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52 M New Britain, CT

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Trying to quit
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
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Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary

Let's start this off right. I'm a man. That should explain a few things right there.

Need more?

I was separated for a long two years and am finally divorced in November of '11. So no need to worry about rebound. It was over quite long ago. I love my non-biological kids as if they were my own. I've known them since they were 3 and 5. They are 19 and 21 now and both busy off in college.

So where does that leave me and what does that mean for you? What am I doing here? Do I want a relationship? Well, yeah. I am definitely missing someone special in my life.

I know, I know, but what kind of person am I?

I guess I'll go with the usual suspects. I'm caring, gentle, patient, respectful, and loving to my friends and family. (References upon request ;-) ) I like to laugh and my wit is quick if at times dry or laced with sarcasm. I like the Red Sox and the Seattle Seahawks. I've got eh, 15lbs to lose. Try to hit the gym three or four times a week. More on a good week. I love to be outdoors and like to hike quite often, even if I might need motivation sometimes. I love the arts and used to do a LOT of theater. Life had kinda gotten in the way. Recently directed one and acted in three others in an evening of one acts.

Anything else? I'm sure there is. Just ask.


"Wherefore art thou Romeo?" Why are you, the one I love, Romeo Montague? The one person I dare not love, dare not hope to have.
What I’m doing with my life
Besides the mundane work a day things like trying to get my feet back under me; I write a blog. I won't bore you here w how it started. I'll tell ya if you're really interested. It's all about our human interaction and what lessons we can all learn from each other. If you'd like to take a peek it's called Notes From the Night Shift.
You don 't need the www, promise. If this site crosses that URL out I can give it to you or just search the title.
I’m really good at
Listening. People like to talk to me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I haven't a clue. Maybe you can tell me some time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I've read a lot of fantasy stuff. Yes, swords and sorcery and all that. I love Kurt Vonnegut. And other stuff.

I watch Ancient Aliens, Decoded and other such stuff on Discovery, TLC, and the Science Channel. I'm no conspiracy theorist. I just like to hear how things from our past may have shaped our now. I like Bones, Harry's Law and a few others, but I don't really watch all that much.

I love film. Oldies and new. I'll watch just about any movie and you're more than likely to see me choking up over the most mundane of scenes. For many reasons. Either some deeper meaning the director is poking at us, some beautiful vista, idk, depends what and when.

Music? Let's say I like just about everything. From 12th century folk songs to today. Except the gaping whole that Rap would fill. ;-)
The six things I could never do without

Some kind of relationship with the kids.
My iPhone. (Yeah... Ughhh!)
The potential for change
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How underneath it all, we're all the same. We all have the same basic needs, desires, fears, and hopes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Friday seems to be pizza night of late.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I probably already have. If there's something specific just ask.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 42–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating