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40 Bloomington, IN Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Jul 27
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly vegan
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey, fellas! Thanks for checking out my profile.

First off, one thing you should note is that I’m on here for friendship or casual dating. I’m not interested in any long-term relationships right now, nor am I looking for a friend with benefits. I’m really just seeking someone to go out with and have some fun.

I have a variety of interests, from movies to fashion to music to video games to . . . whatever. I’m pretty open to new experiences, and I like to be around people who are the same. There’s a lot to experience in this world, and too many people limit their lives and miss out on a lot of what the world has to offer.

Ideally, I’d like to find people who are educated, have a good sense of humor, and like adventure. Someone who is confident and happy with himself is a huge plus. Just be aware that arrogance does not equate to confidence. If you’re someone whose sense of self-fulfillment comes from attempting to make others seem or feel lesser, then we’re not likely to get along.

I work as an editor, and I have a tendency to be a bit of an English snob. If you message me, please use actual words! If you send me textspeak, I'm likely not to respond.

Anyway, I encourage you to check out the info to the right for more info on me. There are things about me (for example, being a vegan and being agnostic) that make me a poor match for many people in this area. It doesn't mean that if you're not vegan or if you're religious that we won't get along, but these are decisions I've made about my life that aren't going to change, so if they bother you, you might want to reconsider contacting me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to enjoy myself as much as possible.

That's pretty much it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Anything I set my mind to.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Used to be my eyes. Now probably my very red hair. Either that or the tattoos I have on my forearms.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A sampling:

Alice in Wonderland
The Hobbit
House of Leaves
Where the Wild Things Are

American Movie
Black Swan
Donnie Darko
Jacob's Ladder
Monty Python and the Holy Grail
The Muppet Movie
The Nightmare Before Christmas
Pink Floyd: The Wall
The Princess Bride
Puff the Magic Dragon

I can't even think of where to start. I tend to be pretty eclectic. Except I hate country. Really hate country.

Aver's Cuban Black Bean Pizza (without cheese, of course)
Dark Chocolate Dreams Peanut Butter
Thai food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog Blitz
My cat Chess
Peanut butter
Looney Tunes
"Me" time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the rest of my life will be. Reaching 40 can make you reevaluate how and with whom you spend your time. I'm trying to determine exactly what I want out of the rest of my life and what I need to do to achieve it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out and enjoying myself, talking to my best friend over Skype, or relaxing with the dog and cat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I add it to my profile, it's not really private, right?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
• You're going to start off with more than "Hey" or "Hello." At least act like you've read my profile.
• You can carry on an intelligent conversation
• You think Monty Python, Kids in the Hall, Ricky Gervais, mid-'90s Simpsons, Dr. Katz, and MST3K are hilarious
• You're confident and happy with who you are (not overcompensating and arrogant)
• You like animals