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nifangsi

29 M Palo Alto, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:36pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Okay), Farsi (Poorly), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
A student of many things, looking around, through, and within. INFP, yin with yang inside, a pedant and a sweetheart. Like to dance, love to eat.
What I’m doing with my life
Recently moved to California (but I'm not exactly new) and started a postdoc out here. Still putting down roots and getting oriented, but trying to enjoy myself along the way--helped along by regular infusions of food, fantasy novels, and friendly fellowship.
I’m really good at
forgetting names, making tea, stirring fry, getting someone else to drive, writing, reading~ *looks up from book, peers at you, slowly turning page with a seductively extended finger. still looking straight at you. that's your book. it's upside down. what do you mean 'what are you doing here, get out now?' why doesn't this ever work? gathers up lockpicks and huffily leaves*
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Social Stratification of English in New York, Lord of the Rings, A Home at the End of the World, Ubik, Cloud Atlas, The Left Hand of Darkness

Movies: Farewell My Concubine, Lord of the Rings, Chungking Express, Fargo, Spirited Away, Wild Reeds, Nausicaa of the Valley of the Winds

Music: Goldfrapp, Faye Wong, Sigur Ros, Cocteau Twins, Armin van Buuren, Lange, Air, Kate Bush, Underworld, Way Out West, Trentemoller, Joe Hisaishi, Tori Amos and of course more

Food: comfort food, spice that isn't just spicy for its own sake, fresh fruit, juice, sweets of all sorts (see also six things, below), mapo tofu, hongshao pork, pizza, noodles
The six things I could never do without
sunlight,
noodles,
hoodies,
oranges,
nice desk chairs,
made-up words
I spend a lot of time thinking about
intractable stuff,
the sun lighting up the water in the toilet bowl (it's really cool),
signs,
cleaning up house

also, the semantics of the phrase "most private" and why your answer to the "most private thing I'm willing to admit" question sucks. and is not at all clever.
On a typical Friday night I am
Writing, out drinking/having dinner with friends, good old fashioned netflixin'
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
…You're a thoughtful fellow with a nice smile.
…You dont have any racist/misogynistic bullshit in your questions or god help you your profile.
…You want.