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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Hispanic / Latin, White
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Likes dogs
English, Spanish (Fluently), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I used to be sort of wild (clubs, burning man, etc.) but am taking life more seriously now. Don't get me wrong--I still enjoy having fun, but I guess "fun" just isn't the most important thing least not without someone special to have fun with.

I love to read (more than ever now, thanks to my Kindle), enjoy movies (mostly I go see Sci-Fi on the big screen, otherwise renting or cable), and lazy days at home watching telly (though there aren't nearly as many lazy days as I'd like).

I go to the gym between 5 and 7 days a week, depending on my schedule (yet still manage not to have the body that I'd ideally like, though I'm relatively confident and comfortable in my skin). I also attend a Zen meditation every week.

My father is from Argentina and my mother is from Cuba. I'm from Jersey (yes, the Jersey Shore--and it's nothing like that abominable show depicts). I speak Spanish pretty fluently and know some German and a bit of Italian (as an opera singer I have to sing in all these languages--French too, though that is my weakest one.)

I've traveled extensively through South and Central America, and Europe. I love Buenos Aires, London, Madrid and Milan, and I think Costa Rica is just about the greatest place on Earth.

I like adventure sports (white water rafting, bungee jumping, hoping to skydive soon), grew up riding horses (it's been a while), love the ocean (boogeyboarding!) and rollercoasters make me very happy.

I'm looking for an intelligent, educated, funny, stable adult who is sort of a boy at heart, someone adventurous and spontaneous but sophisticated, well-bred but kinda dirty. I prefer cute over rugged, though it depends on the guy. Science nerds are hot (someone to juxtapose to an arts guy like me). My dream boy would be a sexy, creative, hilarious, genius.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm performing, directing, educating, meditating, saving money to buy a place (eventually), exercising, traveling, and other "ings" that I can't think of now...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing, acting, conversing, teaching, languages, kissing, math...
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes or my voice
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Star Wars, Star Trek, KickAss, Matrix, Lord of the Rings, Empire of the Sun, Moulin Rouge, Sound of Music, Harry Potter, Kill Bill, Pride and Prejudice, V For Vendetta, Batman Begins/Dark Knight and many others...

Books: Anna Karenina, Pride and Prejudice, East of Eden, Count of Monte Cristo, Three Musketeers, House of Mirth, and many others...

Music: Opera, Grateful Dead, Musicals, Baroque, Led Zeppelin, John Denver, many others...

Food: I'm mostly vegetarian (occasionally a bit of fish). Really love Mexican, Chinese, Thai, a great sandwich, fresh seafood...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, my Kindle, my Droid, burritos, my DVR, singing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At dinner and a movie with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm HIV positive
You should message me if
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You're a fun, energetic, incredibly intelligent guy who is sexually adventurous (helpful if you're more of a bottom) and looking for a potential long-term relationship.