.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm writing the Great American Queer Young Adult Vampire Novel and teaching the youths.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
talking people into things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That my ethnicity and gender are ambiguous. That I'm pretty. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like lots of stuff but I'm also a picky bitch. But I won't make fun of you, promise.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family
2. Friends
3. Love
4. Interesting conversation.
5. Good music.
6. Beautiful things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I should I wear and whether you think I'm cute and how cute you are and how cute we would be together and why identity politics are under attack.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out on the street declaring that it's "Fuck This Shit O'clock." Or else passed out on the couch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that I am a trans guy that may never transition.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 23–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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you left game-playing behind in your early 20s.

you know how to feel feelings and not freak out.

you love your body.

you're not afraid to process when necessary but don't try to process unnecessarily and endlessly.

you are a hot femme top who knows how to turn off the diva and act like a decent human being at the right times.

you are a cute brown boy/i with swag and a tender heart.

you are a handsome white dude with salt and pepper hair who will let me have my way with u.

you think that people who write things like "height weight proportionate" are dumb assholes.

you think u can handle a Gemini sun and moon with an innocent Virgo facade.

you can appreciate that love is infinite and can only grow the more people you love.