I don't know whether it's due to sloth or attention seeking, but would like everyone new to sum me up themselves. I'd rather give you only few random facts to get you started and confused. Honestly: the world would be so much better a place, if instead of a job application I could just send in a bunch of results of random online tests, an inventory of my bookshelf and a list of answerless questions I tend to ponder upon while lying on my bed before falling asleep.

My committed, loving relationship with my fiancé kormalicious has been open since 2011, and since then I've come out to myself as polyamorous and "polydateous". Still not sure of "polyrelationshipous", though (yeah - I'm also known to make up new words when in need). Anyways, it could be YOU convincing me if you happen to drop in my lap and sweep me off my feet.

After few years' lingering around, I'm now studying social services aiming to be a sexual educator or counsellor. When it comes to personal growth, I am a cliché: the teenage me "improving matches" here for the first time was horrified of commitment, afraid of kids and scared of not being an artistic soul. Now I catch myself dreaming of a wedding, kids and having an actual profession and job. And the very essence of me is still there.

making up new words, terms and unlikely metaphors, entertaining cats, devoting to always new interesting areas of knowledge, noticing funny details, cute animals, weird caterpillars, babies and stylish hats, empathising, hugging and having hours-long conversations.

It used to be old fashioned hats, high heels and long gloves but I have mostly settled down with tennis shoes. Often it's my poorly hidden enthusiasm you can't miss. Or my three cats I push around in an old baby pram.

Biographies, Edith Södergran, Tove Jansson, Leena Krohn, Hours, István Örkény, Jeffrey Eugenides,Auringon asema, Vigdís Grímsdóttir, anything psychological. Short stories and random poetry. Non-fiction is the newest trend.

Innocence (by Lucile Hadzihalilovic), Orlando, Shortbus, Black Swan, Billy Elliot, I Heart Huckabees, Lost In Translation, Kinsey. Strange pictures of the human nature.

I rather tend to like random songs and albums than to be faithful to a certain band or artist. Eleanoora Rosenholm, Jill Tracy, Tenhi, the Gathering, the White Stripes, the Cure, DJ Slow, Kitkerät Neitsyet, Tori Amos, Fiona Apple, Emilie Autumn, Dresden Dolls, bhangra... The Ark and Placebo albums from my teen years. Smoky jazz, ethnic rhythms, Ravel, Prokovjev. Slight fetish with the sound of a cello, a harp and a contra bass.

Many things lacto-ovo vegetarian or vegan. Forever-aching sweet tooth, really.

My spontaneity.
Moments of awe.
My loved ones.
Trust in people.
Sunlight.
Kitties.

absolute squee, family politics, chocolate cake, the absurdity of relationships, the human psyche, how it feels to be pregnant, sexual development of early age and transgender issues.

sleeping at home but ideally cuddling in a heap of woderful people/ creatures.

Basicly I'm open to tell you anything you really want to know, as long as it's not violating my loved ones' privacy.

I often find myself turned on by transmasculinity, even though I find it unfair to like a guy because of his history as a female. Nonbinary transmasculinity really does the trick. Maybe there's something in them being brought up as a female/girl that makes it different - the combination of the shared reality and the masculinities I do not relate to. Anyways, it makes me purr.

- you consider yourself queer enough to avoid traditional hetero encounters with me. I might be consistent with my gender but please don't expect me to.

- you are an art photographer and would like to teach me to pose for you.

Though I'm still new to polyamory, I'm not looking for a mentor or a sugar daddy. Challenge me to pick YOU up.